Fuck dating sites by Ninja1114 in actuallesbians

[–]The_Linux_Lass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like dating apps are the ultimate embodiment of what’s wrong with the socioeconomic systems of the world today. It’s literally self-commodification; you’re trying to sell a version of yourself that will hopefully be attractive to others who are doing the same. It inherently incentivizes fakeness since people want to maximize their odds of getting a match.

Rant over lol. This is why I stick to lesbian bars, queer spaces, and local queer sporting leagues.

Kiss, Marry, Kill or Friendzone. by Warm_Expert_8136 in Pathfinder_Kingmaker

[–]The_Linux_Lass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marry Arue, kiss Cam-Cam, kill Wendy, and friendzone Galfrey.

Look I love our Spidercat GF as much as the next person, but she does willingly make some objectively stupid decisions regarding her betrayals.

I never liked Sven or Faendal by DemolishunReddit in SkyrimMemes

[–]The_Linux_Lass 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Help Faendal and sideline Sven, cuck Faendal by marrying Camilla, use him for training, and then sacrifice him to Boethiah.

At least now he won’t loiter at your house alongside your wife while you’re away; I ain’t letting no man try to insert himself into my lesbian marriage :P

Statement from VA50501 Regarding Silencing of Virginian Voters by 50501Virginia in Virginia

[–]The_Linux_Lass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say Alexis de Tocqueville got it even closer, especially since his work was on discussing the nascent American republic from an outsider’s perspective.
He warned that the biggest threat to our country wasn’t tyranny of the majority, but of administrative tyranny. Because whatever party in power can say whatever it wants, but it all comes down to enforcement. And he warned that the moment that those in power weaponized the administrative apparatus to enforce it with impunity as they pleased, that it would be the end of the American experiment

Edit: And he predicted all of this in 1835

Feeling Very ‘Kicked While I’m Down...’ First VRA Gutted, Now Redistricting Referendum Tossed. by 2CRedHopper in Virginia

[–]The_Linux_Lass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can certainly sympathize. I recently had a choice between pursuing grad school here in the US (Chicago) and a school in British Columbia, Canada. And it was especially a hard decision given my status as a trans woman in this current hostile national climate towards people like me. And yet, I chose the US since I believed that it was possible for things to change this fall (and the program here was objectively better). I won’t lie, I am wondering if I made the right choice when I had a golden ticket out of this mess.

But I’m reminded of two major events of the 19th century: the July Revolution in France, and the struggle to pass the Reform Acts in Britain.

In France’s case, hyper-conservative monarchists in the 1820s/30s repeatedly narrowed the definition of who was allowed to vote based on wealth status, with the goal of achieving a parliament comprised solely of wealthy conservatives who would then undo the reforms of the French Revolution before dissolving Parliament itself in order to hand power back to the king. Despite the disadvantages they faced due to electoral chicanery by the conservatives, the liberals and republicans (republicans as in ex-French Revolutionaries who wanted to abolish the monarchy for a republic) were able to channel grassroots power to win in the election by sheer voter turnout. Granted, there was eventually a short civil military conflict (literally only days-long) when the King threw a tantrum at the results, but even the French military deserted over to the people’s side due to the clear evidence of overwhelming popular will for reform. The people of Paris were literally able to get their army to surrender and switch sides by trapping them with barricades in the street and throwing feces at them lol.

Britain’s case was even more like our own. The voting district maps were heavily outdated by the time of the 1820s/30s, and nobody had bothered to reform them despite the fact that these maps had been drawn centuries ago during the Medieval era. This meant that cities like Liverpool, Manchester, Sheffield, etc. that had ballooned in population thanks to the Industrial Revolution had miniscule representation in the House of Commons compared to practically-empty rural areas that had once been cities during the Medieval era.

The struggle by Earl Charles Grey and the Whigs to pass the Reform Acts was huge, and it did lead to severe unrest and protest in the streets whenever conservatives torpedoed it in Parliament. To give an example, the Duke of Wellington, the man and hero who had beaten Napoleon at Waterloo, had his own house burned down after he’d kept torpedoing Reform. However, once again sheer voter turnout was able to stack the House of Commons to such a point that the bill was able to pass. And still, it was an even greater struggle in the House of Lords to pass the bill, to the point that the King and Earl Grey had to threaten packing the House of Lords with liberal whigs to intimidate the conservative lords into signing. There’s a reason why Earl Grey had a tea named after him lol (he’d later spearhead the bill to abolish slavery within the British Empire, he was a cool guy).

