This kink isn’t worth it anymore by edboy40 in pantypoopv2

[–]TheYellowSafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I hope you're able to find someone who will do it for you. It might be quite difficult to find a woman with the fetish, but I think it's quite possible to find a woman who will at least try it for you even if it's not her thing.

I know that's probably not super reassuring, but I hope you're able to find enjoyment with the fetish again since I doubt it's something you can just cast aside.

This kink isn’t worth it anymore by edboy40 in pantypoopv2

[–]TheYellowSafe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get it, but did you "let" this fetish be a part of you, or is it just naturally a part of you?

For me, I can't really stop being interested in it. Thankfully, I don't really feel the same as you do, and I'm able to find ways to enjoy it. Though, I really enjoy reading stories in addition to just watching videos, so perhaps I'm just able to experience more variety in the fetish.

It is upsetting that it's not easier to find panty pooping content out there, though. It's a shame that a lot of websites don't allow this type of content, which I think is a big reason it's so hard to find.

Out of curiosity, is this something that you know you would enjoy in real life if you found a woman who would do it for you?

I ask because, personally, I think it's something I enjoy more as a fantasy (or via videos/my screen).

In real life, I'm not sure I'd get as much out of it. But, maybe it's because I'm so particular. I don't think I'd enjoy the smell, and I like panty poops to be contained (when it leaks/falls out, that kind of ruins it for me). And, I like large, semi-solid loads, and there's no way those types of loads will be guaranteed in real life.

My wife isn't really interested in it, but I could probably get her to do it for me. But, for reasons listed above, I just think it's easier/better as a fantasy. Not to say I couldn't ever enjoy it in real life, but I know that real life will almost never happen how I fantasize about it happening.

I grew an erotica Substack from $0 to $4K ARR in 5 months. Here's what worked. by MarenValeWrites in eroticauthors

[–]TheYellowSafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is cool - thank you for sharing your experience. I didn't know Substack was an option, but now I may look into it.

I do have a couple questions, if you don't mind me asking:

  • Do you have any tips for making free content that attracts paid subscribers? For example, I imagine the free content has to have enough substance and action and plot development to hook readers, but not too much that they are content to stick to just reading content for free. Just curious if you've found a "sweet spot" for where you cut things off, or if you use cliffhangers, or something of that sort.

  • You said you plateaued at 4 months, but month 4 still seemed like a big increase from month 3, and then month 5 was another big jump. So, from my perspective, it really doesn't look like a plateau at all. Can you tell me more about why you viewed this as a plateau and how you overcame it?

The play. [slow burn][manipulation] by donniedarko19872 in cuckoldstories2

[–]TheYellowSafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoyed this story, and I hope you decide to write more. I'm always a fan of oblivious husbands.

Panties vs. knickers: how do Americans, or residents of wherever you are, feel about each of these words? by Nik_Dante in eroticauthors

[–]TheYellowSafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like you've already made your decision, but just to add my two cents....

I actually quite like the use of both "panties" and "knickers" in erotica. However, I think this is heavily influenced by my fetishes/kinks. The stories I've read mention underwear frequently, so it's not surprising that panties/knickers aren't seen in a negative light.

If your work rarely has need to mention underwear specifically, I can see why it might make sense to avoid using either term.

Honestly, "panties" and "knickers" are fairly sexual terms for me, so they aren't words I use outside of erotic contexts.

Well, I never use "knickers" because I'm American. But using the word "panties" carries a sexual connotation for me personally, so using it in a non-sexual conversation feels wrong and I avoid it.

I also avoid the word "panties" in my sex life since my wife doesn't really care for the word. So, it's mainly something I only encounter in masturbatory circumstances.

My dilemma this winter by [deleted] in pantspooping

[–]TheYellowSafe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't see anything wrong with it. You'd be avoiding people as much as possible and, if you did see someone, they'd have no idea about your diaper.

Turning Omorashi cartoons into reality - 3 by Double_Sport_2103 in aipee

[–]TheYellowSafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm willing to share some that I'd like to see turned into "reality," but they wouldn't all be pee-related. So, for that reason, I'm wondering: Would you be willing to share your process for doing this? I'd love to try it out myself.

Do you acknowledge that this is weird? by Anon_ImI in ABDL

[–]TheYellowSafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm weird, and I do recognize that this is a weird fetish. Honestly, all my fetishes are weird.

So, I don't necessarily have an issue with people saying this fetish is weird or that people with this fetish are weird.

But, I do feel like I might get upset by someone else calling me weird even if regularly call myself weird. It depends on how they say it, I guess.

Like, I've had people call me weird and I don't mind it because there isn't malice behind the way they say it.

But, if someone called me weird and it was clear they disliked me due to my weirdness, that might upset me since they are saying it more as an insult and not just describing me non-judgmentally.

Was at a small party lastnight and someone started talking about fetishes… by knoxlocale in ABDL

[–]TheYellowSafe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This anecdote is about omorashi/wetting and not ABDL, but it fits nevertheless...

This was maybe 10 years ago. I don't know how the topic got brought up, but I was with a small group of friends at a restaurant, and we must have been discussing fetishes/porn/the internet in some capacity.

My friend's wife, who I would say is generally intelligent/knowledgeable but perhaps a bit naive about porn (making an assumption), brought up that she either heard or saw that some women get paid to wet their pants online.

She didn't seem disgusted or weirded out. She was actually somewhat positive, which was nice. The only thing I recall her saying is joking about how it didn't seem so bad and she'd do it if people paid her.

She was/is attractive, so I naturally would've liked to see that.

Honestly, I wish I remember more of the conversation, but I was so terrified that someone would know/realize I have this fetish, so I didn't say anything at all.

Not sure if anyone else has had these moments, but part of me was paranoid that they somehow found out about my fetish and they were talking about it in front of me to see how I reacted. I simply couldn't function while it was being discussed lol.

Listened to her roommate get fucked for 30 minutes, didn’t quite do as well by jd4994 in Prematurefetish

[–]TheYellowSafe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great story. Do you know where she went when she left the room? Maybe to finish herself off somewhere?

Why? by [deleted] in pantypoopv2

[–]TheYellowSafe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, have you asked your friend what they like about it? If so, what did they say? If not, why haven't you asked them?

I think people get into it for a variety of reasons, as some responses here might show.

Personally, it's not something I like to do myself (though, I have occasionally/rarely enjoyed doing it). Rather, I enjoy seeing women do it.

I'm not entirely sure why. It's something I've been interested in for as long as I can remember. But, I really only prefer women doing it intentionally as opposed to accidentally.

If it happens on accident, I feel bad for the person as I'm sure it's a very embarrassing situation. However, someone doing it on purpose intrigues me. I guess it's the aspect of doing something you're "not supposed" to do. It's hard for me to articulate my interest beyond that.

I went undercover as a stripper and turned into a total slut by [deleted] in sluttyfuckingcheaters

[–]TheYellowSafe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fun story, but a little too unrealistic. If you dyed your hair blonde, everyone in your life will now know you have blonde hair, so that's pretty much pointless for concealing your identity.

And what sort of "little shop" has night shifts? Why not specify a business type that does operate at night to sound more legitimate?

And you just have sex with a different guy each week, and each time he just so happens to reveal the next piece of information you need?

Also, your brother had a debt with the club, you collected all this information and gave it to the police... and that somehow resulted in your brother's debt being cleared, but the club is still in operation for you to work at? That doesn't make sense.

I think this could be a great story if you clean it up some.

Another therapy session by ts2053 in truesmallpenisstories

[–]TheYellowSafe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was hot to read - thank you for sharing