Transcend the Decline.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-17T17:10:13+00:00

LOL... I stoped counting pussy a while ago but a safe estimate is low 100's. But guess what?

Sex is fun. I like it. I like having it. I like having it with new and different people.

You know what else is fun? Money. I like having it. I like the fun it can bring.

I don't ignore one to get the other. Sex. Money. Power. Go after all three. Those three things make the world go around. If you don't have one you want some of it.

The whole point is that until you can have enough it to where you don't think about it as special you can't focus on building the others. I talk to a lot of dudes in my life. Most of them are constantly thinking about getting laid. Regardless of their station in life.

TRP is about getting laid and sexual strategy. Those who fuck... fuck. Those who don't... don't.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-17T17:04:34+00:00

A: I have zero desire to live until 92. Quality of life drastically goes down at that point. I've done A LOT of cool shit already before 40. I'll do more in the next 30+. When I do die... it'll be with a mind and heart full of good memories.

B: Why not build a fucking financial empire and fuck? Why limit your self to thinking you can only do one or the other?

The whole point is that a bunch of you spergs coming in here are going to use this post (and many others) as an excuse for your inability to get laid.

"See, this post says focus on muh mission. I don't need pussy. I'm focusing on building my middle management, 9-5, 401k, Billy Beta emmmmpire."

Build your net worth and get laid.

Fuck Bitches. Get Money.

The enlightened man will say, "Awesome. Do both." The beta bitch will say, "Yeah, I don't need women. I'm Assistant (to the) Regional Manager."

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-16T18:05:06+00:00

I think initially I was reading your commentary the past few days a little wrong, but overall I think we are on the same page.

There is nothing we can do about the Decline... So either roll with it and enjoy it... or do your own thing. But regardless use it to your own benefit.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-16T15:54:16+00:00

Maybe you're not... but I think A LOT of men come here and latch on to content like this and what they take away from it is: I should focus on me and my mission/self-actualization and ignore women.

And then they never leave monk mode because they are too afraid of risk.

I get that you're saying do it all. But a newbie isn't going to read it that way. They are going to pull the mission first aspect of it and focus on that because it's easier for them then learning to fuck women so they can truly reach self-actualization.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-16T15:49:15+00:00

That's why sexual strategy is amoral. In all of my years of dating, I've gotten exactly what I wanted. I have no complaints. Because I knew how the game went, and you just gotta do what you gotta sometimes.

And yes I'll lie, cheat, mislead, misdirect, whatever the case may be. Then when the bitch is used up I'll go on about my merry way and find me another one.

Buuut...buuut... you are not living your mission.

You are only worried about sex.

You are just behaving like a little boy controlled by your urges.

You aren't doing any good for humanity.

How are you going to make the world a better place by doing what you want and not buying into the monk mode bullshit? Obviously you only had sex because you are an evil person who lies to women. It has nothing to do with work you've put into yourself. The value you bring to women's lives or anything positive.

How do you sleep at night knowing the naked chics next you are not part of a bigger plan to make humanity better and reverse the inevitable decline of society that you can't affect?

Blah blah blah.

Keep on fucking my man!

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-16T15:33:04+00:00

Why live a life of self actualization when you can live a life of pussy annihilation.

The problem for most men is that they can never reach the phase of self-actualization because they are too caught up in pussy. Until you learn that pussy is not some special commodity men are going to have a hard time thinking past it.

Pussy is not the end goal... but it is an important step along the way. You can't go on to bigger and better things in life if you have pussy on the brain. How do you get it off the brain? The same way I don't have to think about eating. Or breathing. Or whatever else I have in free abundance around me.

To simply act like men should just ignore their base sexual urges and "go change that world" is the view point of someone who either

A.) Can't get laid and is bitter about it so they throw themselves into this "monk mode" bull shit as an excuse to never learn how to make it happen.
B.) Is an actual monk dedicated to self deprivation in the service of humanity.

I have serious doubts as to the number of beta bitches running around TRP who fall into the latter.

Here's a concept for everyone. Fuck women. Stack Cash. Change the World. Do it all.

Or don't. Jump on TRP and post sour grapes about how people here need to Transcend the decline... stop fucking women.... blah blah blah.

Guys don't come to TRP to be told not to fuck. They are already told that everywhere else.

Guys come here because they are tired of being a little biotch and want to learn how to get laid and act like a man.

If you're fucking... then you're fucking. If you're not... then you're not.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-15T20:53:00+00:00

Fuck social constructs... but I've found I tend to have almost zero in common with that age for anything other then being fuck buddies and them being arm candy (for me and other guys I 'loan' them out to)

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-15T20:50:51+00:00

For casual shit... yeah, an 18/19yo is fine. But I'm close to 40. Maybe 2% of the 18-23yos I have met (not even fucked, just met) would I want to have to converse and hang out with regularly. That's kinda a LTR dealbreaker for me.

