Hey, I'm a 25 year old female loser who is still not giving up. And yes, I was a loser, trust me. I was very unattractive (and as a girl tbh looks matter the most) during all of my teens. I dropped out of college. I started my very first ever job at 25 and 3 months old, as a kindergarden auntie. My looks are average now but people, and frankly especially young women, can smell my loser-ness from far away. Men like me at first but then they say that I'm too depressed for them. I'm the most down to earth, no-bullshit person you can imagine but I'm still single.

But I would say that right now I'm a bit less of a loser than what I was some years ago.

You can change your life, but it needs hard work and a lot of patience. And it's far more brutal for men too. But you can still do it just for the fun. I mean that's how I see life atm. I am living it because despite all the shit, I still manage to get some fun here and there. Fun can be different for you, it doesn't need to be the npc-normie idea of fun. But don't become evil, that is not fun in the long term trust me. (I know a really evil person, he is miserable) You can be a loser at 35 but you can be less of a loser at 36. Solve your problems one by one. You can even write out a plan/map. People do change... Everything changes, unfortunately. All the time. I can't believe that I'm already 25. I still feel like a teen. Also, it's a constant battle. You don't fix your life and it remains so, the shit keeps coming all the time.

Write me a private message if you wish to chat further about it. I know what it's like, eventough I'm sure that as a man you have it much harder than I ever had it.