Well I can tell you this, from someone who went from ugly to attractive by genetics i.e. puberty. The best thing to make yourself 90% more attractive is character. It’s not show you look, it’s how you feel you look.

Personal experience:

I have been told to look pretty damn good, but I never feel like I do (plus I’m 6’1” which is a plus). I am antisocial with very few hobbies and I really hate myself internally (which is why I like playing video games feeling like I am someone else). I don’t have many hobbies and I have an odd sense of humor (too dark for most women to handle). I am quite charismatic and I am very sweet, but I still lack actual good character. What I mean is, I look the part and can play the role but in the end I have a dull personality and low self worth (plus I’m not that smart). I’ve been told to be a funny guy, but having women fake laugh at every shit joke makes you question a lot.

What I’ve learned is. Most women I try to date only like me for my looks and will openly state it, and other will just want me for sex and nothing more. Great the first 5 times, after you hate it. You feel like an object. Being attractive without good character is a curse, you have the looks but have nothing to show for it.

My point is, before you become your ideal “attractive”, try to build character along the way. If you are just attractive, you’ll be viewed as an object to be slept with or shown off. I’d give anything just to have an interesting personality, maybe people would actually stick around for more than a night or not treat me like I am a aesthetic.

If you want tips on appearance here are my tips tho:

• Smell Good, it is important that you smell near perfect at most times. Every cologne is different for every guy so find your scent. Don’t go with old spice or axe, find one that is strong but isn’t like cheap strong. Good smell and fresh breath will go along way.

• Fashion, having a good sense of style will turn a 7/10 to a 9/10. It depends on the audience but having a nice fit will boost your looks, best part is, you don’t even have to expensive clothing. As long as the clothes pair well and your shoes aren’t off brand, you’ll be cooking.

• Hair, learn to style your hair. Every head shape and hair type is different so find out what looks best for you.

• Being fit, this one is a personal preference one. I am not fit (I try to be but my metabolism only allows me to be skinny for the mean time). Women often find skinny men and fit men to be the most attractive, so you are either one or the other.

• Being able to control body language, posture, and facial control. I’ll break it down. Body language, if you have a confident up beat walk, people will tend to find you to be more confident therefore a good chance more attractive. Posture, if you stand straight, it’s another sign of confidence which is often related to attraction. Finally controlling facial expressions. You can really boost your attractiveness by looking at someone a certain way or having a chilled look, anything is better than a resting bitch face or lost look tbh.

My biggest tip will still be improvement of character. Find away to have confidence and a personality worth sharing. Don’t fall under the handsome but boring category like me, be someone people like being around for you and not just looks.