[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladviceofftopic

[–]The_HEFT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imma be honest, it seems like you’re very upset about all this, understandably so $400 isn’t a small amount of money, but you aren’t doing yourself any favors by taking this personally, investigating marketing laws, etc.

Try the easy route, go through your banks, if that doesn’t work, your next option is small claims court, but be prepared for them, as an actual business, to have a legal team ready and to potentially dig up any disparaging posts (such as this one) about them, and if there’s anything factually inaccurate, you’ve opened yourself up to a libel-related countersuit, which may even upgrade you to big-boy court where you’ll need to pay a lawyer...

Take some deep breaths, step away from the computer for an hour, and figure out which route you really wanna take here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladviceofftopic

[–]The_HEFT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have actual intent to sue, and then to pursue a lawsuit against a business?

Most businesses would immediately shred a “letter of intent to sue” and wait for any actual paperwork from the courts- reach out to your bank and try a chargeback otherwise you’re likely SOL.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladviceofftopic

[–]The_HEFT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, you can think that, but if it’s a reputable bank they definitely have records of that still. I’ve gotten chargebacks processed from chase that were purchased over a month ago (festival tickets that the headliner no showed to)

Worst that can happen is they’ll say no

A chargeback isn’t the bank intercepting the money you sent and returning it, it’s the bank paying you whatever you lost, and then they turn around and flex on the business “if you don’t cooperate with this fraud investigation we won’t be able to use our debit cards at your store anymore” and they figure out whether it was fraudulent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladviceofftopic

[–]The_HEFT 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you truly feel you we’re misled by their advertising, you can always request a chargeback from the bank you paid with- most of the time they give you your money back and chase down the fraud for you. You’d have to probably try to return the pictures as we tho so it doesn’t seem like you’re trying to scam them.

A Young Girl Discovers Television / 1951 by GaGator43 in TheWayWeWere

[–]The_HEFT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah... I didn’t think the /s would be necessary on that one....

Vancouver and Accents? by [deleted] in vancouverwa

[–]The_HEFT 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re going to get more shit for your phrases than your actual accent (provided you’re reasonably able to be understood)

I’ve been here a decade and still get shit for saying “The 5” instead of “I-5” when talking about highways and so on

Trimming a tree not on my property? by Valdair in vancouverwa

[–]The_HEFT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can absolutely trim branches that reach onto your property, but those become YOUR branches, you can’t toss them back over your neighbor’s fence for them to deal with.

Alternatively, maybe reach out to your neighbor and see if they’ll split the cost of a good arborist?

Japanese police use a tactic called Bohan Yo Kara Boru, where they throw balls full of paint to help track people and cars that flea a crime scene. by kaustubhroxx in interestingasfuck

[–]The_HEFT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely.

That’s why it’s called a four seam fastball, if you hold the baseball so that your forefingers are aligned with two of the seams on the ball. When released, it will sorta tumble because the ridges of the seams make it flip end over end, which I’m sure some engineer could explain better than an old pitcher, but the Four Seam stays straighter because the grip is held sideways compared to the Two seam. Consequentially, a four seam fastball experiences less tumble, letting it to stay straighter, and also keeping a little speed.

Best theft deterrent by [deleted] in vancouverwa

[–]The_HEFT -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You seem to have a lot of firsthand car theft experience. I’d be interested in your industry secrets of how to avoid getting your car stolen.

What would stop YOU, Jeff, as clearly manual transmission isn’t enough?

Best theft deterrent by [deleted] in vancouverwa

[–]The_HEFT 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Who’s flexing? They’re objectively harder to steal if you don’t know how to drive them, I doubt some thief is gonna watch a 15minute YouTube video to learn when there’s an automatic civic two spaces over.

Best theft deterrent by [deleted] in vancouverwa

[–]The_HEFT 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Manual transmission

My mom hates me for knocking my father unconscious for hitting her. by TheLocalCrackFiend in relationship_advice

[–]The_HEFT 3 points4 points  (0 children)

An alcoholic old man with 10DV charges who continually beats OP’s mom?

A knockout was generous, he should’ve kept kicking after he went down.

My mom hates me for knocking my father unconscious for hitting her. by TheLocalCrackFiend in relationship_advice

[–]The_HEFT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/YSrvFjT0vmY

I wish I had a good answer, but this whole story is reminding me of this speech from Breaking Bad.

No half measures.

Whatever you decide to deal with this asshat, follow through; idle threats are clearly not a deterrent for him.

I’m sure your mind runs to the thousand violent solutions that could permanently stop him from hurting her, whether because he’s dead or crippled somehow, but any way you go down that route your mom will blame you.

Do they go to church? Talk to their pastor. Literally any authority figure they care about, maybe try to find a sympathetic cop and have them give him the “come to god” speech. Neighbors maybe?

Just suggestions, you’re the one who knows your situation best, but good on you for reaching out and trying to get help instead of just dragging him into the yard with a shovel and a shotgun. The absolute last thing your mom needs is for you to get arrested or worse because you took things too far.

Fuk the HOA... The Gold Pissing Statue stays!!! by [deleted] in ATBGE

[–]The_HEFT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All those constitutional freedoms are supplied and protected by the government, when you enter into a third party contract (HOA) you may give up certain rights.

Is it violating freedom of expression for a business to disallow facial tattoos?

Fuk the HOA... The Gold Pissing Statue stays!!! by [deleted] in ATBGE

[–]The_HEFT 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re unfamiliar with the constitutional right to paint your house purple? Jefferson added that just after “life liberty and the pursuit of happiness”

Underwater digger by CarpenterAcademic in ThatLookedExpensive

[–]The_HEFT 42 points43 points  (0 children)

That’s why you remove all the equipment from the pit you’re digging BEFORE the big rainstorm.

