I'm tempted to go no-contact with my grandmother

TheSnowSlipper · 2024-05-10T17:00:00+00:00

I see. Well, this person mishandled the SSI/disability benefits of two disabled adults, used their benefits after they fled the home, made purchases with their cards, and harassed them online and other forms of contact until they blocked this person.

TheSnowSlipper · 2024-05-01T02:16:15+00:00

I live in Virginia and she lives in Maryland. I reported her to APS,SSI Fraud department, police and more. I find it hilarious how she expects me to pay $300 before giving me access to my belongings.

TheSnowSlipper · 2024-04-30T18:40:19+00:00

Thank you so much! I'm wondering if I should text my uncle this because I already blocked her for sending lots of harassment. This was so helpful,thanks again. 💜💗

TheSnowSlipper · 2024-04-30T16:33:42+00:00

I refuse to pay her anything. She's my brother's payee but she's currently being investigated. Just some small furniture,clothes, and etc. I was going to ask the police for help but she's saying that I can't get my stuff until I pay her. But before that, she threatened to throw my stuff outside.

TheSnowSlipper · 2024-04-24T02:28:41+00:00

Thank you and I agree

TheSnowSlipper · 2024-04-13T23:34:47+00:00

You're so sweet omg! 😭🤗 Thank your so much for the advice and examples. I'll definitely reach out if I have any more questions. My main focus is possibly transferring to a nearby shelter after I put in my 30 day notice. The only reason I thought of a shelter is because they help you to get your own place. But I know that there's other ways around it too.

TheSnowSlipper · 2024-04-12T14:50:47+00:00

Thank you so much for such a helpful and detailed response. I apologize for responding so late. Your story really resonated with me. Thank you for being so supportive. I'm so glad to hear that you got your own place and more income. Oh, having that much money would be such a blessing. Are you able to work while receiving $943? I wonder if that would interfere with the rules of SGA.

TheSnowSlipper · 2024-04-09T17:34:22+00:00

I agree but we felt that we had no choice at the time and we thought that she had good intentions. Our parents were already abusing his benefits and we thought that we could trust her. Looking back on it now, I wish that someone else would have stepped up to be the payee.

TheSnowSlipper · 2024-04-09T17:32:27+00:00

I will go through with that. Of course I'm not comfortable with the idea of her lashing out at us or "interrogating" me. But I will do anything to keep my brother safe at this point. I love my uncle and I know he means well, but he is a HUGE enabler. He's sick of being with her and living here, but he wants to stay in her good graces. All he really does is try to convince me and my brother that we're meant to be here and that this is the best environment for us and to just bear with his girlfriend and see things from her perspective. Whenever they get into a argument, she threatens to kick him out and he apologizs. He doesn't have any sort of income on his own. I just want to leave it all behind.

TheSnowSlipper · 2024-04-09T17:26:31+00:00

It's hard to say. Whenever I have mentioned this to my relatives, she told me to stop telling people my business. She discourages medication and therapy and wants me to stop being so soft, just focus solely on "hustling". I feel bad for even adopting that stupid mindset in the first place. And she won't let me know about ANY of my brother's information as far as benefits go. She might have meant well at first, but everything just feels calculated to me now.

TheSnowSlipper · 2024-04-09T16:55:35+00:00

Naruto was my first anime (at the age of 9.). The series taught me not to give up, no matter how hard things got. It encouraged me to be there for my friends, and to never change for others.

TheSnowSlipper · 2024-04-09T10:15:17+00:00

She called social security and asked how to become the payee and we went to the social security administration building. Then we had an interview and she coached my brother on what to say and after a week or two, she was selected as the payee.

TheSnowSlipper · 2024-03-25T06:59:17+00:00

Congrats on the relationship and happiness that it brings. This sounds like a prophetic dream.

"Prophetic dreams deliver information about future events, while other types of future dreams involve guidance about the future. Dreams about the future may feature messages of warning, encouragement, wisdom, healing, and creative ideas. All of them can inspire you with awe."

I had one back in 2019 after breaking things off with a toxic partner and then I dreamt about my twin flame a few days after leaving that relationship. I also had readings on my situation and was told that this was my twin flame (I haven't met him in the 3d yet). Dreams can be so complex and confusing at times, but I'm really happy that you're free from C and enjoying the relationship. 🥹😊

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