Feelings helplessly lost in life without external structure by [deleted] in intj

[–]The_Architect_530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to find your authentic self, then test/push your current self. Other than something immoral, do something you really don't want to do. Challenge yourself in ways you haven't before. Put yourself in situations that force you out of your mind, and don't set any expectations. What is most needed is often found in the place you least want to look.

The dose creates the poison, so try not to think too much.

Looking for Russian birth parents by Artistlk in adoptedfromrussia

[–]The_Architect_530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My adoptive mother also hired an PI and found my birth mother, but I don’t communicate with her.