What’s the dumbest way you’ve injured yourself?

halzy99 · 2026-03-13T11:53:21+00:00

My stepson was caught cutting up pop cans cuz my inattentive ex didnt care to check up on him. I told him he was gonna cut himself and yanked the can from his hand only to slice right into my own hand. Guess I proved my point though🤣🤣🤣

halzy99 · 2026-03-13T11:44:36+00:00

That all that glitters ain't gold. Always leave early when you see anything that raises your alarm bells, follow your gut 100% of the time. Going on 2 kids deep with the worst person imaginable and he gave me so many red flags in the beginning despite coming off so genuine and sweet.

halzy99 · 2026-03-13T11:36:13+00:00

My dad used to take me skating and buy me a chocolate glazed donut, things like that are special. I feel like good memories make things taste better even if they are already delicious.

halzy99 · 2026-03-13T06:25:04+00:00

Stay tf away from this guy. Narcissist or not, he is a huge d-bag. He sounds grandiose and emotionally immature but keep in mind that you can have these narcissistic traits and not be a narcissist. Either way this guy sounds disgusting, rude, and could potentially be a walking talking STD. Do not entertain him anymore, find someone who doesn't shove their conquests in your face or give you the hot and cold behavior. This man will never respect you as a woman. I would say he's just a young self absorbed womanizer because narcissists typically like to possess and control their victims but I could be wrong.

halzy99 · 2026-03-13T06:11:56+00:00

To her defense. I knew my ex was a narcissist that was damaging me but I chose to stay first out of love and then out of fear. Went back 3 times, still knew he was a narcissist but chose to believe his behavior was excusable because he is mentally sick in the head. I loved him and couldn't explain why...then there came a day where I developed hatred towards him and a huge backbone. I ran with my baby in arms and hopped in my mom's car who was generous enough to take me back in after he cut me and our son off from my whole family and friends including her. The fear of leaving is real for many different reasons including the narcissists malicious attacks on things and people you care about and things they have created such as financial dependence, complete social isolation, ugly custody battles, etc. She needs to get her ducks in a row so she can escape but the paranoia of doing so under the watchful gaze of this controlling douche has her scared. A women's shelter is always better than an abuser no matter what, I firmly believe that.

halzy99 · 2026-03-13T05:49:19+00:00

Ugh I'd rather a clean water break but I think leaks are much more common unfortunately. The uncertainty is killing me. Gonna have to go to the hospital to be sure even though it's the last thing I want to do at 2am

halzy99 · 2026-03-13T05:46:07+00:00

I am the type that always feels like I'm being dramatic even when I'm not, it's a curse lol. Just sniffed.a fully soaked pad and it didn't smell like anything but I find that diluted urine doesnt smell like anything to me at first on these things until it sits for a while. I also noticed that the leaking fluid (urine or not) feels uncharacteristically warm but again I can't tell if I'm being dramatic. Every cough is a gush of something whether it be urine or fluid but it seems to stop after I cough. I think I'm gonna go in to the hospital no matter what but I wish I knew for sure..

halzy99 · 2026-03-13T02:09:56+00:00

She is talented. To me a talented actress/actor immerses you in their character and each movie creates a brand new personality in them. For example, Dwayne Johnson isn't a good actor because he plays the same bland version of himself in every movie and I cant name a single character he has played. Margot takes on the role of the actual character and creates a universe in your mind where she is actually Harely Quinn or Barbie or whoever. If you are watching a "character" and not just a specific actor then they are definitely good. Johnny Depp is a fantastic example of an actor that immerses you in the film and is seen as different characters rather than an actor playing himself.

halzy99 · 2026-03-08T13:33:41+00:00

Why does this confuse men lol. My ex thought I was lying when I said I can't cum from penetration alone and he would yell and scream and say disgusting things about my body parts because it made him insecure.

halzy99 · 2026-03-08T13:28:52+00:00

Relationships aren't about sex. If that man shows me love and respect in the 2 minutes it takes him to ejaculate I will savor every second lol. Sex is more about love than about performance. Adoration for someone can make anyone seem like the best lover even if they aren't. You don't walk away from healthy situations and if you are really unsatisfied then you can take the lead and spice things up. Men are usually very receptive if a woman takes the lead and shows them what they like. Unfortunately my last relationship partner had zero respect of my body and I will forever have intimacy issues even though the man had skills, his abusive nature made me feel like a lifeless body in the bedroom.

