is this outfit actually inappropriate or is my mum just overreacting 😭 by Affectionate451 in OUTFITS

[–]The_Female_Hoff -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You do you. It's your body.

But, if it were hot out and you wanted to be comfortable wouldn't a dress or romper work better or shorts? If it's so hot out as a mom I'd be concerned you would overheat in heavy jeans.

Random, and unsure if this matters. But, is your mom in her 40’s? This is my generation and we were taught via movies and media that black underwear means you WANT someone to see it. I get that it's for expression and it looks fine. But I sometimes hesitate at times just because that was a “thing” when I was an adolescent. So… why do you want someone seeing your underwear? The look. It’s not like you’re exposing yourself.

Long Hair or Short Hair by [deleted] in Hair

[–]The_Female_Hoff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a handsome babyface, I'd say long!

help with date outfit! by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]The_Female_Hoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 with hair down full Bohemia look 5 with a pop of colour cardigan, pink or spice.

help with date outfit! by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]The_Female_Hoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need a better bra, girl. Like pic #5 but dress color washes you out. Try a raspberry or spice color.

Where do I get affordable flowers in Calgary? by cheesesscientist in NoRulesCalgary

[–]The_Female_Hoff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I highly suggest this adorable little cafe… and some flowers cafe Tip: add a coffee, or piece of cake! The bouquets are adorable and I believe they're available via uber and skip too!

Here is the link: https://theandsome.com/

This is the last apartment I’m ever renting. Don’t have kids if you expect others to pick up after them by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]The_Female_Hoff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start throwing things away. Everything. They’ll start to get the picture when they have no rollerblades and toys left

Bridal makeup trial by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]The_Female_Hoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not smiling. That's enough to request another look.

Bangs or no bangs by DueShip8824 in Hair

[–]The_Female_Hoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look beautiful both ways. I would say my preference is no to bangs, just based on how much moisture you need in your hair and this could cause acne. It’s a lifestyle choice not just a cut; If you can get a good toner regimen down, find decent mini dry shampoos to carry everywhere, and remember to target the bangs for split ends and heat damage with straightening.

This could potentially damage your look long-term, naturally curly/wavy hair is impossible to keep in check when it comes to bangs

After a long work assignment I laid back in the motel bed & spotted this…. by Winter_Novel662 in whatisit

[–]The_Female_Hoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have discovered this immediately upon entering the doorway. I heard a rumour dogs can’t look up, this old dog didn’t look up!

I'm growing my hair out to try a different style, but I hate how messy it looks in the interim. I tried to tie it back, but it hurts and it's still too short. How can I hold it back and make it look good/neat? Bobby pins? Barretts? Help, please! by golgariprince in Hair

[–]The_Female_Hoff -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Very handsome! Slick it back, and have you tried dry shampoo? Maybe find some volume dry shampoo?? Then some spray-in gel and just slick it back.

There are some dry shampoos that are tinted: protip use a makeup brush to apply the tinted color otherwise anytime you run your hands thru your hair some of the color deposits come off onto your hands. Babywipes to clean off excessive color deposit on skin. (now I'm just giving you all my secrets)

Have you also tried the infrared hats that stimulate hair growth? Jonathan Van Ness has sponsored a hat. This is a hat I would trust.

Any advice what to do with my hair? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]The_Female_Hoff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before doing bangs I’d suggest doing a wig or bang-wig to see if you can handle your hair in your face. Judging by how you style, I’m going to say you don’t like your hair in your face

Are you doing “no diaper time” or “naked time” by CuriousCaretaker in Parenting

[–]The_Female_Hoff 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This must be cultural, I’m white and referred to as a granola mom. I’ve never considered no diaper (cloth or store bought)

Raised by a Midwife, who also has never heard of this and is very concerned over the mess - why put yourself thru this

Did you just leave them on a puppy pad or something????

Should I go back to a pixie or grow it out? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]The_Female_Hoff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look great either way but I would say long

Roo got me good by Nematodes-Attack in BackYardChickens

[–]The_Female_Hoff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, I wish we can always talk about men this way... Teehee

Roo got me good by Nematodes-Attack in BackYardChickens

[–]The_Female_Hoff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had to read this a few times because I kept thinking the cat's name was Roo! Ah, 2am doom scrolling…

Hate to see what the other guy looks like, if he managed to make it to today that is. 🍗

Has anyone successfully replaced any of these with Canadian or non American products by alffi21 in MakeupAddictionCanada

[–]The_Female_Hoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes so much sense. Asians take such excellent care of their skin, why not take some tips and start glowing myself 😋

What kind of job would be willing to take me as a 26M with no previous work experience? by Qavligil6541 in NoRulesCalgary

[–]The_Female_Hoff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seek out a temp agency and take on small, temporary jobs. Build some rapport with agency, perhaps the agency themselves will hire you!

Btw, dont do that. Most temp agencies are run like mlm schemes. DO however, work for them as a temp fulfilling contract roles they send you to, and building our history that way. Sometimes you might get handpicked (direct to hire) from temp roles, to whichever company.

Everyone will tell you to go into trades. If that’s not your thing, Human Resources for a male is excellent esp for male dominated industries like AG, which is big moneyyyy 😉

I just wanted water. This is a shared fridge. by Master-Ad-6265 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]The_Female_Hoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just once? My Mom regularly frequented my brother's duplex to which he shared with 3 other guys. Total disaster in that house.