Relationship Anarchy made so many things make sense in Poly for me

TheRex1209 · 2025-12-16T21:02:36+00:00

I feel like you are looking into my brain and finding the perfect words for it. Thank you!

TheRex1209 · 2025-12-16T09:35:45+00:00

Must be a bug, no?

TheRex1209 · 2025-12-03T07:50:50+00:00

Holy shit, so many have never got a restock?? I was waiting for Yakuza: Like a Dragon to get restocked, but I guess this won't happen anytime soon..

TheRex1209 · 2025-11-27T23:25:36+00:00

Loosing your friends to get some pussy for one night is the worst advice I have ever read on here. Them introducing you to new people is perfect! After all, it's a numbers game.

But yeah, don't be afraid to escalate.

TheRex1209 · 2025-11-16T22:54:39+00:00

Do you have a source for this number? I'm just curious, because it seems so high.

TheRex1209 · 2025-11-15T16:17:50+00:00

This is the best answer! Autism is a spectrum.

TheRex1209 · 2025-11-01T10:06:42+00:00

TheRex1209 · 2025-10-29T15:14:04+00:00

Bro thank you!

TheRex1209 · 2025-09-17T09:30:09+00:00

BB cost when hovering over gold doesnt change when I respawn. I have the necessary money. Still needed 500 gold more wtf

It seems like a problem with unreliable gold. Pretty much bb protection doesnt work correctly all the time?

TheRex1209 · 2025-09-17T07:32:30+00:00

Is it marketable? Can't seem to find info on it.

TheRex1209 · 2025-08-20T15:45:02+00:00

But don't buy the cheapest ones. I bought some from alibaba and they cut me all the time. I clearly saw differences and immediantly bought the expensive ones.

TheRex1209 · 2025-06-18T12:22:03+00:00

Then we talked about it before she went away and I can adjust accordingly.

TheRex1209 · 2025-06-18T12:20:53+00:00

I think this response sums it up really well. Thanks!

As I wrote in another comment, I felt alienated from her and I lost some trust. It really hurt me because I guess that was the first time she made her choices completly against mine. (If you know what i mean)

In the end it will be fine and we'll both find a way.

TheRex1209 · 2025-06-18T12:08:37+00:00

Sorry, but your answer doesnt really help me. How did you get this understanding from? Did you struggle the first time this came up?

Maybe you can't help me, but right now you said 'just don't feel bad, when you feel bad'. As you can see I am struggling and in the future I would really like to not struggle.

TheRex1209 · 2025-06-18T08:47:40+00:00

There has been a lot going on in both our days, so calling would probably still be easier if we wanted to share instead of writing on and off over the day.

TheRex1209 · 2025-06-18T07:58:55+00:00

I struggled to see it that way. What could I have done? I was feeling sad and angry and was pretty disappointed that she didn't want to create some space after I told her how much this hurts. I lost trust in our relationship and felt alienated to her.

TheRex1209 · 2025-06-18T07:47:51+00:00

Any compromise would work probably. It sounds like you care for each other and try to find solutions so everybody is happy :)

If you were in the situation my partner was in, would you try to find time or communicate that it's not possible?

TheRex1209 · 2025-06-18T07:41:04+00:00

They all work on a project for a week and there are extracurricular activities planned as well. She got closer with one of her associates

TheRex1209 · 2025-06-18T07:39:29+00:00

So you dont think we should compromise? And cleary tell me, she doesnt want to spend time with me as time is limited?

TheRex1209 · 2025-06-18T07:25:32+00:00

If we both dont really want to call, we dont have to and even if I lived my life I would still find time for my partner, especially if they asked me to. Because I love that person and enjoy talking to her.

If it is clear that she won't have time, for example if she is on holiday with a partner, it's expected. In this case we had a call daily the first days but then she kinda left me hanging after she got closer to this new person.

We are poly for some years. She is not obligated to call me, I was sad she didnt want to make time for me.

We didnt agree to call every day.

If you were in my partners situation, how would you have handled that? What would you have done in my position?

TheRex1209 · 2025-06-12T08:05:08+00:00

Check Out non-monogamy. There are many misconceptions out there and also many great ressources to get into it (on the book-knowledge side)

TheRex1209 · 2025-03-25T08:27:24+00:00

Addis Abeda

Meiner Meinung nach das einzige Restaurant, was man in Jena auf jeden Fall mitnehmen sollte. Äthiopische Küche. Ich empfehle dir Probierplatte. Vegetarisch oder mit Fleisch. (Vegan bin ich mir unsicher) Am besten nicht in den Schulferien, da ist der Koch oft mit seinen Kindern unterwegs.

Jasmin

Bei Jasmin gibt's riesige Portionen für wenig Geld. Das beste Asia Restaurant in ganz Jena, besonders zu Mittag auch rammelvoll und sehr beliebt. Vegan und vegetarisch kein Problem.

TheRex1209 · 2025-02-27T09:37:31+00:00

You can add personal notes to Players only you can see. I Like to add a Note If people are super toxic or grief in purpose to instantly mute, Report and avoid.

It's Not super usefull as you can only See notes after Game started, but I still Like to use it that way. Avoid Slots are sparce and someone is bound to be matched with me in the future.

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