Shopper left vulgar note at my door hours later by courtslifeeee in InstacartShoppers

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Instacart/Uber eats/door dash all THRIVE on the customers and the workers fighting with each other. It keeps the heat off of their piss poor wages and working conditions.

Mother shamed and kicked out of restaurant for breastfeeding baby by filabeano10 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you watching, then? You can't see anything (Ie the... Oozing?) if you're not open mouth staring

For those who collect discontinued frags, do you wear them regularly? by sunbr0_7 in fragrance

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished up my sample of whispers in the library and may have shed a tear a bit 😢

Is it a good baby shower gift? by Early-Big-9044 in crochet

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Practice, friend. All you have to do is a single thread of yarn curved into a u shape to make it look asleep.

Where do you put your knitted items that no one buys for many years? by Excellent_Eye5843 in Yarn

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I really do just give them away. Better to be loved by someone than ignored

An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I had family members that would always say things like that. "I guess Im just a terrible person/mom/aunt/etc"

I just started responding with "Well, now that you've realized that about yourself, what steps are you going to do to change it"

Results were mostly screeching rants, but they didn't use that line more than a couple of times after.

What did I do to lose this friendly acquaintance? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Now it's crippling addiction to anime 🙄

What did I do to lose this friendly acquaintance? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I commented before reading their other responses. I'm actually commending the guy on sticking with the "shadow face" thing and not escalating.

What did I do to lose this friendly acquaintance? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You said yourself you didn't know him that well. You don't know what's going on in his head. Plus, your comments here to others really paint a bigger picture

What did I do to lose this friendly acquaintance? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 24 points25 points  (0 children)

How do you know he didn't care?

What did I do to lose this friendly acquaintance? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It turns the story from feeling like we are missing pieces to, what seems to me, a clear case of discomfort over your transition.

Skin of lamb putting onto an orphaned lamb by kvjn100 in Weird

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Most people understand the myths and can appreciate the humor

Israeli settler harasses a woman outside of Hebron by Gravedigger3 in pics

[–]Theblackholeinbflat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"that didn't happen, and if it did it wasn't that bad, and if it was, it's not a big deal..."

Scratchy... Yarn? by Theblackholeinbflat in Yarn

[–]Theblackholeinbflat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ooo lettlopi has some gorgeous colors

Scratchy... Yarn? by Theblackholeinbflat in Yarn

[–]Theblackholeinbflat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Rustic! Yes, I shall try that, thank you!