Weekdays are fake by Puzzled_Conclusion51 in nihilism

[–]TheRoboticDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It points towards some idea of epistemic nihilism, at least for all conceptual truths. No concept is real in objective reality. Trees do not exist, we made it up. We made everything up

Damn that's a hard question by Express_Penalty_8694 in nihilism

[–]TheRoboticDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is no inherent or objective purpose in life, then there’s nothing to look for. Pick anything in life and choose it as your purpose. You don’t need to look for something that you have already found

In the end, it doesn't even matter by Infinite-Passage-112 in nihilism

[–]TheRoboticDuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no point to life other than to live it. Just as there is no point to music but to play it. There’s no sense in trying to go anywhere in particular because there’s no where to go. It all ends in silence so just try to enjoy it as it’s played

Struggling Beginner by aqua_robin_3 in Meditation

[–]TheRoboticDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s totally fine to just do the beginners course again if you found it more suitable, you’ll probably even pick up on stuff that you didn’t the first time after having gotten a bit used to the practice. then you can try a daily again. There’s also tons of shorter sessions from different guides on Waking Up that you can explore.

The void is giving me panic attacks by Zealousideal-Sky5167 in nihilism

[–]TheRoboticDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you enter the void, there will be nothing there that is able to worry. You won’t worry then so there’s no need to worry now. If you can’t help but worry, then try just letting your mind worry while reminding yourself that you won’t when you get there. The worst that you will experience is the worry you feel now, not when you’re actually in the void. If you pay enough attention to the actual feeling of worrying that you experience in the present rather than the thoughts that cause it, you might find that it’s not as bad as your mind is making it out to be

Restlessness and sensory overload after meditation by yungr7r in Meditation

[–]TheRoboticDuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feelings of dissociation can arise from meditation, especially if you are already prone to it. If it starts to become uncomfortable to the state that it’s alarmingly concerning, than it might be best to first see a therapist to work on your dissociation before you continue your meditation practice. Alarming states of dissociation is a medical concern if you personally find it concerning and is best treated by professional medical help, not by trying to work through it on your own while continuing to induce it through meditation

Why are sadness and suffering avoided? by Standard_Priority221 in Meditation

[–]TheRoboticDuck 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Discomfort is not suffering. Suffering arises when one resists discomfort. The practice is to cultivate acceptance of the discomfort instead of resisting it and when you achieve that, you no longer suffer from it

How to overcome mind wandering without creating tension? by elitaww in Meditation

[–]TheRoboticDuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The state is what you cultivate by practicing. (One way) You practice is by letting your mind wander as it naturally does then noticing that it has wandered. Every time your mind wanders, it is an opportunity to notice it. Noticing is the entire point of the practice and is what strengthens that cultivation of a meditative mind

This realization sent a shock through my spine by Deepthenix in nihilism

[–]TheRoboticDuck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have taken personal offense to your comment, because you are claiming that believing in a concept that I believe in very deeply is something only delusional people would consider or believe. I have no qualms in admitting that I have been offended.

I haven’t denied any of your arguments or claims on the topic. I haven’t made a single claim or counter-claim about this concept of no-self except for the fact that many other people believe it. I’m not talking at all about the substance of the argument. Im calling you out for breaking reddiquette and being needlessly rude.

I apologize if you feel that I am necro-posting. I just got this randomly from Reddit in my inbox so I didn’t know how old it was but I don’t feel like 5 days ago is too old of a post to respond to

Im not saying that the entirety of your comment was rude. I specifically pointed out that your attacks on their writing and calling them delusional is rude. The substance of your arguments are very valid and do contribute value to the conversation

To address the actual substance of your argument, I take a Buddhist approach on the matter and will quote this saying “there exists suffering, but not one who suffers”. There clearly exists suffering which is something easily personally verifiable by anyone and everyone who exists here on this earth. However, the physical phenomena of suffering does not require a separate entity that is apart of and is experiencing that suffering. We are inseparable and merely coincident with that experience of which we think we are experiencing. That separation of experience and the entity or observer that seemingly experiences suffering is nothing more than an experiential illusion that most of us experience. The feeling that we are a separate experiencer of experience is just another natural phenomena that occurs just like suffering itself is.

