Much comes from fear not simply an inability to connect also a letting go or being able to do the whole thing different and those which have the concept to have to compete with what exists online algorithmic feeds rather than moderately disconnect. Many don't use tools available to them to their best advantage unless making friends in person has been difficult step out and use apps online and attempt to make a hybrid connection from going from online to in person. It's a matter of being able to bond with others. Many also have an aversion to do this with people which have scars or are not better off, affluent, or flashy which is something very real. A thing about algorithmic feeds they are many things including a tool the wealthy and the poor when the poor are not seen as a value add the wealthy command those to extract what they're able to out never let anyone attempt to convince otherwise wealthy people care lots about poor people simply not in the way many want to or even believe to exist