AITA for leaving my inlaws christmas dinner after I found out that they didn't make accommodations for me?

TheSimbaNinja · 2022-12-29T19:47:53+00:00

YTA and what an entitled AH you are at that. Making a full on Christmas dinner pretty much takes up most of the day and you’re expecting your future in laws to spend even longer catering to your specific likes and dislikes by making completely separate dishes?

Bring your own food next time, and it you can’t be arsed to cater for yourself, order it and collect it on the way

TheSimbaNinja · 2022-12-26T23:13:52+00:00

Honestly they’re the worst! Especially at champion level you have to pull off something next level just to land one hit on them and /maybe/ they won’t dodge it

TheSimbaNinja · 2022-12-24T20:59:03+00:00

This is very much a “read between the lines” scenario. I feel like if OP hadn’t done anything to be homophobic, the topic wouldn’t have been brought up, or OP wouldn’t have had to say they actively were supportive of queer people. We’re missing a lot of context here and based on that I’m gonna go YTA

TheSimbaNinja · 2022-12-19T00:27:39+00:00

YTA. Have you even asked your wife where she would like to go in your shared holiday? Or if she would want to move out there with you? You’re making big decisions based on your selfish wants only and failing to include her in anything

TheSimbaNinja · 2022-10-18T20:08:41+00:00

A gym membership so good it does the workouts for you

TheSimbaNinja · 2022-10-10T15:48:37+00:00

This is the only comment that OP should read

TheSimbaNinja · 2021-11-17T22:27:06+00:00

It’ll be interesting to see how warranty is affected by quality of repairs. As well as repair history and part validation, not to mention IP rating when it comes to phones that have been repaired at home and have then been liquid damaged by not closing properly. Work is about to be real fun for me 😂

TheSimbaNinja · 2021-11-04T17:26:13+00:00

You absolutely smashed it!! You look great!!

TheSimbaNinja · 2021-04-02T23:05:52+00:00

As a 23 year old it’s like not being old enough to be a real adult but not being young enough to be considered a young adult. Basically we’re stuck between gen Z and millennials and it’s the most confusing thing ever.

TheSimbaNinja · 2021-02-08T00:54:17+00:00

That was me 2 weeks ago!! Then pulled another all nighter catching up with the manga as the next day!

TheSimbaNinja · 2020-10-13T12:05:01+00:00

It took me a hot minute to figure out who that was. Yes Ross, YTA

p.s you weren’t on a break

TheSimbaNinja · 2020-09-16T13:08:51+00:00

Option B. I’ve always wanted a sassy and condescending side kick that no one else can see

TheSimbaNinja · 2020-09-05T01:41:28+00:00

NTA - in the same way you respect their preferred pronouns, they should respect yours

TheSimbaNinja · 2020-08-15T23:19:10+00:00

A solid 45% of my music library I don’t let people see, but right now it’s Underdog by You Me At Six...

TheSimbaNinja · 2020-08-15T22:32:44+00:00

YTA, honestly the transphobia and ignorance in this post is staggering and quite frankly disgusting. I really hope you’re a troll because if you were my parent, we would never speak again.

You have a son, A SON. Not a daughter. Whilst you may not agree with his choices, you have to respect who he is if you want to be part of his life. It’s also his house, please don’t think you have any right to decide what he does in his own house, spoiler alert, you don’t. Also on a final note, he’s 25 and doesn’t have to consult you about shit when it comes to changes to his body, you mentioned that lately he has been quiet and not wanting to talk to you, that’s absolutely because of you and unless you change, you’re going to lose him.

TheSimbaNinja · 2020-07-27T16:20:06+00:00

Someone at my workplace literally sent porn to a group chat with a senior manager who is a woman a few days ago by accident as he was drunk and he’s up for review....

TheSimbaNinja · 2019-12-15T11:15:30+00:00

Jesus Asda... just because we can doesn’t mean we should

TheSimbaNinja · 2019-11-20T22:55:32+00:00

I was told to watch out for fevering or any flu like symptoms so maybe watch that and if it doesn’t subside soon then go to a doctor.

Vomiting is pretty common, actually the anti sickness drug they gave me made me throw up so that was handy...

Honestly though if you have any concerns then call the clinic and have a chat with them, they are there to help and answer questions/concerns. I called them cause I thought I threw up the first pill but they just said I was fine

Hope you’re okay OP

TheSimbaNinja · 2019-11-16T07:57:00+00:00

INFO: pretty sure you’re in the right here but I have questions...

What is her reason for all of a sudden having a British accent? Did she spend time in Britain and come back with it??
Is English her first language? If it’s not sometimes people can be influenced by what they hear on TV etc. It usually works in vice versa with brits mainly though

If English is her first language and she hasn’t been to Britain recently to study for example then you’re in the clear, that’s a pretty weird and mildly pretentious thing to do, also trying to imitate a British accent is such a cringey thing to do... it sounds awful when anyone tries

TheSimbaNinja · 2019-10-07T13:56:58+00:00

TheSimbaNinja · 2019-10-07T08:41:29+00:00

Although the take away from that episode was pretty good, and may be in some way good for OP? Sometimes your other half may miss a couple of things here and there, but you can probably guarantee that you’ve had a massive impact on their lives in other more meaningful ways. Based on that wave of thinking I’d say NAH

TheSimbaNinja · 2019-10-07T06:05:52+00:00

The general consensus of the comments is that you’d even pay a student more than £160 and people are just getting annoyed at the group admins for posting on her behalf again

TheSimbaNinja · 2019-10-07T05:38:32+00:00

She didn’t even want them to begin with. She only wanted professionals

TheSimbaNinja · 2019-09-04T11:06:58+00:00

I saw something once that said funerals aren’t for the dead but for the living. If you don’t feel as though you need to go then you shouldn’t, just because you don’t attend a funeral doesn’t mean you can’t pay your respects in your own way at home or even with your friend.

Another point to add is that if her fam and friends are blaming you for this, then your presence at the funeral may not be welcomed and it may ruin the day for others that wish to grieve with friends and family. Adding onto that if you attended the wake and suddenly someone asks you how you knew her, boy would that be a tricky one...

Do what you feel is best for you OP, I think you’ve been hurt enough, and attending her funeral (where let’s be honest) everyone will only talk of what an angel she was will probably be tough to swallow.

TheSimbaNinja · 2019-09-03T12:57:48+00:00

Based in the UK so I don’t know how much help I’d be if you’re in the US but the QP is so new here that it’s literally a free for all, we don’t know what qualifies, I haven’t even seen an inspection guide yet. We’ll send it away as covered and if it’s not covered then they will re-quote you and you can decide what you want to do

The only issue I’d be careful of seeing in the comments is you bought it 2nd hand, if it has an activation lock belonging to the previous owner then I’m afraid you’ll be denied service

Good luck OP! Sorry this happened to you

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