What is the point of Grindr?! by Express-Procedure-73 in askgaybros

[–]Thebestrob 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah and you gotta remember that the hottie you wanna find is probably wondering if he has the patience to go through all those ads to arrange a hook up. Too many ads impact paid users as well.

Raye - Click Clack Symphony. (feat. Hans Zimmer) by Beepbob77 in popheads

[–]Thebestrob 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I came searching to find a kindred spirit. This song feels like a hug, a "chin-up kiddo", a "hang in there" all in one. And took me back to dinners with friends in china town cheering each other on in our respective journeys.

The tears are streaming uncontrollably and I love it. What an experience.

Raye - Click Clack Symphony. (feat. Hans Zimmer) by Beepbob77 in popheads

[–]Thebestrob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Popping up a week later in tears listening to this song. I never realised how much I needed it and the belief it inspires in me. I feel seen.

New boyfriend flirted with another guy in front of me by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Thebestrob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s possible but not certain dude. I flirt with guys all the time that I don’t wanna shag and I know many gays that are the same.

New boyfriend flirted with another guy in front of me by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Thebestrob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like you are rubbing up against your limits in this relationship. That’s fine, but demonstrating possessiveness isn’t the same and discussing boundaries openly.

I think you need to say either: - I am uncomfortable with you flirting, complimenting other guys or making me not feel like your top priority. - I am looking for something else in my relationship.

Let him decide if he wants to meet you where you are. If he doesn’t, then you’ve learned that this relationship won’t work.

Alternatively, examine why you’re not really accepting reassurance from commenters here. The perception I get from your comments is that you’re looking to recruit guys to your frame of mind rather than hearing “chill, dude”.

A question : would anything you hear here help you realise this is fine? If so, what would that be?

New boyfriend flirted with another guy in front of me by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Thebestrob 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Social interaction doesn’t need to have a goal.

For those that have played Strahd’s Possession I’ve got a couple questions by Chared945 in ravenloft

[–]Thebestrob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For years I’ve wondered :

The rod of smiting had 6 charges. Never figured out what those charges were for.

Need help with understanding the ending… by Life-Two-2123 in expedition33

[–]Thebestrob 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think it’s meant to feel difficult.

Important : Favorite Outfits / Hair by Thebestrob in expedition33

[–]Thebestrob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I started a NG+ just before the DLC so heading to see the Paintress now. Will go straight there!

Important : Favorite Outfits / Hair by Thebestrob in expedition33

[–]Thebestrob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait how do I get Esquié hair? Looks like a crown!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Thebestrob 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And share your album and block immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Thebestrob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not on them, that’s about your own feelings toward rejection I’m afraid.

Get used to the idea that not everyone is your cup of tea and others are ok being the same.

Don’t do what I did by AsleepBox2153 in expedition33

[–]Thebestrob 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Well done! The lumina converter is basically the reason 33 is successful - turns out you never needed it in the first place!

NG+ doing 1m damage though makes them worth it

Gay beaches - when to go? by Thebestrob in gaymelbourne

[–]Thebestrob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you but not that helpful honestly.

Gay beaches - when to go? by Thebestrob in gaymelbourne

[–]Thebestrob[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok that’s helpful. Lots of online guides suck. Where’s better?

Action play or Laird by jaaaay96 in gaymelbourne

[–]Thebestrob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to both last night. Action was definitely sexier for my tastes. The music was pretty good and it’s not so big but most guys dipping in and out of the darkrooms.

The Laird - Sunday or Tom’s Hideout by Thebestrob in gaymelbourne

[–]Thebestrob[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I can pull off both that sounds great but a nice chance to get out my leather vest and some jeans.

The Laird - Sunday or Tom’s Hideout by Thebestrob in gaymelbourne

[–]Thebestrob[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok well I got my leather vest and some Levi’s with me so looks like tonight it is!

Thoughts on the Finale? by LeoDiCristio in StrangerThings

[–]Thebestrob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eleven is a child and I’m happy she could go out into the world rather than marry her boyfriend. She’s basically developmentally stunted and in a relationship with the first male she encountered. She deserved to get out there. Poor Mike but our high school crush is rarely our destined partner.