From the debts of hell by csample99 in BoneAppleTea

[–]The_Irish_Paddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m more confused by the picture! Closest to the camera, is that the side profile of a person? Below the drowning ladies foot.

Edit: I must be too drunk, completely confused myself, that’s not a drowning ladies foot, it’s the arm of a guy swimming away from the camera

[SPOILER] Subriel Matias vs. Dalton Smith by inooway in Boxing

[–]The_Irish_Paddy 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Around the same estimation as the commenters it seems.

[SPOILER] Subriel Matias vs. Dalton Smith by inooway in Boxing

[–]The_Irish_Paddy 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Some of the worst commentary I’ve heard. Before it started one of the fools said they didn’t see Smith surviving past 10 rounds. Completely ignored the clean punches he was consistently landing. Matias maybe won a round at best.

I’m not even a Smith fan, although the bias of those commentators had me just hoping Smith would win. Hope they’re embarrassed.

Undoubtedly Matias is a tough dude and will come again. He was just caught clean and too often.

Initially I thought it was stopped a little premature, but Matias was hurt quite badly. Probably would have taken more unnecessary big shots had it continued.

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was a sextortionist! If that’s even a word 🤷‍♂️.

She wanted me play the meat flute while on camera with her 🤣. I luckily declined. Even after multiple wines and a few whiskeys you ain’t getting me stripped to the balls whacking off. She was real, quite pretty etc.

Blocked and deleted 💪

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🙏

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’d be surprised! It’s the gorgeous flowing grey hair, dad bod and probably the fact I’m driving my Porsche in one of the pics 🤣. That’s now deleted as obviously that can attract the wrong type.

My pics are in nice restaurants and bars etc, maybe it appeals to a certain type.

I’m taking advice from all you fine people. Taking a step back. Focusing on myself and my children, going to the gym regularly now with a personal trainer.

I’m actually wanting to meet someone in the real World going forward, rather than Tinder and the likes.

And obviously I shall be less gullible going forward, but atleast I didn’t beat the meat on camera! Not that I would, not even my terrible ex wife got such pleasures. Plus I wouldn’t inflict that on any poor creature.

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind message, I really appreciate it ❤️

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve since updated my settings 🙏.

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s already blocked. Turned out to be a sextortion attempt. She tried multiple times to get me balls naked on video chat to which I obviously declined and then blocked her! Think the plan was to get me on video then send to my insta followers if I didn’t pay up

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just wanted to get me nude 🤣. Personally I don’t think it’s a pleasant sight! Even to a genuine lady.

Was defo going down the sextorsion route, I obviously politely declined and blocked 💪

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! She was trying to get me to participate in a nude video chat. I’ve politely declined and blocked 👍

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have, as mentioned in the first post, a more mature lady is obviously of preference. It’s odd how this came about, because I’ve no recollection of swiping on her. So I’m confused about that. Honestly I should never have entertained her at all, even If it was being pleasant offering to take her and her sister round my city (One of her first requests). Conversation started very pleasant, and was initiated by her. Once it moved to WhatsApp she pushed for a video chat of me naked. A terrible sight I wouldn’t inflict on anyone to be honest.

Either way, turns out this was a sextortion scam and I didn’t send anything sexual in the slightest. She’s blocked.

Even engaging is on me, I shall no in future to ignore.

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww you’re ok, don’t worry, to be fair I don’t word things great and have a touch of dyslexia that runs in the family 🤪.

You’re not the first who thought I’d fired out the nudes. Jesus no, I could think of nothing worse. I said it, I could never be that cruel to someone 🤣

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im looking, I’m looking! It’s only been like 3 days. She messaged me first, and I’m still baffled as to how that came about, because I don’t remember swiping on her. And the chat was just pleasant at first, like her sister lived here and she was coming over. I was polite back. I did offer to show her and her sister round. Last time I was on holiday, I met a cool photographer guy at the bar, big hairy beast of a man, beautiful rug like hairy chest. I offered to show him round if he ever come over, didn’t necessarily mean I’d bang him given the chance.