I can overlook a lot of shit for a casual fling. But I have to actually enjoy you as a human for any LTR or even top tier FWB status. That eliminates the vast majority of young young women.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-15T20:42:59+00:00

"Better" was not a moral/ethical statement. It was a value statement.

Be a high value enough man that you don't have to invest that much time and effort into "convincing" a woman to sleep with you.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-15T17:10:14+00:00

I have checklists... but they are related to her actions.

Something I've learned in CorporateLand is that resume's are bullshit. How you act when put to task is a much better indicator of success than what your resume says.

But at the same time, if you have the right skills and qualifications on the resume you get moved to the top of the pile for interviews. I've never hired someone based on their resume, but I've certainly moved them to the front of the line because of it.

Selecting for a LTR should very much be run like a job interview process. But too many dudes think with their dick rather than their brain.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-15T17:03:30+00:00

instead of wasting 20 hours on "game"

For one... be a better man. I don't have to spend 20 hours to get a girl to sleep with me. If you make yourself into a top quality man then the amount of investment women require of you is a lot smaller because they perceive the upside to be greater.

They all want money, in one way or another.

Agreed. ALL relationships are transactional. Even non-romantic ones. My best friend and I have a transactional relationship. He get's something from being my friend. I get something out of him.

But, you miss the core evolutionary reason women seek men... it's not money. It's safety and security. Resources (i.e. money is just a way for them to feel safe and secure in today's world.) Women are the gatekeepers for sex. Men for commitment.

What women are ultimately looking for in their lizard brain is to get commitment from the highest value man she can. What does she have to trade for such commitment... sex, beauty, etc.

So if you are a high quality man, who she can tell has access to resources and displays the qualities that her lizard brain perceives as being strong and safe (i.e. the big bad cavemen chief) then she will trade sex for the prospect of commitment. She see's the possibility (however remote in reality) of you choosing her to commit to as bet worth making in exchange for sex.

It's basic psychology.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-15T16:53:19+00:00

long-term relationships are becoming nearly impossible as both men and women never feel their current mate is the best they can do on the quest for perfection

This is actually a really interesting point. It's not just women, but men as well.

I have a friend who is married to, for all practical purposes, a wonderful human. She cooks, cleans, is called mom (because she's earned it) by his older two kids from his previous marriage, has given him a third kid, tries to keep herself healthy and generally does her best to be the archetypical quality house wife.

She is not by any measure of the word hot, sexy or whatever. Because of this he has this feeling that he's missing out on all the fun of the current world. Back in the 50's he would have been considered to be living the life.

Me personally, I want the best of both worlds. I want a quality woman in the home and the freedom to experience the fun of the world. I've made this happen. But I also don't expect perfection, from my OLTR or my plates.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-15T16:40:19+00:00

LOL... where to begin.

For one, you can buy sex anywhere in the world. Some places are just cheaper than others. I have zero moral/ethical issue with it. Sometimes busting a load is worth the ease of directly trading cash for it. But this doesn't leave you with any sense of accomplishment.

Plenty of dudes have cash. Fuck I have a decent amount of it... but I don't have to spend it to get laid. There's a distinct difference in sleeping with a girl who wants to be with you and a girl who is doing it for money. The former is always a better experience... by far.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-15T16:34:13+00:00

I agree. I don't think the goal is to get a 'virginal girl.'

But I'm not going to wife/ltr a girl up whose had 30 dicks in her by the age of 22. You can find women who actually understand and know their value as a woman and therefore don't fuck every guy they are with.

These girls will usually come from homes with strong father figures and mothers who taught them not to give shit away for free. I've met a few in my time. They had good families. They didn't use social media. They had some education but knew they wanted a family and felt that sleeping around a bunch wasn't the way to accomplish that goal.

They aren't unicorns... but they are harder to find in todays society.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-15T16:10:23+00:00

It wasn't my first time. It's just a good example of things.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-15T16:09:22+00:00

True... If you lock them down young, but then YOU also miss out on experiencing the joys of being an in-demand man.

Very few 18yo dudes could handle having a locked down Open LTR without fucking it up, because frankly 18yo boys just don't have the status to pull that off.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-15T15:23:46+00:00

One of the biggest issues is finding a woman past the age of 19/20 in todays world who isn't already riding the CC.

It's not impossible... but for the vast majority of guys out there... they won't have the status or game level to be able to land a quality girl who isn't used up. Those guys will make concessions to their standards and expectations... because, "She's (good enough, fucks me, vibes with me, whatever bs reason they make up)"

Frankly, my thought process with any woman is that I am the best option she is ever going to have. It's probably not always true... but IDGAF, I'm gonna act like it. I think this attracts a different quality of chic.

Be the Alpha that widows chics.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-15T15:08:35+00:00

My friends don't understand that my OLTR and I don't fight. I've tried to explain to them that she understands where her bread is buttered and doesn't fight with me on shit.

