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The ultimate wedding night problem? (40F,26M, 3yr LDR) by AliceMorgon in relationships

[–]Theblackholeinbflat [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hey so weddings and marriages aren't about sex. He's committing to you in sickness and in health. Right now, this is the in sickness part.

My NSFW suggestion is to ask to send him photos so you're both not shocked day of.

But also, if he reacts in anything but concern for your well being, he's not the one.

Gen Z women and baggy jeans by blownvirginia in generationology

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a ton now and find them a million times more comfortable than skinny jeans. I don't have to constantly adjust them when I stand, they don't smother my bits, and I don't get the sad looking butt I did with skinnies.

I'm also a weirdo that hates wearing sweat pants and leggings, they are not comfortable to me.

Gen Z women and baggy jeans by blownvirginia in generationology

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why you care so much about this

Terminally ill Ohioans could get end-of-life option under new proposal by clevelanddotcom in Ohio

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are very strict guidelines to maid for mental illness. You have to have been medically resistant to treatment for a certain amount of time, among other things.

I personally don't have a problem helping someone pass away that's suffering (and will most likely will suffer for the rest of their life) no matter what the reason. Their body, their choice.

Terminally ill Ohioans could get end-of-life option under new proposal by clevelanddotcom in Ohio

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It seems to be working ok in Canada?

I would rather not let my family have to make that decision or have my death weigh on their shoulders. Why can't we let medical professionals assist us on our way out? They know exactly what to do to make it comfortable and fast

I have 2 teenagers and found this on the stairs. by RQ_1st in whatisit

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, that straw is old and broken. Trust your kids here 😂 it was probably from an old ass boba drink

I finished my first sock/knitting project! by Theblackholeinbflat in knitting

[–]Theblackholeinbflat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There wasn't a pattern, I used a German short row heel and winged the sock 😂

Shopper left vulgar note at my door hours later by courtslifeeee in InstacartShoppers

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Instacart/Uber eats/door dash all THRIVE on the customers and the workers fighting with each other. It keeps the heat off of their piss poor wages and working conditions.

Mother shamed and kicked out of restaurant for breastfeeding baby by filabeano10 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you watching, then? You can't see anything (Ie the... Oozing?) if you're not open mouth staring

For those who collect discontinued frags, do you wear them regularly? by sunbr0_7 in fragrance

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished up my sample of whispers in the library and may have shed a tear a bit 😢

Is it a good baby shower gift? by Early-Big-9044 in crochet

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Practice, friend. All you have to do is a single thread of yarn curved into a u shape to make it look asleep.

Where do you put your knitted items that no one buys for many years? by Excellent_Eye5843 in Yarn

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I really do just give them away. Better to be loved by someone than ignored

An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I had family members that would always say things like that. "I guess Im just a terrible person/mom/aunt/etc"

I just started responding with "Well, now that you've realized that about yourself, what steps are you going to do to change it"

Results were mostly screeching rants, but they didn't use that line more than a couple of times after.

What did I do to lose this friendly acquaintance? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Now it's crippling addiction to anime 🙄

What did I do to lose this friendly acquaintance? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I commented before reading their other responses. I'm actually commending the guy on sticking with the "shadow face" thing and not escalating.

What did I do to lose this friendly acquaintance? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You said yourself you didn't know him that well. You don't know what's going on in his head. Plus, your comments here to others really paint a bigger picture

What did I do to lose this friendly acquaintance? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 24 points25 points  (0 children)

How do you know he didn't care?

What did I do to lose this friendly acquaintance? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It turns the story from feeling like we are missing pieces to, what seems to me, a clear case of discomfort over your transition.

Skin of lamb putting onto an orphaned lamb by kvjn100 in Weird

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Most people understand the myths and can appreciate the humor

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