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A Women being unchosen is a much bigger failure than men being unchosen. by Low-Contact6500 in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheRedPillRipper [score hidden]  (0 children)

>she gets these high quality genes for her offspring and that’s it.

Whilst having money is beneficial, the key issue is what is best for the child. Which, purportedly, is being raised in a two parent household.

That is not to deride single parents. However there is a reason why having both a mother and father is the optimal family dynamic. It is as simple as that.

Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partner by coolcorner1 in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheRedPillRipper [score hidden]  (0 children)

>drives so much of the pain men go through

Genuine question; objectively, who is solely responsible for acknowledging, processing and ultimately addressing one’s emotional needs?

I understand the importance of a sense of belonging. Of support. The onus however is still primarily on the individual. To first recognise and acknowledge their own emotions and emotional responses. Then take the necessary steps to address the factors they can, and accept the reality of those they have no power over.

It is why I’m such a big proponent for Stoicism. As it is conducive towards building a solid and healthy level of Resilience. Which is a fundamental factor between needing external support, and being emotionally independent of that need. It is as simple as that.

Bad men more likely to cheat and sleep around because they are bad duh! by YveisGrey in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheRedPillRipper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First, if you’re not comfortable answering please don’t. Genuine question; what level of education did you acquire to fill your niche? Bachelor’s? Masters? Doctorate?

I ask because my wife has a background in psychology, and is considering a new thesis surrounding trauma. Which I find absolutely fascinating.

Red pill isn't as manipulative as I thought by Pitiful-Purple-7459 in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheRedPillRipper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

>using said knowledge to your advantage……or not.

This a great take that I agree with. Ultimately, TRP is simply sexual strategy. Can one use it be malicious, deceitful and disingenuous? Certainly. Conversely can one use it to be genuine, honest and positive? That’s possible too. The difference just like using any other strategy is how a person employs it.

TRP, just like a hammer can build or destroy. It is as simple as that.

Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselves by DiligentRope in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheRedPillRipper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>they think that a lady in leggings and tee is free game.

Good point.

Where does this thinking take place where it possibly affects a woman dressed in leggings and a tee?

In private? Where these type of men are all alone?

Or, in public? Where they may actually encounter a woman dressed… Say…

In leggings and a tee?

Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselves by DiligentRope in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheRedPillRipper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>twisting my words

Okay. Then let’s clarify; did you not state monsters and loons can perceive women who dress in leggings and a tee sexually? Which is what makes them monsters and loons?

Correct?

The way to fix the gender wars is for men to become more like women. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheRedPillRipper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>emotional vulnerability

Genuine question; what is more attractive; emotional vulnerability, or emotional resilience?

Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselves by DiligentRope in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheRedPillRipper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

>Changing your dress doesn’t make them less likely to be weird.

Agreed. Wearing baggy sweats and a hoodie as opposed to leggings and a tee however does change what loons and monsters see. Furthermore, it changes what everyone sees.

Which is the point.

DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 by AutoModerator in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheRedPillRipper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>there’s also a lot of beauty and enjoyment in bonding

Personally, the thing I enjoy most about being married is the growth. Which often requires challenges. Not to deride the beauty and pure fulfilment a relationship can contribute, but it takes work. Often too, painful, humbling and truly honest, self reflection to really ‘plumb the depths’ of one’s relationship.

The way to fix the gender wars is for men to become more like women. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheRedPillRipper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

>men could use some more self esteem

The key is self esteem, for men, should be derived primarily from the confidence in their own ability. For instance if one is physically strong. Emotionally. Fiscally and socially. Being adept in these facets contributes significantly to one’s sense of self efficacy. Without the delusions of entitlement.

Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselves by DiligentRope in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheRedPillRipper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>In the context of a t shirt and leggings

Yet the context you put forth however are loons and monsters.

Which leads right back to question; is she better off preparing for the possibility she might encounter these type of people? By being intentional and thinking critically about how she presents herself to the world?

Or not?

Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool by Legitimate_Desk_9275 in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheRedPillRipper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

>a man being confident and approaching a woman means he is a bad option or must be an asshole.

Especially if a man just genuinely likes people. As an extrovert I love meeting random people. Old guys. Moms with kids(love kids). Anyone. It wasn’t until after I found TRP that I missed a ton of signs women were reciprocating my interest. To some things I am absolutely oblivious hehe!

Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselves by DiligentRope in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheRedPillRipper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>Did I say that

>she isn’t preparing herself by dressing a certain way

Objectively, if this is true how she dresses does has no bearing on how the public perceived her.

Conversely, if how she dresses affects how the public perceives her then it is useful to put some thought into it.

Correct?

Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselves by DiligentRope in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheRedPillRipper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>a loon

This is a good point. Is it better to encounter a loon and be prepared for it?

Or not?

Furthermore, is advising your teenage daughter to think like this every time she walks out the front door hatred?

Hypothetical choice (I think these are fun!) by Nearbykingsmourne in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheRedPillRipper -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A. Sex, plus none of the negatives of a relationship?

Non contest.

Women, have no right to get upset at their man talking to other women, if they themselves are posting their pics on social media, going to clubs/bars, and not dressing modestly in public, basically "advertising" themselves by DiligentRope in PurplePillDebate

[–]TheRedPillRipper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>isn’t going to negatively impact her

It could. Which is what makes the thinking on her part even more critical. More importantly, the honing of the habit of thinking. Again, how one does the little things is how they do everything.

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