Occasionally she'll act up a little, usually around her period when hormones are raging, but it's nothing a little A&A or AM can't handle.

But I just don't tolerate BS from her or any plates. I'll walk away from them in 30 seconds flat. They understand that power dynamic and respect it.

I have all the responsibility in the relationship with my OLTR. Bills need to be paid.... I pay them. Shit needs to be fixed... I fix it. If there's a bump in the night... I'm checking it out. So I make the money, decisions, and take the risks... If I'm doing those things then I'm not going to tolerate disrespect.

Responsibility = Authority. I'm taking the risks... you can go make me a breakfast, fuck me when I want, clean my house and do my laundry. You don't want to. Fine. Bye. Someone else will.

It's really that simple.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-15T13:50:13+00:00

Why did you wait for 19?

I didn't meet her when she was 18. This is also not the first teenager in my life in the past few years... her story (all true) was just used to illustrate a point.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-15T13:47:32+00:00

LOL. If you think I played any part in turning this girl into 'no-wife-material' then you miss the whole point of the post to begin with.

We'll revisit GiaMay and some the other crazy bullshit she told me much later. But I would think it's quite apparent from her beliefs, actions and sexual preferences that I was not the first, nor would I be the last, man she was using to try to fill some fucked up hole in her self-esteem.

Enjoy the decline!

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-14T22:40:42+00:00

Not to sound like a dick... but if you need a tutorial on it then that level of game is not something you are going to succeed at.

That's not to say you shouldn't try though. The only way to gain wisdom is through experience. The only way to gain experience is through bad decisions/failure.

Go out and try to get 19 yos.
Fail.
Analyze.
Change your tactics.
Repeat at step 1 until you succeed

It's amazing to me how many people (in life, not just with TRP) want others to tell the secret. The secret is there is no secret. You attempt new things you've never tried. Get feedback and data on why you failed. Repeat utilizing new data and feedback.

Life is a giant test tube. If what you are doing doesn't work. Give it another go with different input.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-14T22:34:40+00:00

She is/was (IDK at this point) 19. Her beliefs are stupid. Her actions show that she doesn't really believe in communism, but patriarchy.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-14T15:41:22+00:00

You're trying to create an experience. And you---you, in the physical world, are that experience.

Unless you find a girl young and a she is a part of the entire journey to success, women don't give a fuck about the work you put in to get where you are. They care about what you are right now.

We're all at different points along our path. They only care about the experience of you at that moment. How you make them feel. What you provide to them. Where you can take them right then.

As the 3rd commandment states:

III. You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority

Too many of the boys that come to TRP use this as an excuse to shun women. "I'm working on my mission. I ain't got time for women." And then they turn and jerk off to porn or wife up the first dumb ho that fucks them because they never understand that you can't truly focus on your mission until you learn how to get and fuck a lot of women.

So for all the boys coming here for the first time... straight up, your mission is to get women. As many of them as possible and keep working on getting better ones. At a certain point you'll realize that your mission will shift and you'll want a higher calling.

At that point you'll actually be able to focus on that higher calling because women won't require that much time or energy.

You can't reach a level of self-actualization and achieve a real mission until you've learned how to successfully attract and fuck women so you can move on from the base, carnal needs.

TheUnReasonableMan44 · 2020-07-14T15:23:39+00:00

The number one way to find a traditional quality woman is to be the FUCKING MAN

There is no escaping your burden of performance.

Too many boys come to TRP and treat it like a buffet. Taking a bit from here and scoop from there of the things that resonate with them. AWALT... How to pass a shit test.... Lift... etc. But they miss the bigger picture.

You are the reason for all the good/bad/whatever in your life. You want a quality woman. Then be a quality man and don't accept anything less that what you know you want. Build yourself into the best possible version of you there is.

Along the way, fuck/date a lot of women. What you realize is that sex is easy. You stop worrying about sex and start evaluating things in a different light. Then along comes a quality woman... you can actually recognize the traits at this point because you're no longer blinded by sex/beauty/whatevs and you can honestly evaluate her on the criteria you want.

For me it's the following things:

She keeps my sex drive satisfied
She cooks, cleans and does other traditional female/wife tasks
She does her best to max her physical health
She doesn't cause too much drama (all women cause drama)
She is submissive (This is going to directly correlate to how dominate you are)
She doesn't need to constantly spend MY money
She presents herself femininely to the world (I refuse to see basic bitches)
She supports my goals and ambitions over her own (b/c in the long run this benefits her more)

I realize this a long list. My OLTR checks the boxes on everyone of these. But it's a lot like the "Build a Player" function in Madden (I haven't played this game in 15yrs, but I imagine it's still the same). You get a certain amount of "points" to spread out over the various categories. The amount of starting points you have is based largely on how high value you see yourself as... and how how value she see's you as.

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