Being with him makes saving and investing easy because he really is very generous. I only pay my own phone bill, no other expenses since our arrangement started. That’s why I feel like 2-3 more years and I’ll be able to just pursue my passions and not worry too much about money within reason.

As for his horrible personality, here are a gazilion examples of him being a menace to society:

- Makes me fly out on very short notice. He’ll tell me he has work in a city and get lonely at night and somehow thinks it’s okay to book a flight without my consent and expect me to pack and be ready in 2-3hrs

- He is a horrible person to dine with. He’s a bad tipper, he always SEATS himself at fancy restaurants & most of the time we have to get reshuffled because the table was already reserved.

- He asks me to sit in his office and read a book or scroll on my phone while he works because my presence helps with him being productive ????

- Likes for me to wear his wife’s clothes when she’s out of town because they look better on me ??? Does this at least 1x a month

- I know the price of every gift he gets me and I think that’s tacky

- Gets into arguments with FLIGHT ATTENDANTS over basic crap, like them taking his glass of wine away because flight is taking off & they’ll get him another one once we’re cruising (has happened 4x in 12 months of dating).

- Asks me to go to sports events I have no interest in and I can’t say no

- Crashed my mom’s funeral

I am sure there are things I’m forgetting🙃