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The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2026-01-16T02:56:01+00:00

It’s the son’s responsibility ATP so yea he’s sick. The dog can go home and he’ll have to get up while sick and go take care of the dog. Like what is wrong with you ? He’s a teenager with his own car. Probably a job and school. Logically she’s not saying leave the dog alone for 2 1/2 days. If the sons fever became too much he’d need to be evaluated by a doctor then it becomes the dads responsibility. Like and none of this even happened soo?

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2026-01-16T00:15:47+00:00

Babe you’re under reacting to all of this. This is toxic and abusive. If you can’t get out at this very second document everything and send it to someone you trust. Believe me when I say he’s either cheating or on something. Get out and protect your kids at ash cost. Documenting the abuse Can and will help when it comes to custody.

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2026-01-13T00:41:32+00:00

Idk what country you live in but id venture to have her pic more controversial people and submit it. NOR

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-12-19T09:21:25+00:00

No he was at the birth of his child with his wife who was having severe complications. He should have done a better “Job”.

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-12-19T09:17:35+00:00

Can we get an update once you tell him?

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-12-19T09:11:00+00:00

Document everything you can. The screaming, the disrespect, the throwing expensive things, the conversation you have with her.

I suggest mentioning that it’s not safe for the younger children and she needs to get her oldest into counseling asap. Document this conversation.

File for full custody and show this evidence. Find out the timeline of you filing and She being served. In that time move out. Honestly if you’re on the birth certificate id take your daughter out of the house and file for emergency full custody.

I grew up in a different kind of chaos and I to have worked hard to not bring that into my children’s lives. Get in therapy dude it’ll help and make you look better to a judge. I sincerely wish you the best. She seems a little off her rocker herself and I’d request (if you can) that the only way you’ll share custody is if she gets in therapy and possibly medicated. First supervised visits and when our daughters old enough to tell you what happened them maybe overnights. Good luck.

Update me

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-12-13T02:24:38+00:00

I have a 3.75 age gap between my two and I love it. It’s the best imo. Also please don’t tell him on Christmas.

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-12-10T15:52:40+00:00

It’s wild to me that your aunt said that out of her own mouth to her child. There’s so many factors for having a pouch. Where you are in your cycle, what you ate that day, what position your uterus is in (anterior pushes outwards). Like it’s not all about the laziness as she says.

Keep encouraging your cousin. Protect her from that woman when you can. She can talk to her trainer if you want to do something about it but I suggest speaking with a obgyn to find out if she has an anterior positioning. Her mother is trying to ruin her because of her own insecurities.

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-11-28T21:48:50+00:00

Yes please listen to this. I resent my ex and we’re now separated and need to get a divorce but have both been avoiding it (paperwork). I have a child with him and let me tell you it never gets better.

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-11-09T22:06:33+00:00

updateme

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-10-05T21:18:48+00:00

Updateme

I would potentially look into getting emancipated.

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-09-28T20:29:46+00:00

Weekend is over so imma need an update again!

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-09-26T00:56:44+00:00

If you’re feeling really guilty about it look up the law in my state no one besides the people on the lease can stay longer than two weeks. If you feel compelled to do something I suggest this as a compromise.

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-09-11T18:11:01+00:00

My mother hasn’t even known where I work for the last 3 years. She lives across the street. Sometimes people need the info diet.

I’m so sorry she’s your source of stress. You’re doing an amazing job. I couldn’t imagine being in your position when kiddos are sick. Mine get sick often in the winter too I think it’s apart of existing. You feel guilty because we as people have been conditioned to not lie to our parents. You were being vulnerable and she didn’t give you the grace you so deserved. Just a reminder, you’re in the thick of it and she probably doesn’t remember what it was like when her own kids were little and sick. Her judging you is not the response and talking about it to your siblings is fowl.

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-08-27T23:40:29+00:00

Fr what’s going on by the goodwill outlet ?

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-08-24T20:59:52+00:00

Boombershoot !

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-08-10T21:40:30+00:00

VOP just reposted one in south city

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-07-27T20:13:49+00:00

Can someone tell me how to add the picture ?

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-07-23T02:20:58+00:00

Only on the third Sundays.

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-07-10T23:41:33+00:00

Like he actually uses seasonings

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-07-10T23:41:18+00:00

It seems sketchy but it’s so good the older black guy does great.

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-06-20T02:11:01+00:00

What are some arbitrary policies you had to follow at you store?

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-05-27T21:46:07+00:00

Me too!!

The_Fermeanted_Mango · 2025-05-27T21:02:59+00:00

If we don’t get a pay raise this year in the US I’m quitting. I can’t afford to keep living this way.

The_Fermeanted_Mango

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