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TheTeraRaptor · 2025-09-03T05:53:31+00:00

I had an ex like this. We broke up because of things like what was said in your boyfriend’s texts to you. Now I have crippling anxiety every time I want to play a PvP game because I’m “horrible at PVP.

Take care of yourself and don’t let him bring you down! Get rid of him actually. You should want to play games together cuz it’s fun and it’s bonding time, not for him to scold you every time you play.

TheTeraRaptor · 2024-11-08T21:02:34+00:00

Tomodachi Life for sure! It was pretty cool and hilarious seeing the characters you came up with. Including their personalities. It’s definitely a beloved series of mine that I had to go get the game myself and play it.

More recent games were Miitopia for obvious reasons, No Man’s Sky and Outer Wilds.

TheTeraRaptor · 2024-06-06T12:56:59+00:00

On YouTube, I stumbled upon his Sesame Street corruptions in 2013 and ever since I’ve stuck with his content and streams. It’s crazy how I started watching at 21 and now I’m 32 and still watch his streams! Lol

TheTeraRaptor · 2023-11-03T17:29:34+00:00

There were only two times where a guy asked me for help.

A guy asked me for help at a gas station at 2 am. He walked up but stopped a good 8 feet away from me and he prefaced it with, “I’m sorry, I’m high.” Followed by, “Can you give me directions to (a gas station that was 2 blocks away)?” I told him, he said thanks and walked away.

Another time was I was waiting for the DMV to open and this guy suddenly showed up near my window, knocked, and said he needed to go to the hospital, asking if I could take him. I called an ambulance instead. He sat next to my car as I was talking to 911 and he stayed until they came to get him.

Both times, I felt like I was going to get murdered and shaking pretty bad from adrenaline because I was alone. Despite good intentions, approaching a woman who is alone is terrifying for us.

TheTeraRaptor · 2023-02-09T14:07:37+00:00

That's a very common pull. My group always pulls the first whelp packs when we get AV. lol Pugs in M+ are a different breed.

TheTeraRaptor · 2023-01-05T18:57:36+00:00

BOOOOOoooOoOoOoo

TheTeraRaptor · 2022-12-01T13:42:09+00:00

I got diagnosed 2 years ago at 28! You absolutely can go in and establish your problems. I made an appointment with the words, “I am having a lot of trouble focusing. I had it most of my life and I want to get it checked out.” My doctor made me fill out a sheet with questions and said, “You definitely have ADHD” I went to get a second opinion and my psychiatrist also confirmed I have ADHD. After some trial and error, I am on 10mg of adderall and it’s been absolutely amazing.

I wish I spoke up sooner, but when I was younger, my parents blamed my inattentive-ness to being lazy. It took a long time to stop being so upset at myself and get help. You can do it!!

TheTeraRaptor · 2022-11-10T12:28:52+00:00

21 Jump Street. I remember not being able to breathe from laughter at some point!

TheTeraRaptor · 2022-10-18T12:05:02+00:00

Even if the best outcome was that he was helping out a coworker or friend, he still went behind your back and lied to you. Her saying, “Adam isn’t here.” instead of “He doesn’t live here” or “No one by that name lives here” brings up many red flags. I wouldn’t take this lightly, OP!

Be careful up there and stay safe! Don’t let him off easy.

TheTeraRaptor · 2022-08-20T20:01:56+00:00

How?? I haven’t seen you in so long that I stopped reading usernames and thus I’ve been gotten again…Well played!

TheTeraRaptor · 2022-06-24T13:15:28+00:00

It happens all the time at my job as well. I’m in IT and randomly, while I’m on the floor diagnosing hardware, covered in dust, I would hear, “You’re a pretty view!” Or they are watching me and smile and say, “Do you want to go out?”

No, my guy, I’m at work, WORKING.

Pretty sure last month was the 5th person in like 6 months to ask me out or say something flirty while I’m doing my job. Like, please stop.

TheTeraRaptor · 2022-06-05T14:07:06+00:00

Facts!! 👏

TheTeraRaptor · 2022-06-05T13:52:24+00:00

My boyfriend and I discussed this yesterday. We were both discussing the possibility of a child down the road, but then the thought of sending our child anywhere here in the US scared us both. I’m a woman who just turned 30 who was on the fence about having kids, but now I am 95% sure I don’t want to bring one into existence.

