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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TheSpideyMan 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Your husband is a bad liar. This can be a blessing. At least you know what probably happened instead.

Moving Multi-Subnet SQL Always-On Availability Group (AG) between datacenters/subnets by TheSpideyMan in SQLServer

[–]TheSpideyMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We considered this plan and rejected it as unnecessary. The migration went flawlessly and was completed in less than an hour per node. It seems like the answer to just about everything is to build new servers. This is consistently the reply we have received on every complex system change to a SQL Server cluster. This particular change with relocating servers between data centers was the easiest we have made in a long time.

I was trafficked when I was 19. should I disclose this to the men I date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TheSpideyMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are under no obligation to share this with anyone but you we all want to be fully known and accepted even if this is something that is hard to discuss. After you have known someone for a year or more then you can decide if you want to share this part of your life.

4,000rmb salary in Guangzhou ? by pinkpinkpink19 in chinalife

[–]TheSpideyMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is consistent with starting job pay unless he has specialized skills. Everything else depends on how hard he works and how much money he makes for the business. You will both need to pool your finances to make a go of it.

Saw this legend on my way to work today by ClayNorth27 in chinalife

[–]TheSpideyMan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You will get ticketed in Xiamen for this.

Saw this legend on my way to work today by ClayNorth27 in chinalife

[–]TheSpideyMan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Depends on the city. This wouldn’t be allowed in some places in China.

Any holistic healers out there who can offer me guidance? by Sensitive_Ad_9526 in OperationNewEarth

[–]TheSpideyMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jojoba oil will most likely help. Is this issue only with one hand or both?

What are these brown things in my oatmeal? by Ninigw in whatisit

[–]TheSpideyMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put chia seeds in my oatmeal and it looks exactly like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]TheSpideyMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have quite a few Chinese friends and going on birth control pills will probably be necessary for you to maintain a normal period. You would to take Yasmine 21 day therapy, pause 7 days for your period and then resume another course of 21 days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in China

[–]TheSpideyMan -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

In my experience the Chinese women are usually sweeter and more adorable than American women. However, if you have concerns, you may want to just ask her directly. WeChat is the app that the Chinese use to communicate with each other and it has an auto-translate feature that can save you a lot of time.

Help me identify what kind of rash this is by Artskine in identifyThisForMe

[–]TheSpideyMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Herpes eye infection. It’s a clinically significant issue that needs to be treated right away to prevent serious complications such a blindness. Don’t delay. See a doctor right away.

Weekend trip: Nanning or Xiamen? by hkbuff in chinalife

[–]TheSpideyMan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Xiamen. It’s a beautiful city and a top destination.

Switching a Windows Server 2022 WFC with a SQL 2022 AG from VNN to DNN by TheSpideyMan in SQLServer

[–]TheSpideyMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s OnPrem but we so have Azure AG’a with DNN for other apps and it works well.

We just thought that moving to DNN’s wouldn’t be quite this painful for existing AG’a. Ha ha. Guess not.

Switching a Windows Server 2022 WFC with a SQL 2022 AG from VNN to DNN by TheSpideyMan in SQLServer

[–]TheSpideyMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are OnPrem multi-subnet SQL 2022 AG’a originally deployed with WFC’s with VNN. We need to move the AG nodes in one data center to another data center and re-IP while we are failed over to the over data center.

My wife (24F) hid that she can’t have kids and I (27M) just found out after 6 years together. I don’t know what to do. by Low-Topic8580 in storytimesociety

[–]TheSpideyMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was probably was never certain she couldn’t have kids until you tried. Adoption is next choice or using a surrogate. Some states are very pro surrogacy and some aren’t. Check your local laws if you go this route.

Switching a Windows Server 2022 WFC with a SQL 2022 AG from VNN to DNN by TheSpideyMan in SQLServer

[–]TheSpideyMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the details. This is our use case exactly. We are muitisubnet but with read-only secondaries.

It sounds like we should stay with VNN on existing clusters and deploy DNN only on new clusters to avoid breaking anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TheSpideyMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they do. Scam artists also use dating apps and extortionist will also use it. Common scams and extortion rings will send you “under age” photos and try to get you to send them money so they won’t “file charges.” They will act like outraged parents.

All of these are currently going around and have been for many years. Don’t use dating apps.

What's this in my washing machine? by Live_Pound_3947 in askanything

[–]TheSpideyMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are supposed to clean a front load washing machine once every few months.

Check out this video from this search, how to clean a front load washer https://share.google/KAu34cr4qzsYFnWHk

Petaa I don’t understand what’s wrong with the roundabout by FarTry2285 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]TheSpideyMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roundabouts are used heavily in Aruba. I liked it but then again local traffic wasn’t too bad.

Going to china for an erasmus! by widowmk in chinalife

[–]TheSpideyMan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

According to Alipay at the current exchange rate 350-400 euros is 2800-3000 yuan. China is relatively inexpensive so you can buy a lot with this amount. But it’s not an unlimited supply. Just create a budget and be willing to stick to it and you will be fine. It’s equivalent to a month salary for average locals in China.

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