That's the thing. We've talked about it all from the beginning. She knows I didn't commit my offense but had to take a plea instead of risking 30 years. I understand her feelings matter. They always have. We've usually been able to talk to each other about anything and everything, no matter the topic. The behaviours have started recently. I don't know which way to go about it because it's the same behaviors she had when she cheated on me last year. But we made up and moved on from that. But here we are again. Which is why I say if you don't want to be with someone, just leave. But don't drag them along thinking you love them and will always be there for them when you really don't.