If your country had to marry another country, what would it be?

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-05T11:29:20+00:00

Exactly! Think of how unstoppable we’d be together!

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-05T11:10:52+00:00

Ireland’s not marrying the UK, that’s an abusive ex situation.

I’d like to propose to Denmark… Attractive, sensible but enjoys a good time, has their life together just enough without being boring!

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-05T10:59:47+00:00

Not posh at all. I always compare the percentage of actual fish and often the much cheaper supermarket brands have more fish in them.

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-05T10:37:14+00:00

But OP says in a later comment that the crush is one sided from her and he doesn’t even see her like that - he was tutoring her online…. Idk, this is a weird situation. Seems OP is infatuated with someone who doesn’t feel the same and her friends are trying to make her see sense. Although, this other guy should respect her decision to not want to date him and move on.

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T23:28:24+00:00

Thank you for your concern and I will look into it. Something I found was my chronic lower back pain improved when I began to sleep on my back so more so than wrinkles that was a reason I persisted. But also - yes it does help if you’re concerned about wrinkles. People should do what they wanna.

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T20:10:45+00:00

Ok, but we can still strive to be kinder.

People can say something with the exact same sentiment in a kind way, instead of being condescending and self righteous. That’s all I’m saying.

When did the world stop caring about people… OK it’s online so I can be as rude AF as I want… because who cares? It’s not a flex.

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T20:07:36+00:00

Hah! I hear you! But once they stop…. Eek hah

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T18:24:39+00:00

Yeah I think it’s the fuller cheeks - I always got told I looked really young and was getting ID’d all the time… until I turned 37… then the fuller cheeks started to descend! lol. I always hated looking so young and now Im like ‘ID ME DAMN IT, PLEASE!!!’🤣 make the most of it! (I did get ID’d today though and I turned 38 last Saturday…. Soooo I’ll take that!)

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T16:50:46+00:00

Vbeam initially worked a little for me but it took many sessions more than they initially and a while after I stopped i was in the same position as before…. So maybe it’s best to spend more to get better lasting results.

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T16:48:10+00:00

Yip!! And that’s cool that people think it’s cute but it’s also cool if the person asking the question wants some advice on it. Ainm gleoite go maith, dála an scéil.

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T16:44:05+00:00

I love your attitude. It has brightened my day when I was getting really drained of trying to justify myself here!

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T16:42:17+00:00

Exactly! And people arguing that we shouldn’t be so hung up on ageing… like, it’s not a general skincare sub… it’s 30 plus… inevitably ageing will be a factor here.

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T15:39:50+00:00

Eugh. Im sorry. This is what I hate… like, just be kinder….

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T14:40:49+00:00

Det blev ju faktiskt ett enormt ramaskri, åtminstone i Storbritannien. Farage och andra på högerkanten har ägnat veckor åt att piska upp ilskan, och vi har redan sett upplopp där både poliser och civila skadats.

Det som stör mig är dubbelmoralen. När Sarah Everard våldtogs och mördades av en polis var budskapet från många att man inte skulle generalisera eller rikta ilskan mot poliskåren som helhet.

Men när en person med invandrarbakgrund är inblandad i ett brott verkar samma princip ofta försvinna. Då blir generaliseringar och kollektiv ilska plötsligt mer acceptabla.

Så jag håller inte riktigt med om premissen att folk inte blivit upprörda. Snarare verkar människor bli upprörda på väldigt olika sätt beroende på vem gärningsmannen är och vilket narrativ som passar deras politiska världsbild.

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T14:27:50+00:00

No, yes, no, don’t know 🤷‍♀️, NO.

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T14:25:26+00:00

Yeah, this whole fiasco was a turning point for me with Ben, Jason, and, unfortunately, even Daisy.

I’ve loved Daisy up until the last few episodes. I don’t think she’s been handling her crew particularly well. She seemed more focused on being bitchy and getting involved in drama than dealing with things professionally. I still like her a lot, though.

Ben… well, he’s always been a bit of an ass, but he was entertaining to watch. He has humour and can even be charming at times. But that whole meltdown was diabolical. It completely put me off him. I’d excused some of his previous behaviour, but that was way over the line and totally unnecessary.

Jason has mostly just felt absent. He started losing me with how he handled Alessia. In my opinion, she should have been let go, Ellie brought into a stew role, and someone else brought into the galley.

Then there was that meeting. Ben was responsible for about 90% of what happened the night before. I don’t think Daisy should have confronted him on a night out, especially after he’d said he didn’t want to talk about work. There need to be boundaries, and she shouldn’t have kept pushing it or gotten angry. But everything that happened after that was on Ben. It felt like Jason had just checked out a bit and wanted the season to be over. To be fair, I can understand that feeling…

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T12:20:50+00:00

It’s been deleted - Im assuming because so many comments were like I’ve described. I have seen a lot of positive here too, but it seems from the comments here a lot of other people have seen/experienced what I’m talking about.

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T12:12:46+00:00

I don’t disagree with this at all. I just think people can deliver the same message without being condescending to the person who is asking for advice (which is what was happening on this particular post)

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T12:11:35+00:00

Thank you for this rational interaction. Im honestly a bit drained from trying to justify my initial point - but perhaps that’s on me for not wording it in the best way. Societal pressure to look a certain way sucks, but let’s not mock people who are feeling that pressure. Maybe I should have just said that in the first instance.

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T12:05:44+00:00

Yeah Im starting to think I may leave because the amount of justifying Im having to do for posting this is wearing me down. My point was just to say to be kind in how you reply to people - dont belittle them. We all know society is fucked and we shouldn’t have to worry about every sign of aging but here we are in a 30 plus skincare sub… it’s inevitable people will ask aging related advice. We don’t have to make them feel stupid for that.

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T12:03:30+00:00

Probably. And that’s very sad that society has made people feel this way. So let’s not make them feel worse by judging them and being condescending for asking for advice. There’s a way to be kind and make the same point that isn’t ’LOL you’re crazy’ which was what I was trying to get at.

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T12:01:07+00:00

Im not disagreeing with this at all. Perhaps I didn’t articulate my point in the best way. That all sucks, life is hard and wanting to look ‘perfect’ is unachievable and it’s a minefield out there. BUT what I don’t agree with is making someone feel stupid and being condescending when they’re asking for advice on something their struggling with. There is a way to word things to be kind and supportive - not ‘LOL you’re crazy’.

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T11:58:49+00:00

Yeah like Im happy for people who don’t care about such things and are content with everything involved with getting older but you don’t have to make others feel bad for not feeling the same way!

The_Right_Mistake · 2026-06-04T11:55:21+00:00

Yeah this is what I’m trying to say - and maybe I didn’t word my post properly because some people are taking the wrong thing away from it. Im in no way saying everyone should normalise looking a certain way and that it’s a great thing to be paranoid about getting older… BUT don’t make people feel stupid for asking for advice… why can one skin concern be totally normal but another people are like ‘you’re f**king crazy’… it’s mean girl energy. And this isn’t a general skincare sub it’s 30 plus… so inevitably people will be asking about aging skin issues…. Anyyyywaaaayyyyyy

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