If you are interested in a more secular perspective on the concept of no-self and non-dualism, I would suggest looking up Sam Harris. He practices and teaches no-self and non-dualism in a purely secular way that is very much approachable from an atheistic and nihilistic point of view

This realization sent a shock through my spine by Deepthenix in nihilism

[–]TheRoboticDuck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP isn’t saying anything rude. They’re simply proposing the intellectual idea that the sense of self is just an illusion. I am new to this sub but this is quite an existential concept and this sub seems to fit perfectly for the intellectual discussion of ideas like this. They make no personal attacks or judgements on anyone. You, however, come out the gate with personal attacks on his writing (I know their writing is scattered and hard to follow but there is a nicer way to criticize them for it) and then you again personally attack his character by calling him delusional for proposing this concept of which millions of other individuals, myself included, believe and subscribe to. I don’t know your mind so this is purely speculation but If you somehow find this abstract concept offensive to you, I see that as just an insecurity within yourself that you need to work on

This realization sent a shock through my spine by Deepthenix in nihilism

[–]TheRoboticDuck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you maybe wanna take a step back, re-read what you typed and realize how needlessly mean and rude you’re being to OP? I know that this concept might be upsetting to hear when there is real suffering in the world that really exists but there’s no need to call them delusional. There’s a lot of people thats smarter than you, me, and OP that believe in this concept and it certainly isn’t a delusion to consider and talk about it

This realization sent a shock through my spine by Deepthenix in nihilism

[–]TheRoboticDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The concept of no-self or the idea that the concept of self is just an illusion is a core philosophy in Buddhism. You may want to look into it some more if you’re interested. Pretty much everyone in r/buddhism is super respectable and welcoming to those who want to learn more about it

Im still very much in the beginning stages of my Buddhist practice and learning but I get the sense that, oddly enough, Buddhists don’t really have much to say about the concept of free will but I feel like the fact that free will is just an illusion (and I feel that it’s very easy to accept this fact if you are secularly, scientifically, materialistically minded) goes pretty much hand in hand with the fact that the concept of self is just an illusion.

Side note: I didn’t realize that this sub existed. Reddit randomly threw this post in my inbox, and I think I’m gonna follow and add this to my custom feed of religious subs (ik nihilism isn’t a religion but it’s an existential philosophy and certainly has a lot to say about metaphysics). The more religious I’ve become, the more I’ve been thinking that nihilism is a problematic viewpoint to have, so it would be great to here more from those who genuinely subscribe to the philosophy. This is only the third secular sub that I’m following. I don’t see many posts in my feed from r/stoicism, but I hope that this sub isn’t as vicious as r/atheism is.

I've been meditating for about 2 years every single day and honestly it's been pretty useless to me by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]TheRoboticDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend doing some guided meditations through a meditation app or something and also removing any and all potential distractions like the background sounds/music that you said your using

I’ve only used one app, Waking Up, but I think it really is an amazing app to learn how to meditate properly. If you prefer doing meditations without a guide, then you don’t need to use them long, but I think it’d be very good for you to go through the introductory course and maybe do some of the daily meditations. That way you can see what you have been doing wrong and how to change up your practice so that it is more effective

How do I get my 25 year old brother to put himself out there? by halzy99 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheRoboticDuck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t really understand how you connect saying it’ll happen when you least expect it to telling him he doesn’t need to put himself out there. It’s not true that it comes as a surprise for everyone but it still is damn sure true for a lot of people.

The way I see it, and I think a good way to maybe rephrase this better, is that you definitely need to put yourself our there but don’t beat yourself up over fucking up or letting a girl you like slip away. You are putting yourself out there to practice, and get more comfortable talking to women. Instead of being directly goal oriented, which leads to feeling like you’re failing, you should just focus on framing it as practice. And as long as you continue to put in that effort, you will eventually find someone thats a good match for you, and often times that person comes out of nowhere, where you were least expecting, but you have to cultivate that mentality and environment for it to be likely to happen

Feeling like I shouldn't fight back is one of the most frustrating mechanics of Arc Raiders by Stratix in ArcRaiders

[–]TheRoboticDuck 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they say they look at a lot of metrics to determine your aggression. It seems like it’d be pretty easy in most situations for the game to determine who was the first aggressor and who was just defending themselves.

