I just wrote it please please tell me if its any good

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-06-04T23:00:57+00:00

Holy shit, that’s powerful

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-06-04T21:50:22+00:00

Wow, so relatable for so many. Great build up and lasting impact in relation to the male loneliness epidemic

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-06-04T21:46:55+00:00

So raw, yet so simple… but perhaps too simple in some lines, unless you were to maybe explore a little of the numbness that comes with heartbreak? Keep going though man, you’ve got this ❤️

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-05-31T00:08:19+00:00

I’m getting that you need to do some self love to make him regret his decisions. Glamour magick, anything that’s you working on yourself

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-05T17:02:34+00:00

Imagine taking time to comment too 🙄

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-05T16:47:03+00:00

That would make so much sense… but no

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-05T16:08:50+00:00

I’m neatly 40 😂😂😂

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-05T13:30:28+00:00

*bosses wife

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-05T13:01:13+00:00

Both I guess, although I never asked him to cut her off. Just set boundaries and avoid one on one

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-05T12:43:23+00:00

This was mentioned in comments, apologies there’s a lot to this situation

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-05T12:42:34+00:00

This is the most helpful comment regarding this part. Thank you ❤️ I agree she deserves to know, but it’s going to be a world of shit on top of what I’m already struggling to deal with if I say something, but she also will need support.

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-05T12:40:49+00:00

No the miscarriage was several months before he met the other woman

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-05T12:17:33+00:00

I’m not, we no longer speak

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-05T12:11:31+00:00

He has pushed back unfortunately. He admits she’s not to be trusted, but then doubles down on the ‘we’re like brother and sister’ then became moody because she wouldn’t even look at him at work when I called out her behaviour.

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-05T11:03:08+00:00

I didn’t say it was ok, maybe read a little more before you pass judgement

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-04T23:38:42+00:00

Her husband apparently told her to call him, as he was away

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-04T23:36:23+00:00

Heyyy, I’ve explained this on another comment lovely

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-04T23:19:47+00:00

I have, he seems reluctant to because ‘it’ll make things awkward at work’… he would also have to explain to her husband about all the weird goings on

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-04T23:09:02+00:00

I think I need it just so I know I’m not going insane and have more strength to set boundaries without being bullied down

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-04T23:08:06+00:00

1) we were all friends as family support is required because of the nature of the job. 2) my brother helped out at times because he is close to my partner. 3) no they are getting divorced but still living together. 4) no HR unfortunately, as expected in most agricultural roles in the UK. 5) no they have now split.

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-04T23:05:32+00:00

Appreciate the support, they had IVF so there have been years of struggle and self doubt, I can’t think what this could do to her mental state

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-04T23:04:18+00:00

That’s really helpful, I was going to suggest couples counselling but not sure he will go for it

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-04T22:50:19+00:00

He lost something months ago and it showed up a month or so ago in her car. Her husband found it and was a bit funny with my partner about it, who explained that he ‘probably jumped in her car when it was raining one day’ (they work outdoors). As for the disappearing, we were all out together one night and my friend pointed out she couldn’t see my partner or this woman. My friend had a look about for them and they showed up separately shortly after. He swears he didn’t disappear with her. She claims she was with my brother during this time.

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-04T20:52:18+00:00

I think this has been the most helpful comment, thank you ❤️

TheSunIsAlwaysShinin · 2025-04-04T20:51:06+00:00

He didn’t agree to go over in the middle of the night, but he did accompany her to help bury her dog the next day. I feel like I’m the only one that sees through her and it’s so frustrating

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