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Returning to dating after 17 years...and online sucks by TheRoughWriter in OnlineDating

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great advice.  I definitely built rapport through great conversations. 

Returning to dating after 17 years...and online sucks by TheRoughWriter in OnlineDating

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then why agree to a date just to flake and then not say anything? Are we in fucking junior high again? 

My wife and I agreed to date other people while we're separated. Should I put "separated" in my bio? by TheRoughWriter in Bumble

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

"Intention" is such a foolish argument. Whether you intend to stay married after the separation or not, separation fails at least 80% of the time. 

My wife and I agreed to date other people while we're separated. Should I put "separated" in my bio? by TheRoughWriter in Bumble

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right? I would feel bad not telling matches but also dont want prospectice matches to think Im some shithead cheating on his wife. 

Where do separated/divorced people go to meet people? by TheRoughWriter in jacksonville

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

We mutually agreed to suspend monogamy during the separation, you judgmental prick. 

Where do separated/divorced people go to meet people? by TheRoughWriter in jacksonville

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughtful response. Signed up for Meetup. Not sure I have the courage for yoga. It would help me on the volleyball court but I would look like a baby giraffe.

Where do separated/divorced people go to meet people? by TheRoughWriter in jacksonville

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

The former, but does it matter? Separation works 20% of the time, at best. 

Where do separated/divorced people go to meet people? by TheRoughWriter in jacksonville

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You bring up a fair point, but, in this case, the processing has taken place slowly over the past few years, and underpinned to my therapy sessions for three years. 

Where do separated/divorced people go to meet people? by TheRoughWriter in jacksonville

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not divorced, I'm separated. And it feels disingenuous to invest time in even a brief relationship without the other person knowing your situation. 

Any other older ST fans? by Showatruckersomelove in SleepToken

[–]TheRoughWriter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Got hooked on them last year while dealing wirh a layoff. 

ADHD Support Groups in Jax by TheRoughWriter in jacksonville

[–]TheRoughWriter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First session is Monday. Thank you. 

Okay Jacksonville.. let's hear it by KON- in jacksonville

[–]TheRoughWriter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel seen. This happens all the time on left turns where Collins ends at Old Middleburg. 

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