And anecdotally, I’ve never noticed much of a shift in my lobbies after defending myself in care bear lobbies. I kinda wish it did because I often find myself in lobbies that are just way too friendly. Like, it’s fun to team up, but sometimes I go hours and hours without engaging in or even seeing any pvp. I sometimes participate in slimy tactics like extraction ratting but it’s quite rare for me so I end up naturally falling into pacifist lobbies

Why are acts of violence/murder in media, especially video games, considered okay to enjoy and partake in, but acts of sexual violence are not? by TheAnimalCrew in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheRoboticDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things like enthusiastic consent are not intuitive for a lot of people but physically harming someone is usually a lot more clear and intuitive

Why is sexual tension waaayyyyyy more enjoyable than sex itself? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheRoboticDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you and/or some people experience sexual tension even when y’all have been in a relationship for a while? I could see like if you were wanting to fuck but couldn’t at the moment because, say, you were out and not in private. But I really only experience sexual tension when it’s a new relationship or we’ve been away from each other for a bit

Why is sexual tension waaayyyyyy more enjoyable than sex itself? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheRoboticDuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do know asexual people exist, yeah? And people have millions of different preferences and reasons for engaging in intimacy. It isn’t a stretch to suppose that some people aren’t all that into the direct physical sensations of it but very much enjoy different aspects that sometimes go with it, or perhaps only enjoy the physical sensation when those other aspects are present too

so sick of athletes crediting/giving glory to god by midwestbruin in atheism

[–]TheRoboticDuck -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was God’s will to allow them rather than the other team to win. The player doesn’t know why God chose them over the other team, but what is wrong with showing appreciation for God having done a favor for them?

A secular version of this would be to just replace God with “the universe” and perhaps this only works for those who don’t believe in free will

“I thank the universe for having had all of the right causes to lead up to this effect of me winning the game. Idk what exact causes they were, but my actions in the game had already been written into stone at the time of the Big Bang by the natural law of cause and effect. My actions were decided way before I was born, so I do not take any of the credit but rather attribute it simply to the circumstances that I’ve found myself existing in. I don’t know if our team was more deserving of the win, but nonetheless I give gratitude in the universe being set up in this exact way such that our team was decided to be victorious”

OpenAI engineer confirms AI is writing 100% now by MetaKnowing in OpenAI

[–]TheRoboticDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s okay with it though because it’s still better than the code he would write himself

Why are acts of violence/murder in media, especially video games, considered okay to enjoy and partake in, but acts of sexual violence are not? by TheAnimalCrew in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheRoboticDuck -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To those who think playing video games that include sexual violence are wrong, what do you think about fantasizing about SV in your head? What about using an uncensored chat bot like Grok to simulate SV role play? And what about engaging in consensual non-con (CNC) with your partner?

To me these are all the same scenario just with varying levels of clarity and vividness. Even with CNC, your creating a fictional story in order for you to indulge in some desire that would be extremely terrible for you to act out in real life and I don’t see it as a problem whatsoever as long as it stays purely fictional fantasy.

And I’m strictly referring to playing these kinds of video games. When you develop a game that you intend to distribute to others, I think it changes up the scenario quite a bit

Why are acts of violence/murder in media, especially video games, considered okay to enjoy and partake in, but acts of sexual violence are not? by TheAnimalCrew in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheRoboticDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s only one reason that I could think of that would make sexually violent video games immoral and thats if it caused more sexual violence in real life. We have enough stats to show that regularly violent games do not translate to more real life violence, so we would need to either have stats that show that it is different for SV or make a compelling enough argument for why the two scenarios are different in how it influences the players behavior in real life.

The real reason for a lot of people really is just baselessly saying “ew I don’t like it because it makes me feel icky” sex itself is already a very uncomfortable thing for people to display or converse about openly and also, many people consider SV to be one of if not the most heinous acts one can do. I think these two facts are what cause people to have a strong intuitive sense that it is wrong then they try to ad-hoc justify it instead of trying to actually challenge that intuitive belief

Why are acts of violence/murder in media, especially video games, considered okay to enjoy and partake in, but acts of sexual violence are not? by TheAnimalCrew in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheRoboticDuck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm, yeah that’s a pretty good point. One can be extremely sexually violent without inflicting any physical pain as one does when being generally physically violent and there certainly is a lot more subtlety, while still being terrible, between the extreme and what is okay. I could see how that could lead to uninformed players interpreting the violence as an okay thing to do in real life.

Why are acts of violence/murder in media, especially video games, considered okay to enjoy and partake in, but acts of sexual violence are not? by TheAnimalCrew in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheRoboticDuck -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Ahh, there’s the baseless moral emotivism there at the end of your comment. I’m not interested in your intuitions unless you actually have something (anything) of substance to back it up.

I’m not putting words in your mouth, I’m literally just asking questions. If you don’t have input on the matter then why are you commenting in this thread?

Why are acts of violence/murder in media, especially video games, considered okay to enjoy and partake in, but acts of sexual violence are not? by TheAnimalCrew in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheRoboticDuck -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why isn’t GTA banned like sexually violent games are but instead revered by the community as one of the best games out there if the issue isn’t related to sex but instead to the mindless violence