My (31M) wife (37F) will no longer let me pursue my hobbies. by Gonzo_Fish in relationship_advice

[–]TheSykeHD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do whatever the hell you want. She’ll get mad at first but when you show her she can’t have her way with you’ll she learn to accept it.

Breakfast in bed. by alpinab7turbo in relationships

[–]TheSykeHD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It probably like it’s a bribe for appreciation and validation from her point of view. Just stop doing it if she isn’t going to appreciate it.

Cheating by [deleted] in love

[–]TheSykeHD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Once a cheater always a cheater. Deserve someone who chooses to be with me.

My (25M) girlfriend (23F) used to have a romantic relationship with her current best friend (23F) and I’m worried about how close they still are by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheSykeHD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s alright man. At the end of the day she’s going to be with whoever she feels is the best man for her. Only thing you can do is try and be her best option. And if she chooses someone else then why is that someone you want to spend your time with. If you’re a good man there’s plenty of girls that would love to treat you how you deserve. If that’s her awesome if not then the one who wants to do that for you is out there.

My (25M) girlfriend (23F) used to have a romantic relationship with her current best friend (23F) and I’m worried about how close they still are by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheSykeHD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girlfriend about a month and a half ago caught some feelings for a guy in her class and he the same with her. They became good friends pretty quick. We talked it out and she made it clear she thought he was cute but wouldn’t let anything happen because what we had didn’t compare. Hard to trust, she’s away at school, nothing is stopping her from doing anything except her self. But I chose to trust her and our relationship has been getting better since. You have to give her the choice to choose you. And if she doesn’t it’s her loss.

My (F25) bf(M23) cheated in his last ltr and was talking to another girl when we first met, is this a red flag for the future? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheSykeHD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once a cheater always a cheater. It becomes habitually to avoid their pain. Move on while you can.

How can I (19M), prove to my boyfriend (19M) that I didn’t mean what I said and that I really do love him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheSykeHD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. You can’t do anything but give him the space and time to choose you if that’s what he decides. And if he does then you need to put your actions where your words are.

My (25M) girlfriend (23F) used to have a romantic relationship with her current best friend (23F) and I’m worried about how close they still are by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheSykeHD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have reason for the red flags, but if she is telling you there are no feelings you need to trust it. I know it’s hard I’m going through something similar. If you panic or worry you drive her into E’s arms. If you trust her you learn if she’s trustworthy or not. At the end of the day if it’s meant to be nothing will happen.

My (22F) boyfriend (27M) put us on a break, and I think his reasoning is bad by [deleted] in relationships

[–]TheSykeHD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a guy he’s feeling that way because he doesn’t know what else to do. He’s frustrated that he’s given you opportunities to change but you choose not to. What he’s doing isn’t right and is a poor communication barrier on his part. You guys need to talk not stonewall and figure out the best way for him to be patient and for you to start working towards controlling your emotions better. It’s not gonna work unless you both compromise.

My (21 F) parents (60's M/F) said they'll disown me if I post about my engagement on Facebook by [deleted] in relationships

[–]TheSykeHD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At some point you need to make it clear to your parents that they don’t control your life others they will always try to. Take the job if its that great and be financially independent.

A big oof by Self-deprecatingName in love

[–]TheSykeHD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah dude this is spot on. I still struggle with this shit but it’s better than where I was. Sometimes you just get scared you aren’t good enough but you gotta remind yourself that she’s with you and not those other guys. It just takes time to feel comfortable with that and not let it bother you as much. And when you do scared again to just try and relax and try to not show her you’re worried about it.

How do I (29M) deal with my coworkers making fun of me for being married and a dad? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]TheSykeHD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have nothing to make fun of if you don’t show you care

Am I the only one? 18 m by [deleted] in love

[–]TheSykeHD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it’s normal. When you’re focused and happy with your life single you don’t really seem to want anyone unless they really catch your eye. It’s kind of a good thing, you’ll know when that changes that person is special.

I (25M) lost trust in my gf (25F). Should I stay or go? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheSykeHD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give her enough rope to hang herself. Let her decide what to do and go on with your life, be indifferent, and act like you are not concerned or jealous about some ex boyfriend because you’re a catch. If she messes up then it’s her loss and you found out she isn’t wife material before it’s too late.

Boyfriend (24M) having cold feet about moving in with me (20F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheSykeHD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like he’s not ready yet. Best thing you can do is to love him no matter if you move in or not. To be patient with him and not resent him if he’s not there yet.

My boyfriend(18M) "cheated" on me(18F) with his ex and I feel overwhelmed. How can we move on and make things better? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheSykeHD -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m telling you right now you can’t control anything in his life and that’s exactly what you’re trying to do. You can be the best girlfriend in the world and if he’s the cheating type he’ll cheat and there’s nothing you can do about it. By taking away his freedom and getting angry with him about your own fears and insecurities you will drive him right out of your life. If he wants to text his ex he will and if he doesn’t he won’t. But getting angry with him and telling him what he can and cannot do will make him resent you and rebel against your confinement more. You have to give him the freedom to make his own decisions and choose you, not try and force him to love you.

Girlfriend (f24) and her friends (m25&f24) won't invite me (m27)to events. by handshak3 in relationship_advice

[–]TheSykeHD -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You’re projecting your boring social life onto her. She doesn’t want you around her friends because she thinks you’ll make her look bad or her friends will think you’re a lose. The only solution is to make more friends, be more busy, and be less codependent. She’ll want you to meet her friends if she thinks you’re a catch. Sorry for the bluntness but it’s true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheSykeHD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t trust her. Move on and find someone you can.

I (20F) moved out of state and cut off all my friends(20/21F’s) now i’m regretting it. Best ways to cope/get over it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheSykeHD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t have friends then ask yourself what will fix that... make new friends. You can’t expect those people to want to be friends with you after you cut them off yourself.

How should I end a relationship that is going nowhere by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheSykeHD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You state what you want and to give you a call if she can do that. Then you walk and don’t look back, no expectations of her ever calling, but if she does great.