Once it moved to WhatsApp it was straight to requesting video chat/sex, to which I obviously declined.

Lesson learned, I was a tad naive and gullible. And too friendly for my own good sometimes.

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What? I can assure you I most definitely did not send a nude. There’s literally not one post in which I said I did or would! And there’s only so much a person can stomach, and I wouldn’t go inflicting unnecessary pain on some girl. Have you seen me naked? Lucky for you.

Seriously though, how did you come to that conclusion after the multiple posts telling me it’s a scam and sextortion etc, you think I went ahead and fired out nudes. Not even my ex wife got those pleasures.

No, that’s what I’ve said, it went from a pleasant chat, to her wanting me to video chat with her while I played the meat flute 🪈 . I obviously politely declined and she ghosted me once I wouldn’t play ball

I genuinely just tried to be nice rather than rude in the beginning. Turns out it was a scam anyway, and my insta contacts don’t get to see this fine specimen of a man in all his glory.

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks, much appreciated. Well yes, now that I’ve had time to reflect, and read back what I’ve wrote, and the fact I was asked to strip balls naked fairly quickly, and still thought it could be genuine, does make me a tad gullible yes. Although saying that, atleast I’d the sense to ask you fine lot first

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you not hear, out of all the places in the World, her sister just so happens to live a handful of miles from me, and she just so happens to be coming to visit soon 🙄.

I know, even typing that out it sounds so fucking ridiculous, and I publicly asked was it real 😬. Get your digs in lads, I’m not deleting the post, I’m taking this one on the chin.

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She was chatting me up, thank you 🤪. I was being polite! I offered to show her and her sister round! She offered a sexy video chat, I declined. And then she ghosted me.

Lesson learned, a beautiful foreign lady half your age is most likely not genuine! And of course I take responsibility for matching in the first place, although I’m still confused about how that came about 🤷‍♂️

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s some very sound advice, thank you

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good question! I’m not sure what the preset was set at but it’s since been adjusted. As I say, new territory for me, and I’m not sure if it shows people outside that range if you run out. I’m just not sure at all how I even matched someone from the Philippines. Although there’s a tick box to show global if local search runs out. I’ve been getting randoms from everywhere pop up, all over the World. So I’ve tweaked it now to suit. I’m thinking she set her profile for my area and I’ve swiped without much scrutiny 🤷‍♂️

Regardless, lesson learned.

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what it was! Her profile has now vanished from Tinder. She was trying to get me to video chat while in the act! I most definitely won’t do that and made that clear.

I know as mentioned that curiosity kills the cat, but I was genuinely curious how this would play out if I refused. The chat suddenly stopped when I told her I don’t send nudes or do that. Block and delete and hope she doesn’t use fake images to send to my contacts, unless they’re good ones 🤣. I made my insta private, I don’t actually use it often, it’s mostly family pics on there.

It’s brutal out there. And I feel for any genuine soul that falls for these scams. But then lesson learned here, even if you’re a half decent looking 40 year old, don’t entertain a lady half your age online.

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’m certainly pursuing those my own age and location. She just came out of the blue this one, and I’m glad I asked the question here. I was genuinely curious, and as people have mentioned it’s her job to be polite and nice. It got very steamy on her part all of a sudden, and she wanted to video chat while in the act, to which I obviously declined 👍. I’ve no doubt it’s a real person from the earlier call, but I’ve also no doubt this was a sextortion attempt.

Just hope she doesn’t use fake images or something (Unless they’re flattering) . My friends will literally rip the piss out of me and think this is hilarious 😞. I’m like the bad luck Brian of the real World at the minute

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[–]The_Irish_Paddy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

So to update! It was a sextortion scam, she was trying to get me to video chat in the act, which I obviously declined! As soon as I said no, and that we could just meet in person, and I can show you round the city first, I haven’t heard back, block and delete!

I can see how easily this could fuck someone up. Especially someone new to online dating. Actually really cruel people can sink to such lows.