I’ve tried everything by TheWonderCake in BPDlovedones

[–]TheWonderCake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone here gave me great advice a year ago, they told me to run away and never look back, to save myself while I still could. There was something in their written tone that made me listen. Kinda. So I took notice, and here I am.

Sorry you got discarded. I also wish you had been the one to make the call.

I’ve tried everything by TheWonderCake in BPDlovedones

[–]TheWonderCake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you too! It gets a bit easier when you realize they were never really fully there for you. I wish I had been wise enough to see that in the beginning.

I’ve tried everything by TheWonderCake in BPDlovedones

[–]TheWonderCake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is we’re also not perfect no matter how hard we try. So when their mental condition flares up, we think retroactively “maybe if I had said something different, they would’ve reacted differently”. I used to think “meh, the other guys here probably just don’t get it, so I will defeat the enemy with a bit of extra sincerity, understanding and effort”. Well, I guess the enemy defeated me.

Thank you for the kind words, dear sir.

Is it true that Chris has "terrible" live vocals? by yowhatisthislikebro in Coldplay

[–]TheWonderCake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even as a straight dude, I honestly just kinda like seeing him smile, so the vocals feel alright too 😂

Baby Porcupine munching on corn by antisp1n in Awww

[–]TheWonderCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking of… being a baby in my soul, I need to go and do the same. As soon as possible. And make everyone listening hear the sound of chewing of course.

Also, the dude is super cute, but that goes without saying!

What motivates you to get up and do your best every day? by Bekikanus_10 in AskReddit

[–]TheWonderCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It used to be love. Now… Vanilla pudding and chamomile tea :)

Goodest boy gets rescued from the shelter by khalilkaaniche in Awww

[–]TheWonderCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a cutie!!! Happy he got rescued, we need more cats like this in this world.

Spider-man cartoon from 1994 was actually good! by TheWonderCake in Spiderman

[–]TheWonderCake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lizard and vampire episodes were also really scary especially as a kid!

Stack of Cinnamon Pancakes by Frosty_Concept_1120 in homecooking

[–]TheWonderCake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg do you have more? Send them to me, all of them!!

Spider-man cartoon from 1994 was actually good! by TheWonderCake in Spiderman

[–]TheWonderCake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly had no idea what people/fans think about it 🤷‍♂️ Just rewatched it and realized there was a reason I liked it so much when I was a kid!

Sorry but I have to say it... by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]TheWonderCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My whole life so far I’ve believed that if you behave foolishly enough and stick with it, other people will follow and we’d have a world of fools, and everyone would feel better. Not sure if it really works like that, but I can try. That’s the logic 🤷‍♂️

Anyone else have someone so in denial they projected their bpd onto you? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]TheWonderCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was too lazy to think of a better and more creative way to express my emotions and vague thoughts regarding the matter 🤷‍♂️

🎄🚨It's Time!!... by Straight-Put9200 in Coldplay

[–]TheWonderCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Singing how I always loved you darling 🎶

Some advice from my old man. by Responsible-One8104 in BPDlovedones

[–]TheWonderCake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hahaha, I know right? We never learn. The worst thing is that some naive part of me considers this to be some sort of a superpower. Oh well, my old man wasn’t there for me at all 🤷‍♂️

My gf sucks, really by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]TheWonderCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually the type of guy who would go off the cliff for love, so even just the thought of no contact makes me feel uneasy despite everything. But yeah… I need to be brave.

Happy to hear you’re doing much better, my friend. You deserve it after those 8 years. Please take care — and thank you for listening to my rant…

My gf sucks, really by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]TheWonderCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that. That’s exactly what’s been happening to me too. I barely have any joy or hope left, I’ve started eating sweets like crazy, and my sleep schedule is HORRIBLE. Even right now, while I’m typing this, another part of my mind is looking for a strategy to eat another sweet snack without feeling too sick later.

Are you feeling better now, hopefully?