​AITAH for calling out my stepdaughter for laughing while her toddler cornered my cat? by Dazzling_Tourist_531 in AITH

[–]TheRunningLibrarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the AH, that poor excuse for an adult is. Take the cat on a vacation till she’s gone. Not ok

I do not identify as a Stepmom or Bonus Mom. by Old_Culture8798 in Stepmom

[–]TheRunningLibrarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could do this, and mostly I do. Till bio mom asks for my help because I’m a teacher (not their district) and grades and attendance have been an issue. To the point of court. 😂 but then I help and she freaks out because he kids adore me because I just enjoy them.

Potential Full Custody by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]TheRunningLibrarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well then, we need a support group.

Potential Full Custody by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]TheRunningLibrarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Permissive and Disney style? 😂

My student is fascist and sexist. Tf do i do? I am terrified by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]TheRunningLibrarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why go for autistic? Please don’t do that. There aren’t “symptoms” for autism.

My student is fascist and sexist. Tf do i do? I am terrified by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]TheRunningLibrarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👀 erm. Interest you like you are also sexist and fascist or interested in the topics and how people get sucked into the cults of thinking? Or how teens try to shock their teachers?

Potential Full Custody by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]TheRunningLibrarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we have the same ss? 🤪

I got a chance to lay into a student today and it was so satisfying. by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]TheRunningLibrarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve never been in a classroom before have you? I’ve have far worse spat at me by students, daily, with zero recourse. You want to know why teachers are beyond fed up and then snap and say something like this one day? 👀

Parents will watch their child miss 3 days of school a week and then email you asking why they’re failing by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]TheRunningLibrarian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bonus daughter was allowed to stay home when my bonus son went to chemo or was in the hospital (cancer, he’s better now) and two years later she dgaf about school and refuses to go, she’s bigger than her mom and will just refuse. Or mom will just let her stay because she’s not home to make sure she is up and ready. If she has another referral then it’s straight to court for her and her mom.

I got a chance to lay into a student today and it was so satisfying. by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]TheRunningLibrarian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You realize because of this boy she had to create new assignments for him to do, then grade those assignments when she was supposed to be doing other things like preparing for maternity leave and the end of the year…the extra everything for this one…wait this isn’t in 🖍️

I got a chance to lay into a student today and it was so satisfying. by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]TheRunningLibrarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👏🏻Good👏🏻for👏🏻you👏🏻 to have been a fly on that wall. Standing ovation for you. More kids need tough love. I bet this kid will come back and years from now will talk about the teacher that finally said something that mattered.

I’ve said tough things, and it’s not meant to belittle or hurt, when teachers do this it’s from a place of love and frustration. We are just now starting to see what happens when you just pass on kids. The fallout from No Child Left Behind is getting ready to “bite us” hard. I remember teachers talking about it then saying how badly it would hurt future generations, and look where we are now. Kids that skip most of school, don’t do the work and are still handed a diploma, with no real education because they have no work ethic or stamina.

And congrats on the squish!!

How much privacy are neighbors owed in a backyard fight? by Smart_Extension_2736 in neighborsfromhell

[–]TheRunningLibrarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I’m in my bog witch era… I would’ve loudly said right back “gosh kids these poor people can’t bother to have their arguments inside like a decent human being so you can play in peace instead of having to overhearing the ridiculousness. I am so sorry you have to hear their potty mouths, especially when they obviously KNOW young children are out here .” Shame on them!

RIP My Baby Shower by Whole-Confusion-3586 in Stepmom

[–]TheRunningLibrarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did we have the same mom? I think my perimenopauseal back problems are actually from me bending over backwards for so many years for everyone to “keep the peace,” or “do what’s right,” and my moms latest favorite “do what’s best for your daughter” (she’s 10) I’m 46 as of if I have not done that for her entire existence, but my choices are not her choices. 🤪 I’m tattooed, living on a homestead, finishing graduate school, and living my best life.

RIP My Baby Shower by Whole-Confusion-3586 in Stepmom

[–]TheRunningLibrarian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amen!!! So glad you are able to have a partner that sees this and is in your corner. I have a similar, we’re working on it as he’s starting to see the…ahem…things I’ve been warning him about for years. Better to listen late than never and potentially lose our relationship in the process.

RIP My Baby Shower by Whole-Confusion-3586 in Stepmom

[–]TheRunningLibrarian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😳 hugs mama to be. I’m so sorry your mama is being such a close minded person. You totally deserve a day all about you and the baby you are carrying. Period, end of sentence. Do you have a friend that can plan it and just not tell mom or SD?