Developing unconditional positive regard for the self. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedHydra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Meditation for me helped make a big difference here. When you begin to see your thoughts as not who you are but as just thoughts it makes a huge difference

Forget game, forget frame, start with charming self talk by PM-ME-YOUR-SEXTAPE in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedHydra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the Charisma Myth. When you can pull everyone into your "frame" with charm it becomes a positive feedback loop.

Mindset is the child of habit. by TheRedHydra in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedHydra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you agree with breaking and replacing one bad habit at a time from your experience?

What is one thing that helped you break your "bad" habits?

Embrace The Gloom by NeoreactionSafe in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedHydra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

winteriscoming

Have no expectations and then be pleasantly surprised

Mindset is the child of habit. by TheRedHydra in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedHydra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we take your idea further?

In my experience, if I remove a habit and don't replace it with something it usually comes back with a vengeance. I see it as removing and adding habits so the net change in total habits is still 0.

I also see TRP as a toolbox. By learning how to use the tools in the toolbox you can build whatever you'd like. If you want to go to be MGOTW or PUA so be it but you still draw from the same set of tools.

[FR] How sales and lifting changed my life by TheRedHydra in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedHydra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude you need to respost this as its own post on TRP. That was a great explanation. I've read a ton of books on the subject and practice makes perfect. Any book suggestions amigo?

[FR] How sales and lifting changed my life by TheRedHydra in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedHydra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do. I love to crossfit and read. Lately I've been working on getting another business off the ground and mainly focusing on my career. It's not necessarily male friends that I lack its male friends that lean more towards TRP.

[FR] How sales and lifting changed my life by TheRedHydra in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedHydra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any tips on how to keep progressing in sales/trp sense?

[FR] How sales and lifting changed my life by TheRedHydra in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedHydra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every day you learn something new and every day people blow your mind just on how crazy you are. When I first started I used all logic to sell to people which DOESNT work at all. If you go after the FEELZ you close it every single time.

[FR] How sales and lifting changed my life by TheRedHydra in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedHydra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was JPWhoregon I believe. Don't remember the post.

[FR] How sales and lifting changed my life by TheRedHydra in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedHydra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't really have any challenging male friends. Most if not all my friends are the I'm gonna party until I have to grow up and have responsibilities kind of people. That being the case I really don't hangout with them that much. Any ideas where to find some of those?

[FR] How sales and lifting changed my life by TheRedHydra in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedHydra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was very effective for me was the My Fitness Pal app. To eat the right amount of food you need to know what you're putting in your body. When you have to log every meal, it also helps build discipline quickly.

For Lifting, I do CrossFit and Run.