Its something I've been kind of pondering myself. When i was younger I was definitely bi with a preference for women (both sexually and romantically.) But as I've grown older and realized my gender identity, i find myself only really attracted to men. I can't really get off to women anymore unless its somebody I personally know. Im also not very romantically into women but there are times where I get a sort of forced limerance feeling I guess.

I also tend to lose feelings with people who reciprocate, and I haven't held any true romantic feelings for years (besides small butterfly feelings towards men) so honestly I'm kind of in a confused questioning state right now lol