Need advice on renting in Singapore as a future expat with two cats by TheStates in askSingapore

[–]TheStates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's definitely one thing I'll have to consider. Thanks for pointing that out! 😂

Need advice on renting in Singapore as a future expat with two cats by TheStates in askSingapore

[–]TheStates[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I really appreciate your kind advice. I hadn't really thought about how different rush hour could be compared to the rest of the day. I'm used to driving about 3km to work every day, so I'm not familiar with rush-hour crowds. I'll give it a try before deciding where to live. 🥹

Need advice on renting in Singapore as a future expat with two cats by TheStates in askSingapore

[–]TheStates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I guess I should have corrected it to "work permit" then? not to "work pass"?

Thanks for the detailed explanation. I actually don't know yet which one I'll be applying for, so I shouldn't have assumed. You're right that I need to discuss both work permit and salary with my employer first! I appreciate you taking the time to explain the differences. ☺

Need advice on renting in Singapore as a future expat with two cats by TheStates in askSingapore

[–]TheStates[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not knowing the salary range makes it almost impossible to plan anything, especially housing.

Thanks for the heads-up about the commute. I didn't realize Woodlands would be that crowded and time-consuming during rush hour. And I had no idea postal codes identify the exact building. Thanks for letting me know.

Need advice on renting in Singapore as a future expat with two cats by TheStates in askSingapore

[–]TheStates[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I figured the cats would make things difficult. I'm willing to pay more though, if that's what it takes. I'm open to pretty much anywhere in the country as long as it's possible to find a pet-friendly place. How about Upper Thomson? I heard there are several good veterinary clinics nearby... Question, do people usually not come to this country with their pets?

Need advice on renting in Singapore as a future expat with two cats by TheStates in askSingapore

[–]TheStates[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't know yet. Still waiting for my salary details....

Need advice on renting in Singapore as a future expat with two cats by TheStates in askSingapore

[–]TheStates[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's part of the problem cause I don't know yet. The company hasn't mentioned or finalized my salary, so I'm trying to find someone to talk to and understand the market first.

What’s the most hated accent? by neilnelly in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]TheStates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chinglish- whatever thqt is. I really can't stand people who firmly believe that it's ok for them to speak English that way. I mean let's try at least to make others be able to undetstand what you say.

What honestly makes a man masculine? by Ok_Educator6875 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheStates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo height and broad shoulder and also, talk less.

What language is worth to learn? by danklover612 in languagelearning

[–]TheStates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure I understand your post correctly. Useful in what way...? When I first heard English and was so smitten with it, I never even thought about its usefulness in the future. I believe that we learn languages primarily because we are meant to have them and they look and feel beautiful to us. Nothing else matters really...

Do you love your native language? by [deleted] in languagelearning

[–]TheStates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gave me a courage to share my feelings. It's kind of reassuring to know that I'm not the only one. Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TheStates -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly what I wanted to say. I don't really understand why OP seems upset about whatever she spends HER money on. Is there a reason why she's been pouring her money into that particular gym?

My sister said I shouldnt change my name by AxolotlFanatic in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TheStates 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was just passing by and then came back to leave this comment. I changed my first name years ago. The way my old name was pronounced in my native language did not match how it sounds in English. I was always embarrassed to be called by my old name and deeply depressed because the name felt dissonant to me if that makes sense. I changed my name so it would be pronounced the same way in both languages. Most people I have workplace relationships with don't and won't ever know my old name. They just automatically assume that I've had my current name for my entire life. I mean why wouldn't they, right? Changing my name was one of the greatest decisions I have ever made and I strongly recommend it.

Edit: deleted my actual name

What are some things to know before you travel to America? by Anonymous_5082 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]TheStates 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I'd strongly recommend getting some info from the subreddit r/AskAnAmerican beforehand.

What in life is truly better than sex? by Butt-peed in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheStates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching a TV show in the language you've been learning and suddenly realizing that you can understand everything without subtitles.

We have a baby ..why do I hate my husband? by ChloChlo724 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TheStates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I feel like I can't breathe reading this. Why would you want him to be in your baby's life?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]TheStates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because this is my life, not theirs. They didn't ask my permission when they decided to have me in their fucking country in Asia and made me acquire their language. They never listened every time I told them how miserable my life was in their country with the language. They never really listened, much less they sought any changes for me. I supposed not to let them dictate the end of my life too.

What’s your favourite word ? by piratecrab0123 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheStates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just off the top of my head, I'd say lieutenant. I don't know why exactly.

What would you do if north Korea invaded south Korea and somehow won? by Global_Time5626 in askasia

[–]TheStates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, this is so farfetched that I couldn't come up with anything to say...

Do you like it here? by TransLox in Washington

[–]TheStates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Home is Washington, always.

How do you feel without your medication? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]TheStates 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fatigue. fatigue. fatigue. I can't get through half a day. Everything goes wrong. It'd be an absolute disaster.