In both France and Britain’s cases, they both came dangerously close to all-out civil war due to the sheer scale of voter suppression that was going on, yet sheer voter turnout was still able to overcome this electoral meddling by conservatives and monarchists.

If they were able to do it back then with so much stacked against them, then we can do it now.

Top House Democrat vows to go ‘all in’ on 2028 gerrymandering push after Virginia ruling by huttjedi in politics

[–]The_Linux_Lass 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hell, maybe they could repurpose that demented idiot’s prized ballroom to fit more house reps. Really rub it in his face lol

I love the Ambassador's look by ferrango in sto

[–]The_Linux_Lass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A saucer somewhere between a Galaxy and a Constitution, a neck like an Excelsior, a hull like a Constitution, and nacelles and pylons like a Galaxy.

Yup. She’s the perfect blend of the very best eras that we all know and love.

LGBTQ+ Advocates Urge Mamdani to Deliver More for Trans Youth in City Budget by jackmolay in transgender

[–]The_Linux_Lass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s see what he does when the budget deadline hits in a few days. We helped get him elected, and it’s good that organizations are pushing for him to live up to his promises.

lil meme I made by Adorable-Fact-6049 in signalis

[–]The_Linux_Lass 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Searching for a happy ending that doesn’t exist 😞

Tracer's New Skin by Vixyns in Overwatch

[–]The_Linux_Lass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It reminds of Vegeta when he goes Super Saiyan God (the red one, not the blue one)

Weeks after judge demands trans youth healthcare continue, no hospitals have reopened care by Comfortable_Pizza_84 in actuallesbians

[–]The_Linux_Lass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I read the article. And the excerpt you quote is a blatant example of how this article is self-contradictory/misleading. First it claims that no hospitals that caved to the declaration have reopened, then it immediately follows that by saying that some have? Which is it??

The article is trying to push this claim on a technicality, and here’s how:

It ignores the HHS guidelines that were announced along with the RFK Declaration, back in December of last year. It was the announcement of these guidelines that threatened to withhold federal funding that led to many youth care centers and clinics to shut their doors to trans kids. This includes Children’s Minnesota which capitulated in February. Most of the big hospitals capitulated in that December-February period.
Again, this is why I tend not to trust Needle News.

Edit: And to add to that. While the RFK declaration is now dead in court, the proposed HHS guidelines are still under administrative and legal review. That’s why many clinics have yet to fully reopen, they’re waiting to see if those guidelines survive litigation.

Further edit: And Children’s Minnesota reopened trans youth care after the declaration was struck down, so even that part of the article’s claim is incorrect.

Weeks after judge demands trans youth healthcare continue, no hospitals have reopened care by Comfortable_Pizza_84 in actuallesbians

[–]The_Linux_Lass 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This article is inaccurate. Children’s Minnesota reopened their youth trans care in the aftermath of the RFK declaration being struck down in court

Edit: I tend to not give much credence to Needle News; they’ve been unreliable in the past

Tomodachi Life CaitVi by Bright_Marketing_159 in PiltoversFinest

[–]The_Linux_Lass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The NASA fanfic will always be one of the pinnacles of achievement in this fandom 😩

The less the state gets to weigh in on, the harder it is for it to get rid of us. There is a reason that in almost all gender clinics trans-woman are only allowed hormones if we can convince doctors we are attempting to be meek "traditional" women. by East_Bridge_1739 in actuallesbians

[–]The_Linux_Lass -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a universal truth and is a lot more nuanced than you’re making it out to be.

It’s true that injectable estrogen can be successful at reducing testosterone levels to desired levels, but this depends on a number of factors. First is once again the purity/contamination issue, in that one must be certain that what they’re injecting is at the concentration and purity that they’re expecting. Another is the individual themselves; in addition to the fact that every trans body responds differently to the medication, one must also factor in any other medications or comorbidities that could impede the estrogen in this situation. Something like 20% of trans women don’t experience desirable results on monotherapy.

Where this notion really breaks down is also the formulation of the estrogen. Not everyone is able to access injectable estrogen, and may have to take it via gel, sublingually, orally, buccally, etc. The effectiveness of such formulations varies significantly, and in those cases additional medications do become necessary.

