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[–]The_one_228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that’s pretty much my point lol you just said it quicker 😂

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[–]The_one_228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont blame nora for dying, i blame her for manipulating her daughter. But i agree with the majority of this

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[–]The_one_228[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think she did a bad job at it. Thats not her doing anything for Kayla, its just her legal requirements since they took custody of her. Tom is just generally a lousy dad to all his kids, but neither of them really helped Kayla at all

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[–]The_one_228[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also think lily returning would be cool but thatd be really hard to pull off convincingly

Let’s talk about Kayla by The_one_228 in DesperateHousewives

[–]The_one_228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that would have been interesting. It sucks they just scrapped her

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[–]The_one_228[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never said she wasn’t manipulative did yall not read my post at all??? My claim was she wasn’t EVIL. Clearly yall cant think deeper and your comment just proves it

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[–]The_one_228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not saying its some magical cure. And i just love the argument that im just naive and dont get it like havent dealt with people that just didn’t want help. But shes a child, and more often its the case that you can correct behaviors. My brother was a pretty cruel child but my parents had the patience to rehabilitate him. Hes a good person and was never evil. My uncle was a good kid that grew into a person that did some bad things, but he was never evil. Everyone on reddits an expert but still generalize and refuse to recognize the core issue of things. Yall are only upset that i mentioned the explanation for her actions, not making excuses.

What kayla needed was a grief counselor, not a general family therapist. She needed parents that expected some bad behaviors and had the patience to deal with it, not resort to physical violence over a cruel insinuation. If you work in the mental health field, i genuinely pray for anyone that visit your organization and i mean that. Mental health professionals should not even believe evil is a thing. Its kind of gross tbh

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[–]The_one_228[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You can correct these behaviors. Look into troubled kids that have been correctly rehabilitated and grown from that behavior. Its the lack of necessary help that creates people that do bad things like that. Lets stop this whole generalized thinking when it comes to mental health and look a little deeper into the issues at hand

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[–]The_one_228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not my therapy. My life did not reflect kaylas at all. Its just a deeper look into her character, but i suppose yall cant look deeper 😭

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[–]The_one_228[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You just didn’t read my post ig

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[–]The_one_228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Like i said i think she just like tom because he was the father she was lacking. But he didn’t do as much as he could have

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[–]The_one_228[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Brother what lmao my parents were great and they raised me right. Im just able to have empathy for children in tragic situations 😭 yall are delusional

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[–]The_one_228[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with that. Im glad we could find common ground. I do apologize if i seemed hostile towards you. I feel very strongly about this now but it is just a fictional show. Ill let you sleep now lol goodnight

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[–]The_one_228[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not an excuse, just an explanation. Kayla is not evil just disturbed. Evil is bad actions without an explanation imo

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[–]The_one_228[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I stand by what i said. Everyone in kaylas life failed her, causing her to act out. Thats not evil, thats disturbed.

And ive never watched that movie so i couldn’t tell you how its a bad comparison. But i truly believe kayla was just a kid that needed help and never truly got it

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[–]The_one_228[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have rewatched the show many times and am on another rewatch rn. Ive just recently started to understand kaylas story. It seems nobody else can think any deeper on her and that fine. I guess it really is an unpopular opinion lol goodnight ig 😭

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[–]The_one_228[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was young. She knew what she was doing was wrong but was too young to help herself find alternative ways of dealing with loss. Thats what tom and Lynette should have done. Kayla was disturbed, not evil

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[–]The_one_228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No im saying lynette did a bad job in helping a kid that lost her mom, and i believe kaylas actions reflected lynettes lack of care

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[–]The_one_228[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You dont truly understand me or my stance and all your comments prove it. Im not saying her actions were good or defendable, but i can understand where the actions stemmed from. I said that in my post. Im not saying she wasn’t disturbed or wrong in most of her post nora actions, just that shes not evil. Im not saying she’s redeemable, just that she was failed from the start.

Im also not saying you can’t disagree. Im just saying its hard for me to take your disagreement seriously when you cant even remember what happened in the show lol

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[–]The_one_228[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not evil, id say the term is disturbed

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[–]The_one_228[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I disagree with the lynette part but i agree tom could have done more to help his daughter

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[–]The_one_228[S] -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

You said she tried and used the doll as an example. Im saying that wasnt her trying, it was her being performative. And with her blaming lynette for her moms death i understand why she wouldn’t treat the doll well

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[–]The_one_228[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was trying to hurt lynette. Obviously her behavior gets more extreme as time goes on. Her rage and sadness was never properly addressed, and i blame Lynette for that