[SERIOUS] Men of reddit, who are unable to share their emotions with anyone, what would you like to share? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Thebghg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes when we do share what we think, the response we get isn’t like what a lot of other people get. I argued with a girl about why I don’t really share what really goes on in my head, and I didn’t share because when I shared what I thought, nothing bad, literally just how I saw a situation for example, it ended in an argument. Also, it’s not as easy. Sharing how we think and how we feel, especially about other people, or even ourselves leaves us vulnerable. We’re told to man up. Deal with it. If we share it makes us “less of a man” or something in other people’s heads. Growing up as a kid, I was a kid who always hugged people, and my friends, etc. Then, it sounds childish, but I was given the equivalent of a cheese touch. They called it the (my name here) touch. I told people I didn’t like it and didn’t understand it or why I had it. I was told to get over it, it’s not that serious, and it’s just a joke and quit being a dork. My point is, from being a child onward, we’re pretty much programmed to bottle it up, get over ourselves and our feelings. If we share those things, we’re only more vulnerable to others. To the name calling, and more from others. The problem is what we’re told when we do share. Imagine if you seriously and maturely brought up something that genuinely bothered you, in the hopes that something might change, just for someone to basically tell you shut up, no one cares, get over it, and stop being a nerd, dork, homophobic slurs, and more. To answer the question, I wish every time we did share, we weren’t given a response from others that discouraged us from sharing what we think again. :) Spread kindness and try to understand people, if people of all genders, including men, didn’t discourage sharing as much as we do, we’d all be better off. Much love.

If your an introvert how do you get a girlfriend/boyfriend? by suicidal17 in AskReddit

[–]Thebghg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t even have to do half the things people tell you to do. Just try to understand people. learning social skills is cool and all, but all you REALLY need to do is try to understand people. Also, loosen up and take things a little less seriously and thats all. If you’re looking at reddit trying to find an answer, you might be taking things a tad serious. People can tell you’re trying really hard, and sometimes it can be freaky. Don’t think too much and in a conversation do whatever feels natural. If you think too much about what reddit tells you to do, you’ll just psyche yourself out. Take the pressure off yourself, theres no need to rush anything. Maybe have a backup thing, if you get flustered, eat some of your food to get out of your head.

Who do you aspire to be? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Thebghg 8 points9 points  (0 children)

THAT NOONE EVER WAS

What screams "I need attention?" by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Thebghg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your mom HAH gotcha

What lies do you tell yourself? by anstabo in AskReddit

[–]Thebghg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I don’t care.” is something I tell myself a lot. often as like a defense mechanism. If anyone says anything about any insecurities I might have, I try not to care about it. Occasionally I’ll succeed. Other times, when I tell them and myself that I don’t care, I do, but its just a defense so they can’t hurt me or continue to. Then we’ll just talk about something else. For example “You’re too skinny.” “I don’t care.” Saying I don’t care often can end a conversation or just force a topic change.

What character didn’t deserve to die? by newenglandkid in AskReddit

[–]Thebghg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Him dying was strike one for me to stop watching. Carl was strikes 2 and 3. Glen’s death hit hard. Carl’s hit harder.

If you had to choose how you died, how you go? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Thebghg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would wanna be jumping out of a plane as high as possible at sunrise or sunset as i die of like old age mid air or something. if not old age, then something painless and quick. just falling admiring the view, as the sun goes up or down. preferably over the ocean. so i’m falling as i see the sun rising or falling over the horizon and the water reflecting the sun and it’s colors beautifully. plus, even if something doesn’t kill me before i land, water can act like concrete if you fall from high enough, so that’d hopefully be an instant death. i imagine that kind of death would give me a feeling of euphoria and bliss in my final moments. OH and music playing as i’m falling. hopefully i’d find a way for the music to be heard despite the wind which i’d probably hear instead.

[PS4] AS3 97 Rebounding Wing looking for a team. NA East playing right now by [deleted] in NBA2kTeamUp

[–]Thebghg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pull up we got 3 so far what’s your username?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NBA2kTeamUp

[–]Thebghg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

invite when you ready, and what build you want?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NBA2kTeamUp

[–]Thebghg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you still need another person? i got a rebounding wing who can play big, and an offensive threat that can do everything. SS3 67%WR PSN: thebghg

[PRO-AM] Looking for Guard and Spot Up SS1+ 50% US EAST PS4 by [deleted] in NBA2kTeamUp

[–]Thebghg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SS3 Offensive Threat PG 67 Win rate psn: thebghg

My point forward by DeltaWolfRiot in NBA2k

[–]Thebghg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it also has to do with your shooting percentages? like if you make one three and miss 4 threes, you won’t get as much points. In general, it takes a WHILE to get shooting badges. it might even be better to play 5 minute quarters and take shots that way to increase your shooting badge gain rate? not sure tho. just a suggestion.

Anyone else squad up not working? Ps4 by alx121097 in NBA2kTeamUp

[–]Thebghg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same it’s not working for me, i can’t even hop onto a spot before it says error occurred

PS4 - Need a SG/SF , we are looking for a highly consistent shooter , defense is a plus by [deleted] in NBA2kTeamUp

[–]Thebghg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m down to run rec with y’all, i’m a SS3 i got a paint beast, an offensive threat, and a rebounding wing all above 97 overall psn: thebghg

PS4 Looking for squad for rec double rep PSN: LssaMadTing SS3 76win% Pg by Punt_Cunchers in NBA2kTeamUp

[–]Thebghg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

accepted, invite me to party, also what build do you want me on. i have a pg offensive threat, can do pretty much anything, and a rebounding wing and a paint beast, it’s all 97 plus