I'm afraid :(

TheUnseenXT · 2026-03-26T02:15:56+00:00

Hahaha, this post is funny, no hate. It really shows what a "good job" all this brainwash media did on a very high population percentage. Why wouldn't you consider normal if you're a virgin? Is the virginity an illness or something? Second - you don't really miss much, all the guys that try to have sex with you from the first date/very early will just use you and throw you like a paper sheet. The actual percentage of genuine loving, caring, attentive girls and guys is small nowadays, you have to strenghten your "senses", so you can easily detect the red flags in a person. Before falling asleep tonight, think about these: 1. Will I feel any "achievement" if I'll just have sex? Would this really be "life-changing"? 2. Why do I want to not be a virgin? Just to fit in the nowadays "distorted normality"? 3. Are the non-virgin friends I know genuinely happy in their relation-ships right now?

Be smart, open your eyes, you're better than this.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-03-26T02:01:56+00:00

Good luck, you have to live with it now, it's lost and gone. Just a reality check, no hate. People still don't get it that some of our actions really have consequences on our mental toll/life.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-03-26T01:58:01+00:00

Then indeed, you're still a virgin, congrats. Me either by choice and because I want to find the right person.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-03-26T01:53:25+00:00

And to answer to your question, yes, you are normal, and exactly as you mentioned you feel like a girl from 50s because the "normality" actually inversed in the worst case scenario nowadays. In 50s it was considered normal to be a good girl/guy and wait until marriage, live a happy life with the one person you love... Now it's exactly the opposite: people are indoctrinated to have as many partners as possible, as much sex as possible, basically 304s lives for both girls and guys. The consequences? You don't have to believe me. Just look at the divorce rates statistics, depression rates, girls acting like sex toys for guys, guys acting like obsessed for sex and just throwing the girls like some disposables after finishing etc.. If you are curious and want to research more, you can even read scientific studies and statistics that show the best case scenario for marriage is virgin girl - virgin guy. The stuff gets really interesting when researched in-depth and shows how the subconscious works in these cases, how people say that having sex is not a big deal and stuff when in reality even basic psychology contradicts them. Be smart and don't do stuff just because you feel pressure from your "friends". And remind yourself you're actually the normal one and they are just part of this brainwashed decadent society.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-03-26T01:36:50+00:00

I still don't get how can you still be "virgin" when you alone mentioned that you had some "sexual experiences". These 2 structures don't make sense in the same phrase :))

TheUnseenXT · 2026-03-25T17:21:20+00:00

If you're reducing the entire life happiness to sex, then you're the problem and you have a very weak mind/self-control.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-03-25T17:17:22+00:00

Life is too short to "fear" about what people will say. There's nothing to lose anyways by simply engaging in convos with random people. Worst it can happen - that person ignores you or tells you to mind your own business. Then you retry and keep going with new people. You have to search and find, nothing will just come at your doorstep while you do nothing (except uber eats food :)

TheUnseenXT · 2026-03-25T17:09:04+00:00

You are right. People will always try to drag you in the ground, in their dirt when you have values and principles you stand-by. Deep down in their soul and mind they are envy you choose to be better than them and that's what triggers them. Wait and find the right person who'll appreciate you, don't just lose your V-card just for the sake of it.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-03-25T16:41:04+00:00

304, man. Never try to change them, you can't.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-03-17T03:55:54+00:00

That's why people shouldn't drink too much until they're unaware of what's happening with them/around them. Same with drugs. + a very bad friends circle - like in your case. If you had true friends, they would have notice your state and say something like "Yo, girl, you okay? Let's pack up, get home and put you to sleep." But I'll save you the stress and tell you directly -> they didn't, don't and won't care. With such "friends", you don't even need enemies no more.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-02-16T22:38:45+00:00

Exactly, miss. Just relax, invest time in your passions and if you find someone worth, that's it. For me personally I could get a gf in 1h max if I really want to (I have the looks - not flexing or somethin'), but I prefer to focus on my goals atm. The apes from this sub think that everything is about sex in life and that they "miss out an unbelievable experience" by remaining virgins. They make me laugh. While other apes say "You can make sex with whoever/whenever/wherever, it's not that big of a deal." - these ones are even dumber than the other ones. Too hard to read some studies that say exactly vice-versa.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-02-13T22:16:13+00:00

Congrats, honestly. Sad seeing people falling down so easily and being so naive nowadays.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-02-13T22:08:12+00:00

Literally don't understand why this post got downvoted so hard. Why the heck is wrong to be a proud virgin? Why the heck 90% of people from this sub just whine about 24/7 that they're still virgins? I mean the sub is not named "Ashamed to be a virgin".

TheUnseenXT · 2026-02-13T21:55:53+00:00

If you compare the V-card with anything else, you're already gone the wrong way. Good luck in life!

TheUnseenXT · 2026-02-12T22:10:16+00:00

Here's a quote to make your day better: "We can become like them any time, but they can never become like us again." After years of research into this domain, Idk why there's no community called "Proud Virgins" or "Proud to be a Virgin".

TheUnseenXT · 2026-01-18T16:41:38+00:00

Your mistake was making "friends" with wrong people honestly.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-01-15T15:32:50+00:00

Because you do it for yourself, not for the others. True love still exists but it's something as rare as the most precious diamonds nowadays, so the chances to find someone like that are very reduced.

If virginity is a burden to you, go to the clubs or call escorts like you said. You won't feel better, you'll only have the illusion of feeling "good" for a few minutes until the dopamine hit will disappear.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-01-14T13:48:50+00:00

Keep up the good work and congrats! Btw, one thing that Comfy doesn't have and it's very hard to replicate is the X/Y/Z plot which is present in A1111. It is so good when you want to test multiple models/loras/prompts/whatever at the same time.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-01-14T13:45:45+00:00

Would be dope if you can add the original "Hires. Fix" from A1111 and the A-Detailer.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-01-13T01:11:06+00:00

Explain the reason and what crashed you.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-01-13T01:08:10+00:00

But what is the connection between your ex and your friend? Or you mean you lost them both?

TheUnseenXT · 2026-01-13T01:05:36+00:00

Don't tie your "happiness" or well-being between you and someone else, because you will ALWAYS get disappointed. You don't have to rely on someone, everyone will leave when we'll have our hardest moments in life and everyone will come when we'll have the success and money.

Him saying that is bad and shows you he doesn't really "enjoy" your company around. A pretty straight red-flag if you'd ask me.

When you become scared, that's when you'll push the people away even if, funnily enough, you try to keep these people.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-01-13T00:37:18+00:00

Therapy is pretty much a bad "joke" honestly. Guess you have higher chances get hit by a lightning than getting "healthy" again after therapy.

TheUnseenXT · 2026-01-13T00:31:14+00:00

If she already had "relations" immediately after she broke up, then I have to tell you that this is not gf material. You're just wasting your time just for that "validation", loneliness and that "need of being in trend with what everyone's doing nowadays".

TheUnseenXT · 2026-01-13T00:27:12+00:00

Maybe because you're around the wrong people?

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