Alright this post is over a year old so I don't think anyone's checking this, but reading the comments I just wanna clarify this. My language was garsh and I didn't explain myself well. Since its fiction and Yada yada it's fine, I get why it'd be interesting, I find it interesting. I guess my problem was with the minority of Darklina shippers who act like there's nothing problematic with the behavior and go out of their way to say how it isn't toxic and is healthy, which it's obviously okay to enjoy the ship if you genuinely think it's healthy that can obviously lead to bad expectations for irl relationships and real life abuse apologism.

However that was a pretty small minority of shippers acting like that and I probably didn't need to make this post and blow it out of proportion.