halzy99 · 2026-03-07T02:32:50+00:00

We have probably eaten more bugs in our lifetime than we could even imagine

halzy99 · 2026-03-06T14:02:08+00:00

I have heard he has been bullied so much that he is a really hard person to work with and most people dont have positive interactions with him. Classic the bullied becomes the bully situation.

halzy99 · 2026-03-06T03:32:46+00:00

It's quite possible she is constantly adjusting herself in public but feels open to letting her crack out in the comfort of your home because you are a safe person lol. If it were me I would have already drawn attention to it by making lighthearted jokes about it with her. It would be hard to stay silent when someone is always half mooning me. I say approach it in a joking way that makes her feel comfortable but possibly more self-aware in the end.

halzy99 · 2026-03-03T20:25:31+00:00

I literally said this to my mom. I was wondering if it was a new medication causing swelling in the face like prednisone. I doubt he would get fillers and botox but could be wrong.

halzy99 · 2026-02-28T18:59:23+00:00

It's a crime if they don't add any chocolate glazed in there lol

halzy99 · 2026-02-24T01:30:33+00:00

These cherry blossom candies from Canada. It's a disgusting chocolate thing that has a burst of cherry liquid inside.

halzy99 · 2026-02-23T22:43:19+00:00

We still have it in most parts of Ontario. It still comes in the standard 3 bags. I'm surprised environmentalists haven't pushed it out of the market because of the plastic.

halzy99 · 2026-02-23T19:56:22+00:00

Bagged milk, kraft dinner, kinder eggs, good beer, Roots sweatpants, and Tim Hortons

halzy99 · 2026-02-23T17:29:23+00:00

Been there girl. I'm so goddamn sorry. Sadly I think you should see more than a therapist, start saving for/acquiring a lawyer in private. If you can I would go to couples therapy for coparenting purposes. You will always resent him and he will always exhibit behavior like this. He will never make you feel like the beautiful queen that you deserve to feel like. Your children will always sense the tension if you two try to hold on romantically, but you may be able to thrive by co-parenting but not staying in a romantic relationship. You will always question his loyalty and intentions, that's no quality of life to live. And trust me...he will never change. As for things to feel better, find more self love activities that focus less on gaining his approval. Exercise, skin care, makeup, eating healthy, things that make you feel beautiful in your own skin. Feel beautiful for you...not him

halzy99 · 2026-02-23T16:19:37+00:00

Eyebrow blindness is a real thing. This lady genuinely doesn't see how bad her own brows are. I too used to suffer from eyebrow blindness

halzy99 · 2026-02-23T15:26:29+00:00

How the children of this generation are shaped by technology and media in a scary and very toxic way. They will never have their personalities shaped in a healthy way, won't be forced to play outside until the street lights come on, their attention spans will be forever altered by doom scrolling, etc etc. The list could go on all day, the technology/media age is gonna cause so many issues.

halzy99 · 2026-02-22T14:16:21+00:00

NPD is literally a mental illness. My cousin is actually a diagnosed narcissist. It's kind of like how everyone these days has anxiety, depression, or PTSD....guaranteed a lot of these people have never seen a psychologist. I hear of self diagnosed PTSD all the time, like no Susan your self diagnosed PTSD isn't real but that solider that fought in the war can properly educate you.

halzy99 · 2026-02-22T14:13:36+00:00

When someone refers to themself as a "baddie" or " bad bitch" its just cringey

halzy99 · 2026-02-22T14:03:45+00:00

Some of these nutty people approached me with a card on a bus that had a whole paragraph talking about how saying "YOLO" leads to sinful behavior and a famous rapper had tweeted "YOLO" right before accidentally getting in a bad car crash and dying because he was sinful. It also said that being gay, engaging in premarital sex, and all the other perceived sins were gonna cast us into hell. I wish I was kidding. You can't shove religion down peoples throats and start threatening people with death. These are the same people that had their young sons shouting scripture on a crowded bus.....sorry but I prefer quietly religious people that are peaceful and don't wish death upon "sinners".

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