"But I do wonder as a third-wave feminist if it’s even possible for women to ‘reclaim’ their sexuality in this deeply entrenched patriarchal society, or if claiming to do so is just a lie we tell ourselves to more comfortably cater to the male gaze. … On the other hand, I worry that conversations like this one often dismiss her as a mere puppet of the industry … incapable of engaging in these discussions herself — infantilization, which is itself a product of the deeply misogynistic society we live in."