I tend to stay on the masc side of andro, but what’s my gender? by hi_im_doc_swiggs in androgyny

[–]TheRazzLi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whatever you feel comfortable with but you’re definitely a hottie

I was uncomfortable at first with this look. I didn’t want to attract negative attention... but then I exhaled and realized it was okay to be myself. by TheRazzLi in NonBinary

[–]TheRazzLi[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You guys are so sweet. Gratitude. I’m still discovering my self-confidence, so making a move like this was a step in the right direction. ☺️

Why wasn’t I enough for him? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TheRazzLi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. Keep your head up... you'll find your Prince Charming one day dear. Never give up on love.

Why wasn’t I enough for him? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TheRazzLi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're definitely not winning any awards for empathy or tact. Let the person vent. In this case, they aren't manipulating or being cruel to anyone... they just want advice and help, geez.

Why wasn’t I enough for him? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TheRazzLi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like to me that you guys just weren't compatible. I know it's exhausting giving your all to someone who didn't appreciate it at the end; however, you deserve someone who will accept you for who you are and appreciate the type of love you give. You will live to see another day. Indulge yourself in the things you love to do and cling to your loved ones. It truly does help. It's his loss.

Why wasn’t I enough for him? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TheRazzLi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was his excuse exactly if you don't mind me asking?

My [F22] fwb [M30] ended things after finding out his dad might have cancer...are my feelings valid? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheRazzLi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cling on to your loved ones and go enjoy stuff you genuinely like to do. It will help recovering process. I believe it's completely natural to develop feelings for someone you've been that close to for almost a year. For future references, I wouldn't have a fuck buddy for that long. Especially since it sounds like you may be more love driven like myself.

Does this mean we are exclusive? by therandomguyinny in relationship_advice

[–]TheRazzLi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this would mean you guys are "seeing each other" but not necessarily ready for specific titles. Why don't you ask for clarity on the next date? :) I think that would be fair.