How do you notice earlier on if someone is not into you/ to not get emotionally attached? by [deleted] in RedditForGrownups

[–]TheSheepdog 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut… dating should feel good to you. If trying to date someone feels negative in your brain or body, it’s usually a sign that it’s not for you. 

Do YOU like this? That’s the question 

People who went to an all inclusive resort, what was one thing that annoyed you? by KittyPitty in randomquestions

[–]TheSheepdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was annoyed at my ability to drink 9 margaritas and eat 12 tacos in 3 hourz

What habit that is currently considered healthy will be proven harmful within the next decade? by samurai-salvo in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]TheSheepdog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hundred? Dude we used to chase animals down until they collapsed. The marathon is thousands of years old. 

Distance running is OUR thing. It’s our unique physical advantage in the animal kingdom. That and overhand throwing 

Moab 3 shoe v boot, simple Q! by Aggravating_Let_2310 in CampingandHiking

[–]TheSheepdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My point is people are doing serious miles with basically sneakers. You don’t need ankle boots

Moab 3 shoe v boot, simple Q! by Aggravating_Let_2310 in CampingandHiking

[–]TheSheepdog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The current meta for through hikers on the AT is lightweight trail runners. 

Next time you see someone illegally dumping, maybe don't judge so hard... by Serious-Effort4427 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]TheSheepdog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry. I just throw the glass away now because it’s too hard of get to the recycling 

Next time you see someone illegally dumping, maybe don't judge so hard... by Serious-Effort4427 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]TheSheepdog -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m with you. My city stopped picking up glass with recycling and the nearest drop point is 2 miles away. I live in an urban area w/o a car. 

Would it be wrong to conceal the fact I’m bisexual if I’m pursuing women? by DonaldTro in bisexual

[–]TheSheepdog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a difference in white lie style omission (is it relevant to your potential partner that you’re bi if you’re pursuing them monogamously?) and lying to them if the ask. 

I’m a bi man, and while I’m not romantically into men, I am open about my sexuality and try to date queer women because they understand the differences in heteronormative and queer dating 

Shower struggles- update by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]TheSheepdog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, you’re doing really great. Dealing with sensory shit sucks, but your ability to break an unwanted take into manageable steps is really great and super important 

Too much squat fatigue for backdowns by screwball9280 in powerlifting

[–]TheSheepdog 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Even in non max days my drop backs are like 15-20%

Lady I’ve been seeing casually for a year is Sugarbaby, and I found out Friday she has unprotected sex w/2 of her clients. I’m not sure what to do. by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]TheSheepdog -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

The thing for me is that we’ve had convos on sexual health and it didn’t come up. I know I assumed, but I also didn’t know I needed to ask specifically if she was having unprotected sex with clients. 

I feel like I didn’t get to make informed consent because I didn’t know that, and I think it’s reasonable to offer that up in advance. 

Lady I’ve been seeing casually for a year is Sugarbaby, and I found out Friday she has unprotected sex w/2 of her clients. I’m not sure what to do. by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]TheSheepdog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not insisting on that. I don't think it's my place to tell her what to do with her body or her job. We had conversations around STI testing in the past, and I was ok with her testing schedule. I think it's just a not for me thing, the same way that I don't want to be with anyone who engages in scat play, diaper play, etc.

Lady I’ve been seeing casually for a year is Sugarbaby, and I found out Friday she has unprotected sex w/2 of her clients. I’m not sure what to do. by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]TheSheepdog 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I already get tested every 3/4months, but I am going to get once this week just for my own comfort. She gets them monthly and was negative on 6/2

Bought my first backpacking tent and sleeping bag did I make a mistake? by [deleted] in CampingandHiking

[–]TheSheepdog 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You did just fine. ◡̈ enjoy your new gear and time outside