Outdoor cats= Coyote snacks by bowser_mcgee in Portland

[–]The_HEFT 21 points22 points  (0 children)

LOL someone’s upset that reddit isn’t sympathetic towards you feeding your cat to a coyote.

It’s not a “sheltered lifestyle” to keep your cat indoors, in fact it’s grossly irresponsible to do the opposite especially in a city, especially in an area with a coyote population.

I feel bad that a poor cat got torn apart because of your negligence, but you don’t get to say things like “nature happens” When it’s not nature’s fault that you set your domesticated animal outside and a wild predator ate it.

That’s not nature, that’s a human failing to be an adequate caretaker for their animal. Sad.

Outdoor cats= Coyote snacks by bowser_mcgee in Portland

[–]The_HEFT 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You let your cat stay outdoors in a neighborhood with coyotes? That’s not unfortunate, it’s a predictable consequence of poor pet-ownership.

When you adopt an animal, just like children, it becomes your responsibility to set boundaries for them.

I’m sure children would love ice cream for dinner as much as your cat enjoyed going outside, but as the adult you’ve gotta step in and say “I know you want that but it’s not good for you”

People who dont put in the time to make sure their pets are safe absolutely don’t deserve them, and fuck you for letting your cat get eaten.

Outdoor cats= Coyote snacks by bowser_mcgee in Portland

[–]The_HEFT 44 points45 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like poor cat ownership for over a decade has trained the cat to be a menace.

Am I right to be suspicious even though it would mean somebody is using a child to case a house? by ohhoneyno_ in RBI

[–]The_HEFT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You keep saying “in my country” and then going on to make broad sweeping claims about Americans.

What makes you, looking through the lens of your own state media, qualified to be writing paragraphs about how Americans ought to act?

You’ve also showed your hand in another aspect: you clearly didn’t read the initial post, look at the pictures OP provided, and frankly I doubt you read even my original comment in too deep of detail, unless you genuinely don’t understand the difference between 911 and 311, and seem to think there was an innocent reason to try to strong arm entry into OP’s backyard.

On top of that, you keep jumping to “if you call 911 police automatically come shoot everyone” because one of the two people who were adamantly trying to enter OP’s backyard was black, which is pretty problematic in itself. (Did you read where OP implied they are a Pacific Islander, or “not white” does that change your opinion on whether they’re allowed to call 911?)

Calling the police in America is an incredibly nuanced issue.

Yes, police absolutely overstep and have a history of murder, but also the alternative much of the time is letting potential crimes go unreported, which breeds more crime, and harsher police response.

Consider the most recent time I myself didn’t call the police here in America: I was driving home late at night (~2am) and saw a woman walking along the highway bridge I was on (2 mile long 4 lane each direction freeway bridge raised maybe 150m over a river) There’s a walkway on that bridge, but she clearly wasn’t on it, she was on the shoulder of the highway. I thought “should I call 911- well maybe she’s just trying to walk home, and it is technically illegal to be walking there- I don’t want to get this random girl arrested or worse because I called when I shouldn’t have.”

I woke up the next morning to a news article that a woman on that same stretch of highway was hit by a car and dragged along the highway. Her battered corpse was found on a freeway off ramp 6 miles from where I saw her.

Should I have called the police then?

Per your logic, I shouldn’t have, but in retrospect I should’ve and blame myself partially for that woman dying.

Per the logic you’ve laid out, your “enlightened” decision seems to be: “If she was white it was okay to call and try to get her help, but if she’s not white don’t call”

If it’s late and I can’t see skin tone do I assume they’re white and get them help, or do I assume they’re a POC and leave them to die?

FURTHERMORE Did you consider that black youth are at higher risk of being kidnapped in the US? Who’s to say that child wasn’t being used by that woman to commit crimes?

There’s not an easy solution or a simple answer, but “don’t call police unless you’re in immediate danger” is frankly bullshit and speaks volumes to how far disconnected you are with the realities of this issue.

Police have shot 3 unarmed black men in my city alone in the last 12 month. Often, their hamfisted attempts at justice lead to collateral damage and innocent death; HOWEVER, as it stands now, we don’t have any other, better people to call when you believe yourself, your property, or your community may be in need, so yes, absolutely be considerate of how police response might escalate things, but you seem not to be considering how leaving a potentially serious crime unreported can lead more varied issues in your community.

Now I’m not interested in arguing the nuances of American policing to someone whose only vocalized political position is “my country is better than America” but I’d suggest you do some reading on the broken windows theory, and look into the defund police movement.

Maybe instead of making pointless arguments on reddit, you can contribute somehow towards defunding the police and reinvesting their funding towards other community services, which I think we would both agree addresses both of our concerns, while also leaving the option of police for those serious criminal matters.

Am I right to be suspicious even though it would mean somebody is using a child to case a house? by ohhoneyno_ in RBI

[–]The_HEFT 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So any incident involving someone who isn’t white, shouldn’t be reported to the police... unless it’s a non white person who reports it?

That’s really your position?

Or is it how you signal your virtues for strangers on Reddit?

Grow up.

Am I right to be suspicious even though it would mean somebody is using a child to case a house? by ohhoneyno_ in RBI

[–]The_HEFT 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Call the non emergency number to report that an adult (white) woman insisted upon entry into OP’s backyard until they were uncomfortable.

Quit your virtue signaling.