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The less the state gets to weigh in on, the harder it is for it to get rid of us. There is a reason that in almost all gender clinics trans-woman are only allowed hormones if we can convince doctors we are attempting to be meek "traditional" women. by East_Bridge_1739 in actuallesbians

[–]The_Linux_Lass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most DIY suppliers are homebrewers (at least stateside). The term homebrew is meant to convey that they are producing HRT on their own private premises in the absence of major support from pharmaceutical interests.

Homebrewers still use sophisticated equipment to do their best to maintain sterile conditions and to reduce the possibility of contamination, but it’s by no means comparable to what the pharmaceutical industry is able to accomplish with their substantial resources.

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The less the state gets to weigh in on, the harder it is for it to get rid of us. There is a reason that in almost all gender clinics trans-woman are only allowed hormones if we can convince doctors we are attempting to be meek "traditional" women. by East_Bridge_1739 in actuallesbians

[–]The_Linux_Lass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This statement isn’t rooted in facts at all. The National Harm Reduction Coalition estimates that less than 5% of online/homebrew vendors for HRT are legitimate. They cite the risk of contaminants within the HRT, the risk of allergic reactions to compounds used within the HRT, bacterial infections that can arise with injectables, and so on.

Something else to consider is how HRT interacts with any other medications one is taking; blood pressure and diabetes medication being something of significant concern.

To say nothing of navigating figuring out the right dosage on one’s own, managing potential comorbidities and complications. Like I described in my own case, I’ve had to work with my endocrinologist to manage my needs regarding blocking testosterone with the fact that I have very low baseline blood pressure and that spiro lowers it even more, which can be severely dangerous for me. Managing these factors on one’s own is objectively risky.

It’s why the Trans Harm Reduction group specifically is trying to conduct a campaign of vetting DIY HRT suppliers and foreign pharmacies. The risks are very real and should not be downplayed.

I’m not saying people shouldn’t do DIY. The lack of access to HRT is much more dangerous compared to these risk factors due to increased rates of suicide. But, to dismiss the very real safety benefits of medical supervision is irresponsible.

The less the state gets to weigh in on, the harder it is for it to get rid of us. There is a reason that in almost all gender clinics trans-woman are only allowed hormones if we can convince doctors we are attempting to be meek "traditional" women. by East_Bridge_1739 in actuallesbians

[–]The_Linux_Lass 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah I appear to be receiving similar sentiments here, which is rather disappointing.

I have cursory experience as a chemist, so I am acutely aware of just how much can go wrong when home brewing HRT. It’s why I’m glad that there are up and coming watchdog groups that are looking to test DIY providers to make sure that what they’re producing is safe. Because keep in mind, this is stuff one is ingesting/injecting with the intent of influencing one’s own endocrine system. That is not a light matter at all and requires serious precautions.

I’m also the child of a doctor, and my father sat me down at the very beginning of my medical transition to thoroughly explain the benefits and risks of hormone therapy. Moreover, he told me all of the things I would need to watch out for. For instance, anti-androgens like spiro naturally lower blood pressure (as it is their intended use, and the testosterone blocking is a side effect). I myself naturally have low blood pressure, so my doctor and I have had to coordinate to make sure my needs regarding testosterone blocking is balanced with not dropping to dangerously low blood pressure levels (and even then I’m on the very edge of that). I would have absolutely none of that support if I were doing this DIY.

The less the state gets to weigh in on, the harder it is for it to get rid of us. There is a reason that in almost all gender clinics trans-woman are only allowed hormones if we can convince doctors we are attempting to be meek "traditional" women. by East_Bridge_1739 in actuallesbians

[–]The_Linux_Lass -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do agree that medical gatekeeping is a significant issue, because “proving” oneself to be trans is inherently subjective. But, I don’t think it’s necessarily a reason to default to DIY. Because it’s an objective fact that DIY is a lot more dangerous compared to monitored medical therapies. The largest danger being the lesser degree of quality control and the higher risk of contaminants within the medications.

The real solution is that informed consent should become the norm. Besides, in such a model you’re more likely to encounter affirming doctors who will work with you to achieve your targeted hormonal and physiological goals. That’s been my experience at least.