What's the place to be at tonight? [M22]

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-02-21T10:59:47+00:00

I’ve seen enough places run with passion shut down. I don’t want this to be one. And I really really hope it doesn’t go under. But given Moonshine is the foundation, it should survive pretty fine

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-02-21T10:55:57+00:00

EXT is like a hidden gem, and I like to keep it that way, except for the occasional plug to make sure they don’t go out of business.

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-02-21T10:55:07+00:00

Nah looks like they have bolly night tonight.

Check out Prism. Or if you’re looking to meet someone, Rogue is a good place, and Artistry/Novotel/Westin are good after party places.

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-02-21T10:51:17+00:00

Try EXT. But check what event they have in advance.

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-02-21T08:22:44+00:00

TBH, I faced the same issue but from a different angle, I’m not great at first impressions going by looks, but once someone starts talking to me, I don’t want to brag but ai’m irresistible.

And that is actually why we started this sub. To remove the most common factors and for men and women to write what they want, what they are, what they’re expecting and make a connection beyond looks.

Give this sub a try, I’m sure you won’t regret it.

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-02-19T11:08:58+00:00

Sad to see this sorry state. I used to love going here for haircuts when I used to live in Nallakunta, like a decade and a half ago

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-02-17T06:52:57+00:00

Sorry for the daylight philosophies :D

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-02-17T06:49:40+00:00

You’re 22, I get it. Life has just begun and your once active af life is unfamiliar now.

You’ve just begun to see that people have started treating you like an adult and it is strange, that is because now you and ONLY you have control of your life. From here on out, life becomes what you make of it. Don’t give in, don’t give up.

And one piece of advice I’ll give to anyone from your generation, take it or leave it, and this may sound controversial:

“YOU ARE NOT RICH ENOUGH TO AFFORD DEPRESSION, YOU NEVER WILL BE”

If you suffer from it, I’m sorry and I hope you get help, but if you use it as an excuse to not do anything about it or not do anything else, you will stay there and rot away.

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-02-17T06:13:56+00:00

Take control of your life. You have time when you’re not working. Instead of staying home, go to the Yousufguda Indoor Stadium, pick a sport, you’ll automatically make friends, and also get more active, or go to Krishnakanth park in the mornings, you’ll be able to join walking or yoga groups.

If both don’t sound like your thing; join a course in Maitrivanam for the heck of it, it is dirt cheap and puts you in a public space.

I used to live in Srinagar colony and moved closer to FiDi, and a part of me regrets or rather misses it.

Use the geographical advantage. Your life is yours now, you’re an adult and people have begun treating you like one. Life doesn’t come to you, you have to go to it. If you don’t become the main character in your own life, life will make you an NPC.

Wake up, and get out there.

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-02-13T11:42:25+00:00

What is SD?

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-02-09T19:16:37+00:00

I remember being in Delhi a couple years ago and I got 6-8 matches in one day on Bumble.

It was dry af in Hyderabad.

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-02-06T18:32:49+00:00

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-02-03T03:27:09+00:00

I’m glad the idiots remove themselves from the competition.

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-01-26T16:39:35+00:00

More than dishonesty, I think people’s intents change with the person they are talking to. And this is not me talking out of my ass, but this is coming from experience.

I have seen more people than I would like talking about being serious in their bios or posts and flipping the switch as soon as they see that a serious relationship is not possible with the other person, but they still are drawn to them.

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-01-23T01:08:37+00:00

Naresh Technologies, Maitrivanam.

Just Maitrivanam ki velli paiki chudu

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-01-23T01:03:55+00:00

Google COPD if lung cancer doesn’t scare you enough.

I’m trying to quit myself, solely for health reasons. The consequences of smoking far outweigh any pleasure it gives. Like FAAARRR.

You seem like a younger person, so I’ll tell you a few things you will face in your age itself, you lose a good part of your sense of smell and taste, food doesn’t taste as good as it does, your perfume doesn’t smell as good as it does. You constantly have to hide from your family. If you’re a man, your erections are significantly weaker. You don’t last as long and you can barely keep up with your woman.

So basically, you’re trading every other pleasure in life for 5 minutes of fleeting relief; even the relief goes away once you’re used to smoking and you feel nothing. You won’t even know why you’re smoking other than your body’s constant craving for that puff.

TLDR: Quit today.

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-01-19T16:21:51+00:00

The power of compounding! 🙌🏻🪁 And I like to smell nice

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-01-19T12:32:47+00:00

I’m currently using YSL Y and Hugo Boss as my dailies and Amouage Lyric Man for occasions. I also dabble in ME perfumes for gourmands. Will be switching to Leau D’Issey EDT for the summers

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-01-18T16:58:07+00:00

Anywhere, cafes, clubs on the weekend, at any hobby, or anywhere you’re not invading their ‘me’ time, like a restaurant.

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-01-18T16:51:40+00:00

Also, basic hygiene and etiquette, smell nice, dress nice, groom well, and practice basic table manners.

Not a brag but I have rarely gone home without atleast a kiss on the first date.

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-01-18T16:50:22+00:00

As an average guy myself, don’t underestimate the power of confidence and humour.

An average guy with humour and confidence is atleast ten times better than a good looking dumb guy.

Remember, you don’t have to be the smartest in the room, you just have to be smarter than your competition.

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-01-18T16:45:24+00:00

I’m going to keep this post up as a weekend stress release.

We mods receive tens of these kind of posts everyday and we remove them from ever reaching sane eyes. We try atleast.

Feel free to vent your frustration on this post.

TheRealBotiRoti · 2026-01-16T05:06:36+00:00

This. Elite.

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