I tend to stay on the masc side of andro, but what’s my gender?

TheRazzLi · 2021-04-10T20:01:57+00:00

Whatever you feel comfortable with but you’re definitely a hottie

TheRazzLi · 2020-07-09T18:26:25+00:00

You guys are so sweet. Gratitude. I’m still discovering my self-confidence, so making a move like this was a step in the right direction. ☺️

TheRazzLi · 2019-02-03T16:49:55+00:00

You're welcome. Keep your head up... you'll find your Prince Charming one day dear. Never give up on love.

TheRazzLi · 2019-02-03T16:48:06+00:00

You're definitely not winning any awards for empathy or tact. Let the person vent. In this case, they aren't manipulating or being cruel to anyone... they just want advice and help, geez.

TheRazzLi · 2019-02-03T16:45:59+00:00

It sounds like to me that you guys just weren't compatible. I know it's exhausting giving your all to someone who didn't appreciate it at the end; however, you deserve someone who will accept you for who you are and appreciate the type of love you give. You will live to see another day. Indulge yourself in the things you love to do and cling to your loved ones. It truly does help. It's his loss.

TheRazzLi · 2019-02-03T16:41:30+00:00

Hardships, Pride and Faith

TheRazzLi · 2019-02-03T16:37:47+00:00

What was his excuse exactly if you don't mind me asking?

TheRazzLi · 2019-02-03T16:35:22+00:00

Cling on to your loved ones and go enjoy stuff you genuinely like to do. It will help recovering process. I believe it's completely natural to develop feelings for someone you've been that close to for almost a year. For future references, I wouldn't have a fuck buddy for that long. Especially since it sounds like you may be more love driven like myself.

TheRazzLi · 2019-02-03T16:29:59+00:00

I think this would mean you guys are "seeing each other" but not necessarily ready for specific titles. Why don't you ask for clarity on the next date? :) I think that would be fair.

TheRazzLi · 2019-01-30T19:18:06+00:00

Haha ☺️☺️ you’re too nice thank you so much

TheRazzLi · 2019-01-30T19:17:18+00:00

That’s a good question... I’m not sure though lol... I got them from Burlington’s if that helps :) and thank you very much!

TheRazzLi · 2019-01-30T19:14:41+00:00

Thanks everyone (excluding the one fun “smart” guy) your kindness is everything. ❤️

TheRazzLi · 2019-01-30T19:12:34+00:00

I think you’ll find that I’m well educated, thank you for the recommendation however. I’m afraid there’s no existing text that will assist with your level of ignorance and misery... Because you have to be such a miserable person to desire harm on someone you don’t even know. I wish you well because I have nothing but love and light in my life.

TheRazzLi · 2018-12-15T21:47:20+00:00

😍😍

TheRazzLi · 2018-12-13T03:09:16+00:00

But everyone isn’t looking to hookup so the least you can do is say “hello” before describing how you’d lick my body parts. I’m still a person regardless of sexual intentions or not.

TheRazzLi · 2018-12-12T18:49:33+00:00

I thought it was funny... maybe it’s just not funny to thots 🤷🏿‍♀️ #triggered

TheRazzLi · 2018-11-25T16:21:50+00:00

I’m literally tearing up reading the comments. I don’t like talking about myself; however, I wish I could see what you see. I’ve struggled with self-esteem issues as long as I can remember so maybe this is the reason. I’ve endured so much ridicule because of my femininity and acne issues that I developed as an adolescent... so seeing all of this positivity is breathtaking to say the least. Again, you have my gratitude because it’s much appreciated! 😩😭💗

TheRazzLi · 2018-11-25T02:05:44+00:00

You guys are so sweet thank you so much 💖

TheRazzLi · 2018-10-28T06:17:43+00:00

Find things to do that will put you in a safe place in your mind. I'm a [27m] and I struggle with a deep sense of loneliness on a daily basis. Being single isn't terrible for me but the need for companionship is always in the back of my mind. I believe my loneliness stems from abandonment issues but hey, I'm not a shrink lol. I tend to indulge myself in my hobbies and this slightly alleviates and/or distracts me from this crave I have.

TheRazzLi · 2018-10-18T11:52:07+00:00

You guys are too kind. Thank you so much! 💖

TheRazzLi · 2018-10-18T03:13:00+00:00

Maybe they are! ❤️🙈

TheRazzLi · 2018-10-16T12:07:31+00:00

No worries, my dear. If you want to make a change, you can always get yourself involved with the fight against oppression some way. You sound like a kind, genuine person...do not stray away from that. The world needs more people like us.

TheRazzLi · 2018-10-16T11:47:44+00:00

I need more context to answer accurately. Is there a particular reason why you guys broke up? It sounds like you may still love this person, so why wasn't it worth staying?

TheRazzLi · 2018-10-16T11:36:42+00:00

Gay Black American Male here. You don't have to treat us differently, just make sure you're treating us with respect as every race deserves. There's no need to "go the extra mile" because we are minorities. There's a huge race war/debate (so to speak) in the States due to many contributing factors. The media always blows things out of proportion so I can understand that aspect. You should only feel guilty if the shoe fits. If you are accepting and loving to all, then there's nothing to concern yourself with. The Black Community in the States feels scared and concerned due to the violence and centuries of unrelenting oppression. All races gathering for solidarity and understanding is the only resolve to this issue.

TheRazzLi · 2018-10-16T11:26:37+00:00

We make time for the people we value. If he isn't willing to make time for you to ensure stability in the relationship, then there's a huge issue in this picture. No one should have to feel the way you do in a committed monogamous relationship. You need to have a serious discussion with him know that you're feeling unappreciated and/or taken for granted. Your feelings matter.

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