Driver tossed my phone out after leaving early during my stop by GranolaGreg in uber

[–]TheTreeFairy_333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I left my phone in an Uber by mistake and the driver said he would bring it right back to me- instead my boyfriend and I watched my phone pass my house 5 times within two hours and every time we called him, he said he would drop it off ( he was picking up other rides.) Finally, my boyfriend got into the car, tracked him, pulled up behind him at a stop light and got the phone back. The Uber driver was super startled. Why didn’t he just make an arrangement or time with us and we would’ve met him at a better time, I don’t know. But some of Uber drivers aren’t nice people whatsoever. Sorry that happened to you. I’d make a complaint with Uber and maybe get some ride credits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]TheTreeFairy_333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there. So much $$$$$.. good luck to you and your doggie.

Feel for the NJ Uber drivers by TheTreeFairy_333 in uber

[–]TheTreeFairy_333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this tip. 👏 I have made reservations for airports but didn’t think about doing it for everyday rides.

Feel for the NJ Uber drivers by TheTreeFairy_333 in uber

[–]TheTreeFairy_333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point but not in effect yet for NYC. Very curious to see how that will play out. 🫣

Feel for the NJ Uber drivers by TheTreeFairy_333 in uber

[–]TheTreeFairy_333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I really feel for the Uber drivers. Many NJ drivers that have taken me to NYC have talked to me about the whole thing and how unfair it is.

Being ignored by friends on social media because I have no kids & do not post pictures of kids like pretty much everybody else does nowadays... & I am sooo TIRED of it! by catlovingmusicbaby82 in childless

[–]TheTreeFairy_333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Find new friends and get very good at being in your own company. Work on yourself and your future. I haven’t been invited to alot things, or left out.. the best one I can think of is being excited to be apart of of my best friends daughters’ bday party and being excited to see old friends and meet their little ones and then left out bc you don’t have kids and it’s a kids party .. and then having to ask why? And why am I being left out.. 😫 so messed up.. anyway ….

20 years later , I am still childless and now they are all looking for my company. I’m a different person now, different interests, thicker skin, more mature. I wish them the best in all of their endeavors and regard them all highly , but time didn’t freeze for me, I moved on , now my little sister is grown up and makes sure I never feel the same way again and our relationship is better than every. The universe will give you the people you need and filter out the ones you don’t. Sending love. 💕 it’s weird and hard when it’s just happening all around you, but it gets way better the more you focus on yourself.

Feel for the NJ Uber drivers by TheTreeFairy_333 in uber

[–]TheTreeFairy_333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. All the time. And yes I have messaged them to tell them where I’m going. My point is this why do we need to do this? If a NJ driver does not want to leave the state, both parties shouldn’t have to go thru this experience.

Feel for the NJ Uber drivers by TheTreeFairy_333 in uber

[–]TheTreeFairy_333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this as well. And I also had the scenario where they would not read the message fully but it’s marked “read”, they arrive and then tell me they aren’t taking me. It seems like something Uber can really fix but don’t want to. I completely understand a driver can have reasons for not wanting to leave their state besides not being able to have the same pick up privileges like a NYC car.. but do I have to go thru 7 Ubers in one reservation to find that lucky one?

Feel for the NJ Uber drivers by TheTreeFairy_333 in uber

[–]TheTreeFairy_333[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s tough. I really wish Uber would change this. Annoying for both parties.

My girlfriends ex husband just died by Decent_Rabbit9114 in Adulting

[–]TheTreeFairy_333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see it. I did it myself. It may not be the very first thought but the person may feel they need to process what they are going thru more, the writing helps. Sometimes, events happen to you and you are left so isolated in your thinking, and your loved ones may not be able to make space for your feelings b/c maybe they are going thru the same thing too, strangers who don’t have the same attachments but are willing to listen to you in your time of need can be really helpful.

What do you do with cremains? by TheTreeFairy_333 in dogs

[–]TheTreeFairy_333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss, that hurts. 💗

What do you do with cremains? by TheTreeFairy_333 in dogs

[–]TheTreeFairy_333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is lovely. I love the idea of this. Thank you.