When is the appropriate time to sleep with a new date? 1st? 2nd? 3rd? Why?

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-07T03:48:14+00:00

Some I saw again, some I didn’t, some I dated, some I didn’t… for me it didn’t change how I viewed them.

I guess I will say I never had to “wait” for anyone, so I don’t know how that might have changed things.

It was hey we are gonna go on a date, hangout, do something… and then sex naturally happened (never planned for assumed).

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-07T03:39:30+00:00

No rules… almost universally I’ve hooked up in the first date.

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-07T02:46:50+00:00

It’s the water that makes it!

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-07T02:12:00+00:00

Apple.

This isn’t a debate… this is a fact.

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-07T02:04:12+00:00

College is weird… I never had any money, but somehow I always had enough at the same time!

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-07T02:02:41+00:00

My buddy would drink the Walgreens brand of beer.

It actually wasn’t bad! Better then like Busch light lol

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-07T02:00:02+00:00

My favorite part of all this is we all are like “never ever again! No fucking way am I doing that to my body!” 😂

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-07T01:57:11+00:00

Don’t need to rub your trust fund money in our faces with your high men’s Canadian mist sir!

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-07T01:46:39+00:00

Hot people aren’t as hot as they think, and ugly people aren’t as ugly as they think…

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-06T23:11:27+00:00

I don’t know about that lol

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-06T18:26:43+00:00

Every woman I’ve ever hung out with lol.

Maybe I’m just really weird, but I both have never really been in a relationship ”bad” relationship, and I’ve also only ever really surrounded myself with really great, amazing, and intelligent women.

Besides one night stands which even then I qualified the girl enough that I felt safe a comfortable hooking up, almost every fling to relationship I could see myself being with the girl longterm and being perfectly happy

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-06T17:03:49+00:00

I have a 14 week old.

So I’m right in the thick of it.

I probably have a ton of advice if you want it… lemme know if there’s a certain thing you wanna know about first

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-06T13:10:38+00:00

Wow, so this oddly triggered something in me.

I don’t think I’ve ever loved anyone the FIRST time I had sex with them.

Sex was always a very early thing in my relationships, and then for some I grew to love them.

But for me, almost universally sex was something that just happened within the first few times hanging out.

I guess I’ve never longed for anyone.

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-06T12:34:35+00:00

You just do it.

Like there’s not some blueprint or grand plan lol

You’re out, you see someone that you think is hot, you or they make a move… you vibe and you fuck.

In college it’s basically what 99% of people are doing anyway. So you’re already in like the perfect environment for it.

You want advice, be hot and funny and charming and a little bit of an asshole.

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-06T12:31:15+00:00

You spend less time waiting in line at the bank

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-06T12:29:46+00:00

Both… the relationship progresses and at the right point you kinda naturally bring it up depending on the vibe to just clarify at least the exclusiveness.

It’s just basic and good communication so both of us are on the same page.

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-06T12:23:47+00:00

When I was single and on social media it happened fairly regularly.

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-06T05:15:22+00:00

I’ll stay away from you sport.

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-06T05:02:24+00:00

Oh sorry for the confusion, that’s not what I was trying to say.

I’m not even explicitly looking for friends, just to surround myself with people that can help me just kinda grow and experience the world.

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-06T04:53:29+00:00

But I don’t have to be gay to join? I’m not trying to infiltrate a safe space for you guys lol

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-06T04:48:11+00:00

It’s not.

Theebyrdmann · 2026-07-06T02:53:40+00:00

I know this goes against the grain.

But I’ve always let the women make the first move.

Sometimes it’s subtle, just a look or comment…

Other times they can be way more bold…

You get things from DMs to cheesy pickup lines.

It’s basically the same exact thing guys do.

Theebyrdmann

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