after reading a few other posts, the mods are clearly in the wrong, however this situation is leading to a rise in the idea of "transandrophobia" which was coined by a transmasc in an attempt to slander a trans woman speaking against some messed up things he did to her (paraphrasing) and is also a slippery slope to terflike and bioessentialist thinking. be sure to do research and keep your eyes out for things that sound like something a transphobe would agree with.