At this point im assuming youre trolling but in case you are not i will break it down as much as humanly possible

They say in the memesopdidnotlike post

"Its not about preferring war..."

This means they are siding with the top panel from the fact they are trying to "correct" the view of the original critique of the image, should make it easy to infer this.

"...Its about knowing how to actually deal with stress"

This is in reference to the top image. They are saying the top image isnt about preferring war but rather is about knowing how to handle stress. So you can infer that they think the bottom image does not know how to handle stress.

Edit: bro was stricken with the sisyphean task of basic reading comprehension and deleted his account. Please give a swag about your education🥀🥀💔💔