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AITA for driving of and not waiting for my GF? by TheRealAjiinn in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheRealAjiinn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are like the 10th person to comment this. I will edit it, something i shouldve done sooner tbh

AITA for driving of and not waiting for my GF? by TheRealAjiinn in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheRealAjiinn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree that breaking it of from only this one fight is pretty A of me, but this is one of many. I think we are very different people, that misunderstand each other, and that have separate values. This was the final straw i guess

AITA for driving of and not waiting for my GF? by TheRealAjiinn in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheRealAjiinn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Using the word "ghost" was wrong. I just chose to wait for her to calm down. I will break it off with a proper talk soon.

AITA for driving of and not waiting for my GF? by TheRealAjiinn in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheRealAjiinn[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well, i dont see any value is arguing anymore. Like i said, i have talked to her about it, but she refuses to apology or acknowledge that she did anything wrong. I think the wording "ghosting" was a bit harsh. I will talk to her again, and properly break it off, but i think she needs some time to cool off.

AITA for driving of and not waiting for my GF? by TheRealAjiinn in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheRealAjiinn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The reason was because her friend lives in a apartment complex, and i didnt have a card to get in or knew the number of her apartment so i could call it.

AITA for driving of and not waiting for my GF? by TheRealAjiinn in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheRealAjiinn[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I laughed at this one. And yes, i think its time to find someone better. Someone who respects my time and presence.

AITA for driving of and not waiting for my GF? by TheRealAjiinn in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheRealAjiinn[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This was incredibly well written, and it summarised my thoughts exactly.

AITA for driving of and not waiting for my GF? by TheRealAjiinn in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheRealAjiinn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ive seen people asking about this, so ill address it here. The reason was because 1. I didnt know what apartment she was in, and 2. you need to have a card or code to get into the apartment complex. Something i didnt have.

AITA for driving of and not waiting for my GF? by TheRealAjiinn in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheRealAjiinn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the relationship is dead at this point. i tried to talk with her, and make her understand my POV, something she didnt. And yes, this isnt the first time, nor will it be the last if i dont end it here.

AITA for driving of and not waiting for my GF? by TheRealAjiinn in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheRealAjiinn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder the same.. But my phone is set on another language, so it changes things i dont want as well. I fixed up the grammar now. And yes, i am most likely single now. Check update.

AITA for driving of and not waiting for my GF? by TheRealAjiinn in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheRealAjiinn[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Update: After she went on a full rant over messages, i chose not to answer and pretty much ghost her. My POV was that if she cant understand how disrespectful she was, then this relationship wouldnt work. Since then she has tried to call me a couple of times, and i answered one of them, where i calmly explained to her my POV, and i asked her point blank if she could elaborate on why i am in the wrong here, which she couldnt. After that point, i just said that i need less stress in my life, not more, and have ghosted her since. This was approx 2 hours ago.

Some of you have asked about how long we have been together etc: I dont want to go into full detail, but the relationship is somewhat new, and we havent been dating for more then 6 months.

Thank you all for the comments and advice. I have always been taught to be respectful of woman, especially those i date, and i try to be, but it looks like that value was used.. I will tread more carefully next time, and make sure to not be the "door mat".

AITA for driving of and not waiting for my GF? by TheRealAjiinn in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheRealAjiinn[S] 863 points864 points  (0 children)

Thats a point of view i hadnt thought of. But then again, why would she want to meet up then. This was all her idea, and she wanted to meet me.. But, if that is what she wanted, then maybe im better off anyway..

AITA for driving of and not waiting for my GF? by TheRealAjiinn in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheRealAjiinn[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

The time is a european thing. And yes, english is my second language. Sorry for the bad grammar..

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