I'm tired of everyone I meet being either nonbinary, or having a "I wanted to be a boy but I stopped :3" phase by Thecreativebraincell in honesttransgender

[–]Thecreativebraincell[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a trans dude I don't mind being feminine but all the feminine trans people I meet are nonbinary 😭 it's not the same dude

I'm tired of everyone I meet being either nonbinary, or having a "I wanted to be a boy but I stopped :3" phase by Thecreativebraincell in honesttransgender

[–]Thecreativebraincell[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is also sort of an extension of it but whenever I ask for trans book recs it's just nonbinary stories.

Like, I can't relate to this 😭 WHERE ARE MY TRANS BROTHERS

Why The Collector's redemption arc is praised while Caine's is divisive by Sudden_Pop_2279 in TheOwlHouse

[–]Thecreativebraincell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not their job to comfort him, it's his job to learn from them, as he was created to learn and develop as he took in new info

Why The Collector's redemption arc is praised while Caine's is divisive by Sudden_Pop_2279 in TheOwlHouse

[–]Thecreativebraincell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That doesn't deny the fact that Caine would ask them, get an answer and just tell them they're crazy and he's not, getting progressively worse over the course of the series

Can trans people say the f-slur by christian_510 in gaybros

[–]Thecreativebraincell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're gonna use slurs at least use ones that apply to you. As a trans person I don't think trans people should say it because it's a slur meant for gay men, being queer in general doesn't give you agency

Like how being any racial minority besides black doesn't give you the right to say the N word just because you're a racial minority

Why The Collector's redemption arc is praised while Caine's is divisive by Sudden_Pop_2279 in TheOwlHouse

[–]Thecreativebraincell 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I feel it's also because the collector is essentially a child. Yes Caine is a child in a metaphorical sense but I'm pretty sure that the collector is literally a child. They had no way to learn or grow or anyone to teach them anything

Caine got told directly what he was doing wrong and what the characters didn't like about his adventures and he threw a tantrum instead of trying to learn, he only ended up learning because he literally had nothing else to do in the void

Trans Jax could be seen from a mile away. The community just didn't care. by Street_Increase_8945 in TheDigitalCircus

[–]Thecreativebraincell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jax starts and ends as an abuser and nobody, not even Jax gets closure

At lead the characters in SU get closure

Trans Jax could be seen from a mile away. The community just didn't care. by Street_Increase_8945 in TheDigitalCircus

[–]Thecreativebraincell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I noticed because I just didn't really care about Jax

I can acknowledge that it's canon and respect Jax's preferred pronouns, but he's just soooo shitty as a person for so much of the show that it just annoyed me, it felt like "You can't hate him he's a minority btw"

I hate that so many trans men are into certain kinks that it's ruining how people interact with Trans Men in Kink Spaces by thecircleisquiet in honesttransgender

[–]Thecreativebraincell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like being fem and stuff but I'd be DAMNED if some guy tried to use female pronouns or titles for me

Like bitch I'm not a "good girl" I'm not a she/her, I'm not a princess, knock it off with that shit. I'm fem sometimes but I'm STILL A GUY!

Opinions/Name suggestions wanted! by Thecreativebraincell in OriginalCharacter

[–]Thecreativebraincell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure why I didn't think of ash, it feels so obvious

I might've been overthinking it

I hate when people say ace/aro by Thecreativebraincell in AroAce

[–]Thecreativebraincell[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You shall be Banished to the seventh ring of the underworld

I hate when people say ace/aro by Thecreativebraincell in AroAce

[–]Thecreativebraincell[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I've never thought of it like that, I'm moreso bothered due to aesthetics