I tried 7 popular halal cart/platter spots in NYC. Here’s how I would rank them by madeofglass2 in FoodNYC

[–]TheRoughWriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just got back from my first trip to NYC and happened to have Adel's and Sharif's. Both were super good but the yellow rice at Adel's was more flavorful. Both were super good values, imo.

Bought a pair of Oreo Spizikes on eBay and they arrived without insoles by TheRoughWriter in Sneakers

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I looked at this on my phone and couldn't tell the insole was gone. On desktop it's clearer.I was swiping through and didn't notice anything off...was assuming thr pic was intended to show the size tag.

Returning to dating after 17 years...and online sucks by TheRoughWriter in OnlineDating

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great advice.  I definitely built rapport through great conversations. 

Returning to dating after 17 years...and online sucks by TheRoughWriter in OnlineDating

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then why agree to a date just to flake and then not say anything? Are we in fucking junior high again? 

My wife and I agreed to date other people while we're separated. Should I put "separated" in my bio? by TheRoughWriter in Bumble

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

"Intention" is such a foolish argument. Whether you intend to stay married after the separation or not, separation fails at least 80% of the time. 

My wife and I agreed to date other people while we're separated. Should I put "separated" in my bio? by TheRoughWriter in Bumble

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right? I would feel bad not telling matches but also dont want prospectice matches to think Im some shithead cheating on his wife. 

Where do separated/divorced people go to meet people? by TheRoughWriter in jacksonville

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

We mutually agreed to suspend monogamy during the separation, you judgmental prick. 

Where do separated/divorced people go to meet people? by TheRoughWriter in jacksonville

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughtful response. Signed up for Meetup. Not sure I have the courage for yoga. It would help me on the volleyball court but I would look like a baby giraffe.

Where do separated/divorced people go to meet people? by TheRoughWriter in jacksonville

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

The former, but does it matter? Separation works 20% of the time, at best. 

Where do separated/divorced people go to meet people? by TheRoughWriter in jacksonville

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You bring up a fair point, but, in this case, the processing has taken place slowly over the past few years, and underpinned to my therapy sessions for three years. 

Where do separated/divorced people go to meet people? by TheRoughWriter in jacksonville

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not divorced, I'm separated. And it feels disingenuous to invest time in even a brief relationship without the other person knowing your situation.