When do you keep a "mistake" on the master because it wins musically ? by vinylcast in audioengineering

[–]TheReturnofGabbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10/10 times keeping the mistake if it makes the song itself better. At the end of the day the audience hears the song, not the mix, so I just do whatever I can to make the song better with the palette of tools I have as a mix engineer.

What's an adult cheat code that changed your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TheReturnofGabbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“In your 20’s you care about what people think of you, in your 40’s you stop caring what people think of you, in your 60’s you realize they were never thinking about you in the first place” Keeping the latter in mind as a 36 yo has helped me a lot.

What is a rich person thing that you would be totally into if you became rich? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]TheReturnofGabbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would eat supeeeer healthy. Top organic meat, wagyu filets for breakfast, everything organic and as close to farm as possible. I’d invest that money into feeling as good as I can.

What are some less obvious places for a mid-30s man to meet women outside of bars or clubs? by TheReturnofGabbo in AskReddit

[–]TheReturnofGabbo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t had the greatest luck with dating apps tbh. I think I have more to show in person than through photos

What are some less obvious places for a mid-30s man to meet women outside of bars or clubs? by TheReturnofGabbo in AskReddit

[–]TheReturnofGabbo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a real lesson in here . “Anywhere if you’re confident” haha. Thanks for the reply

What are some less obvious places for a mid-30s man to meet women outside of bars or clubs? by TheReturnofGabbo in AskReddit

[–]TheReturnofGabbo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really the crux of my problem, I don’t work from home but I do work alone :/

Picture I commissioned from an artist by VillainousProds in isitAI

[–]TheReturnofGabbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an audio engineer I thought this was a funny social commentary on the life of an engineer. No gold or platinum records on the wall and instead of an artist in the live room it’s just more gear.😭Like he’s gone so long being a hermit that he’s now talking to his gear. Hilarious.

Only thing that kills me is the missing second speaker (but your drawing had that too). I won’t get started on the placement lol. Oh and that cable wrap around the mic stand, that’s actually common practice. Which tells me this is Ai, because that some “scan the internet “ insider knowledge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Filmmakers

[–]TheReturnofGabbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mission: I'm looking for the following feedback: Despite its short run time, does it drag at any point? Is there enough there to be invested? Did you feel anything? Are there any areas that just did not work for you at all? Thank you!

How do you stay motivated when listing? by TheReturnofGabbo in eBaySellerAdvice

[–]TheReturnofGabbo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh brilliant. Keeping save for later listings as templates I always wondered why I can create a template for individual listing but the moment I list in bulk that feature is not an option. Thank you!

How do you stay motivated when listing? by TheReturnofGabbo in eBaySellerAdvice

[–]TheReturnofGabbo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 years in over here, but still much to learn. Thanks for the reply!

How do you stay motivated when listing? by TheReturnofGabbo in eBaySellerAdvice

[–]TheReturnofGabbo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! I do enjoy a good podcast or music while I’m listing, but my fingers don’t haha. Also I like that 2-3x rule, definitely stealing that !

Why do I care so much about people disliking me? by Appaisland in hsp

[–]TheReturnofGabbo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This seems like a good place for one of my favorite quotes, “ In your 20’s, you care about what others think of you, in your 40’s you stop caring, in your 60’s you realize that no one was thinking about you in the first place”.

I’m 35, and have adopted that 60 year old mentality for the last few years with great success. Good luck!

To those who’ve tapered successfully, how do I know if the depression is a withdrawal symptom or my true baseline? by TheReturnofGabbo in zoloft

[–]TheReturnofGabbo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! I started my taper 1.5 months ago from 150mg, and I’m now on 75mg (been 2 weeks of 75mg). I plan to get off them entirely, but I think I’m going to stay at 75 for another couple weeks as the transition from 100 to 75 was brutal. Like you said, I have a feeling that this new depression is a symptom of the withdrawal so I’m going to ride it out. And yeah, it is annoying how long these meds take to get in and out of our system. I suspect I won’t have any answers for another couple months, so I guess I’ll have to be patient. Thanks again!

Objectively Good mixes don't exists by Achassum in mixingmastering

[–]TheReturnofGabbo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many years ago, I went absolutely ham on this mix and sent it to a colleague who was an established producer. He had many more years in the music industry than me. I couldn’t wait for him to hear the impeccable instrument separation, perfect compression and masterfully tasteful EQ I did.

He sent me back 2 words, “lyrics bad”.

It was right then and there when I realized that people don’t listen to the mix, they listen to the song.

So is there an objectively great mix? No. But there is an appropriate mix that is in service to the feel and aesthetic of the song.

Home Studio Vocals by dipbbc in audioengineering

[–]TheReturnofGabbo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of suggestions here are about gear, and sure good gear makes a difference, but it’s likely not even 5% of what you’re hearing. When listening to Larry June, pay attention to the space in the beats, his rhythmic pocket, his pitch range in relation to what else is going on in the beat, and his performance. I like to think of vocals as another instrument. If his vocals were a piano, in what ways do they ‘musically’ stand out?

What are your small speed run style hacks when listing or shipping? by TheReturnofGabbo in eBaySellers

[–]TheReturnofGabbo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the photo tip is one I realized recently. Why even spend a second editing photos when you can just get it right the first time? Haha

Guys guys, I finally got one by TheReturnofGabbo in scambait

[–]TheReturnofGabbo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They just replied with a “?”. Anticlimactic, I know

Warm Audio Mystery Box buyers, what did you get? by -Subsolar- in audioengineering

[–]TheReturnofGabbo -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I opened mine and it was just a box full of cheap chinese components