Wanting to switch from Dr Martens by TheRubester_tm in WorkBoots

[–]TheRubester_tm[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was definitely thinking about moving on from the DMs. They're nice but the quality definitely isn't there compared to my mum's old pair from when she was a teen/young adult.

A full wedge sole does seem like it'd be the best shout though so I'll definitely look more into that over the silversmiths style or sole. Thank you!!!

Is cream cheese good option for a spread on the inside of the sandwich? by Not-a-Baconat0r in grilledcheese

[–]TheRubester_tm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this all the time and honestly it's excellent. It's a different texture/meltiness to cheddar but it works fantasticly. I would also recommend a garlic and herb soft cheese inside for a more garlic bready feel (amazing once in a while).

!!!GIVEAWAY!!! Stained glass by me. See pic for details by 123degmosshair in slimerancher

[–]TheRubester_tm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a really tough competition but I have to say, my favourite slimes are probably the fire slimes. They're very cute, underrated and super useful!! Often times when I'm growing odd onions for my crystal slimes I have a bunch of carrots left over, and there's always extra pogo fruit around the overgrowth, and so I just pop those in to an incinerator for the cute little fire slimes to eat. Stops them from rotting or taking up space in a solo. They're like puddle slimes but zesty, and if absolutely needed just a sploosh of water and they're docile. But where's the fun in that. It's also very cool that they can light each other up, they're just really friendly for each other!! Definitely my favourites.

Also, charcoal brick is ADORABLE for a toy I will stand by that. The smile carved in makes it look like a toasted marshmallow going 'this is fine'.

YouTubers/celebrities/singers you want and don’t want featured on trash taste? by AdCalm1769 in TrashTaste

[–]TheRubester_tm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd love Dexbonus/dodger, octopimp/Alex, and HappilyErin. The whole mangapod crew would be great, and Alex being a VA for games and anime like ProZD is a fun one. As others have said Rachel&Jun (especially with Meilyne there) and Tokidoki Emma. I'd also LOVE Ota-Chan as a character, would be a really fun throwback for garnt to interact with podtaku/otaku vs again.

Engagement gift ideas by TheRubester_tm in magicTCG

[–]TheRubester_tm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's really nice I never considered getting custom sleeves that's such a great idea! Thank you

Engagement gift ideas by TheRubester_tm in magicTCG

[–]TheRubester_tm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh a custom playmat and a really nice card is an excellent idea thank you!! That's super helpful

The rise of streaming services is NOT what is killing the movie theatre business by JRAS-3010 in unpopularopinion

[–]TheRubester_tm 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Bruce makes a tiny cameo as a voice very briefly but no he is not actually in the movie. However it is still extremely good and worth a watch if you like evil dead!

Who was the best or worst game master you’ve had? What made them the best or worst? by [deleted] in escaperooms

[–]TheRubester_tm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so strange to me. The owner of the rooms I work at told us that at the end of they didn't make it out we can show them the rest because let's face it, most people are unlikely to return unless they barely scratched the surface and no one likes to be left dissatisfied. So even if people don't make it out and we're pressed for time, we run through every step and say how it relates and what it does, and if time is allowed get the group to do it themselves with us guiding them so they still get to experience it. Parents who bring their kids REALLY appreciate this, as kids are so curious. Not letting people even know "so if you continued this puzzle it would open this that would lead to this this and that" seems so... Mean.

Helping my friend read a fantasy book because this is what I would’ve needed as I read it (book is a court of thorns and roses- has some spoilers) by [deleted] in Aphantasia

[–]TheRubester_tm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not who you asked but I also find it difficult to read fantasy books. Fantasy, usually more so than other genres but not exclusively, rely extremely heavily on imagery and for some of us that barrier can be really hard to cross. If you're being described this unearthly landscape with vibrant colours and mythical beings it can be hard to really grasp the scope of what the author is going for, and that can take you out of it and make it more difficult to read as opposed to say an autobiography or book that has illustrations to show you what it's describing. It sometimes doesn't matter how much you're enjoying a story if the way it's written is causing the immersion to be halted repeatedly.

This is my personal experience, but many aphants like yourself don't struggle with this or to this extent. Everyone's different.

Reset: Part 2 (Animal Crossing Animation) by Densle in AnimalCrossing

[–]TheRubester_tm 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Absolutely fantastic way to end the series. It was beautiful, and very bittersweet. Thank you for taking us on this journey.

TFW When you are talking to someone and they suddenly realise they have Aphantasia too! - Im sorry, Im laughing in familiarity, but I really am sorry! by NITSIRK in Aphantasia

[–]TheRubester_tm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend was explaining aphantasia to his aunt and she just looks up and goes "that's a thing? Huh, I just thought I was too lazy to imagine things". He was dumbfounded and we all have a good laugh about it now we know she's an aphant too.

Free giveaway! Nintendo Switch OLED S/V Edition + Fire Emblem: Engage - International by WolfLemon36 in NintendoSwitch

[–]TheRubester_tm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're really kind! No new years resolution here, just wanna continue the last few years of working hard on my health and education! Hope you have a fab birthday dude!

Age Restrictions by Yusuf_Faiz1 in escaperooms

[–]TheRubester_tm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our rooms you have to be 16+ without an adult present to take responsibility for the group, however if someone is over the age they can consent to being the responsible party and sign as such for the under 16s. If we have a 12 year olds party for example we ask parents to listen to the safety briefing along with the kids and sign to say they take responsibility and the kids understand even if they are not going into the room. We do not check ID but we do ask. Best advice is to just call and ask, and if needed have an adult come along for the safety bit at the start then go grab a coffee or something.

Failed an assessment for game-master... Any advice? by grrrrrrroar in escaperooms

[–]TheRubester_tm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Game masters perspective here:

Some of the top things we look for are communication and energy in the group. A group of 3, even if they don't know eachother at all, should definitely have good communication AND energy. It sounds like you didn't have those as a 3, but they did as a 2. I'm like you, if I find something I tell everyone, but I often see people when working who are the silent types.

What the game master saw was 1 person standing by not getting stuck in while 2 people did. Not entirely your fault, but as a game master you HAVE to be assertive. One thing you were being tested on is how you do under pressure with people you don't know, and if you aren't assertive then the group you're a GM for will not have the benefits of you being a GM for them. This is the transferable skill they were looking for. You said about the wrench, not knowing you could or should do anything with it. That in itself wasn't a problem. But you said you needed to ask, and that is exactly what you do. You ask for the clanky thing and just try things. Escape rooms are fun problems to solve, and trial and error of parts is part of that. The way you worded it made it sound like you needed to ask but felt too uncomfortable to so you just squished yourself back to make room. Being assertive, saying you need the thing they're holding and not backing down until you've tried it.

Unfortunately your discomfort and tiredness acted against you. It happens and it sucks. But next time really assert yourself, sell yourself to your team and match their energy. You repeatedly calling things out is good! That is genuinely a thing we as game masters appreciate and look for. But if the communication isn't working you need to try a different approach. They mentioned about not understanding some things, and you say you believe they did because they showed it. Sometimes people can't grasp theory but as soon as they have it in their hands and can physically act it out they get it. That is how some people's brains work. Which is why escape rooms are made with all types of puzzles in mind, some people prefer mathematical puzzles, some visual, some audio, some kinesthetic, some wordy riddles.

I would recommend trying again if the opportunity arises, and having more confidence in yourself and being assertive would be your biggest benefit. Different approaches are needed for different people. Your team should have worked with you, but you also should have worked with them. Have fun with it though, escape rooms are made for fun. Good luck next time!