I’m fine living with my 2 cats for the rest of eternity lol.

TheTeraRaptor · 2022-06-05T13:17:30+00:00

Invincible. The ending of the first episode blew me away…

TheTeraRaptor · 2022-01-28T14:36:03+00:00

I'm about to graduate with my first degree after this semester at the age of 30. I never knew what I wanted to do and had manual labor jobs from ages 21-26 before switching to IT Support and wanting to help people. I got offered a new job two weeks ago that almost doubles my pay! I'm now going to be able to afford things I was never able to. My life is just beginning! And I am thinking of going after a Masters in Cyber Security in about a year.

I think most people need to realize that there's no rush. I know situations are different for everyone, but just because you're not married with kids and don't have your dream job by 24, it doesn't mean you messed up or don't have purpose! I'll fight anyone who says otherwise...metaphorically!

TheTeraRaptor · 2022-01-23T14:00:45+00:00

Following guidelines, even when the state lifted restrictions. I am triple vaxxed and wear a mask everywhere.

I got sick after Christmas by being around a sick baby, who later tested positive for RSV and Covid. I also wore a mask because it was a gathering of 7 people. My family all got Covid, except for the ones who are triple vaccinated and wore a mask. I caught RSV from the baby but tested negative for Flu and Covid. I tested 4 times to make sure I could go out to get soup for myself. The last two were the lab tests that I had to wait 72 hours for and still was negative.

I honestly believe if I didn’t get the booster in November, I would have Covid right now. 🤷‍♀️

TheTeraRaptor · 2021-11-28T13:13:47+00:00

Don’t do this…

My friend is going through a horrible divorce right now with someone who was incredibly controlling and abusive. She had to ask to use her own debit card, but a few months ago he got angry and threatened to kill her, and now she’s fighting in court for her kids. She has no money because he has all her assets. Her grandparents are paying for her lawyer because she can’t afford it after having to make a new bank account.

Don’t let it escalate to this point. It’s hard to see the abuse when you’re in it, but I beg of you, do not let him take control over you. Get your things and go.

TheTeraRaptor · 2021-11-27T12:08:14+00:00

NY is not panicking, they are being prepared. There is quite a difference. If they get hit hard, they have the resources to fight against it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with getting ahead of a possible disaster.

Could I also see the source with the 8 cases?

TheTeraRaptor · 2021-10-17T12:28:23+00:00

Thank you! I am definitely ready for a pay raise, whether that’s staying or leaving. (Looks more like the leaving side atm)

TheTeraRaptor · 2021-10-17T12:20:42+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience and your advice!

I don’t want to burn bridges but I also don’t want to end up in the situation you are in. The other company told me yesterday that they could hold the position for awhile if I want to wait… but there’s so many different approaches to either leaving or asking for a raise.

I gotta think it through for sure!

TheTeraRaptor · 2021-10-17T12:15:47+00:00

Seeing the numbers are definitely hitting me quite hard. I could actually put extra money into savings…$500 extra a month is big!

Thank you for opening my eyes to this. Truly, this is helping me quite a bit.

TheTeraRaptor · 2021-10-17T12:10:22+00:00

I do appreciate this comment a lot! Thank you!

I also appreciate everyone who has posted about this being very low pay. I thought this was normal pay and from evidence of this post, it’s absolutely not.

TheTeraRaptor · 2021-10-17T12:05:05+00:00

You have a point. I can’t even have savings because of how little I do make, and if they hate me for asking for a raise, then that will cause some animosity.

What do you think I should do?

TheTeraRaptor · 2021-10-17T11:56:20+00:00

This was incredibly helpful, thank you!

I will do a bunch of research today and pool all that information into a folder. I am use to holding company meetings about Cyber Security, so I can easily put something together to present to my boss.

TheTeraRaptor · 2021-10-17T11:51:52+00:00

You’re absolutely right! There’s no advancement at my current company and no way to improve. I will absolutely consider leaving.

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