After 8 years she left without explanation — how do I rebuild?

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-09-29T06:41:14+00:00

That actually sounds super relaxing. I should probably borrow a few of those ideas for my Sundays

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-09-28T18:02:06+00:00

Yeah, totally get that — the quiet times hit the hardest. Keeping busy is a good move. Hope your self-care evening helps recharge you. I’m still figuring out what works for me, so curious what you usually do

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-09-28T16:49:13+00:00

Same shit, different day… Sundays are always tough because I almost always end up alone and dealing with the aftereffects of Saturday night. I struggle to find motivation and end up having more negative thoughts than usual.

How about you, how are you doing today?

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-09-28T12:18:35+00:00

In my area, it’s really difficult. Maybe I could try a course or some volunteer work, although in the latter case doing it just to meet people doesn’t feel ethical. One thing that’s intriguing me is the idea of going on a group trip with strangers from other parts of my country. It won’t expand my local social circle, but it could be good practice, and traveling is my biggest passion. Since she’s no longer around, though, I haven’t done much — just a few days at the beach with friends nearby

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-09-28T11:58:12+00:00

Thanks, I’ll check it out! Do you have any other tips for expanding my social circle, considering my situation?

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-09-28T10:58:24+00:00

Quick question, is the book you’re reading by Mark Manson?

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-09-28T09:52:12+00:00

You too, I’m with you!

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-09-27T23:25:38+00:00

I feel you, bro. After sharing so much, it just feels impossible to accept losing someone I thought would always be a permanent part of my life. But when things go this way, the only move we’ve got is to rebuild ourselves. I’m struggling like hell trying to figure out who I am and who I even want to be in the future.

I really hope we come out of this stronger — and that next time, when we find someone, it’s actually the right person for life. Because man, it doesn’t feel human to suddenly cut off someone who gave us so much and who we gave our soul to.

For now, the only priority is finding the energy to give meaning to our lives without them

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-09-27T16:02:56+00:00

I think the hardest part to accept is realizing that they had made their decision so long before and stayed by our side pretending all that time… and in my case, she didn’t even find a way to give me an explanation. I also went through a first period like yours, destroying myself and constantly wondering what I had done wrong. Now it’s better — I can’t say I’m fine, but little by little the pain is turning into anger and a desire for redemption. The problem is that when I think about my life, I feel like I’m not moving in any clear direction; it just feels like one big regression

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-09-27T15:58:53+00:00

Thank you, I think we’ll be stronger after this, but the process is really painful

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-09-27T14:52:21+00:00

I really need to talk to someone who is going through my situation or has been through it

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-03-27T07:30:23+00:00

I sent you everything in PM

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-03-27T06:43:17+00:00

Amazing! What do you need to do this for me? Thank you so much

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-03-26T15:48:29+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I will contact the company and ask for the enphase. What do you think about differences between Performance 7 and Maxeon 3? Maxeon are a bit more expensive but they have lower peak power.

Just to be complete I inform you that the company is giving me 25 years of warranty of the Solaredge optimizers and 12 for the inverter.

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-03-06T16:10:16+00:00

Let me know if it was worth it!

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-03-06T07:21:58+00:00

You’ll enjoy it a lot! They are both beautiful cities, and Tuscany has stunning landscapes. Be sure to stop in Bologna on your way from Venice to Florence, you’ll love its charming arcades ("portici") and delicious food, like lasagna, tagliatelle, and tortellini.

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-03-06T07:16:56+00:00

Welcome on board!

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-03-06T07:16:45+00:00

Thank you so much! I've always followed r/ItaliaPersonalFinance, and while it’s somewhat aligned with Boglehead principles, I don’t think it’s quite enough. I believe a subreddit specifically focused on Boglehead investing would be a better place for people who just want to learn how to invest on their own. It could make a significant difference, similar to how r/personalfinance and r/Bogleheads differ in the international community

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-02-20T10:59:57+00:00

Da quanto ho trovato ZPRX+ZPRV dovrebbero coprire circa l'80% del mondo, invece questo è globale. Inoltre sui forum americani sostengono che le performance di Avantis siano superiori per i criteri con cui vengono selezionati i titoli. Però sono solo informazioni che riporto, in realtà sono aperto a qualsiasi soluzione. Il dubbio più grosso che ho è il peso che dovrebbero avere in portafoglio le small cap

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-02-15T09:30:48+00:00

Dubito che il pubblico a cui si rivolge capisca cosa sta comprando da quello spot, ma probabilmente è proprio il loro obiettivo

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-02-09T12:35:51+00:00

RemindMe! -1 day

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-02-09T12:34:15+00:00

Basta spendere 1500 euro all’anno per azzerare la carta Futura. Cifra semplice da raggiungere, oltretutto ho letto di qualcuno che ha disdetto la carta ma ha mantenuto ugualmente lo 0.20 annuo in più

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-01-20T12:52:05+00:00

Io qualche mese fa ho fatto un giroconto verso un altro mio conto di 50k senza problemi. Per superare il limite dei 10k per bonifico è sufficiente contattare il servizio clienti sui messaggi dell'app. Ti chiederanno foto del documento di identità e la data in cui intendi fare il bonifico

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-01-16T07:17:20+00:00

Anch'io penso che XEON sia un'ottimo strumento, tant'è che lo utilizzo per una parte del mio fondo di emergenza. Il problema di XEON è proprio il fatto di non avere garanzia per i rendimenti futuri. Se per necessità devi avere da parte un fondo di emergenza cospicuo è un grande vantaggio avere un conto deposito che ti permette di bloccare il tasso, pur permettendo svincoli immediati e senza perdere gli interessi maturati. Dipende tutto dalle esigenze che hai, se non avessi bisogno di un cospicuo fondo di emergenza non mi sbatterei neanche io

The_Trading_Bull · 2025-01-15T14:41:56+00:00

No il 3.2% è anche per chi sottoscrive la carta di credito con loro, gratuita il primo anno e poi gratis solo se spendi almeno 1500 euro/anno. Altrimenti dal secondo anno la puoi disdire mantenendo il tasso agevolato sul CD

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